Family & Relationships - 17 March 2007

Everyone is coming to me about their problems! One of my friends is fed up of everyone! My other friends boyfriend is mean and I hate him! My friends ex is depressed and wants to do drugs and drink and hurt himself! And my boyfriend wants to say something to me, I swear, but he isn't saying whatever it is! Everyone is calling me and I don't mind when they talk to me about their problems occasionally, but their problems is the only things I hear about these days! It makes me so mad, and I feel I could break any second now. Can someone give me some advice, pleeeeese!

2007-03-17 19:25:17 · 4 answers · asked by honey 1 in Friends

Sorry if this makes you throwup but... i need alot of help.Well When I take a dump... It hurts severally. sometimes it can change colors. i dont knoww... but i know it depends on what I eat that day... anyways ugmmm.... crap gets stuck between my che3eks.I really need your help.Whats the best solution to solving this mystery?

2007-03-17 19:25:07 · 18 answers · asked by Brooke D 1 in Singles & Dating

I wanna learn how to be romantic. But i don't know where to start. i've been with my girlfriend for couple years. i've done it all. i'm running out of ideas. i bought flowers sometimes. surprise her with notes and roses and chocolate. take her to a nice resturants sometimes. i mean i feel like i'm repeating myself. ladies what does it mean to be romantic? beside the activities i listed. thank you very much

2007-03-17 19:24:16 · 52 answers · asked by Chuck T 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 13 and i trying to get a better looking girlfriend than the last 2(i've had 6) but i still have trouble with girls,half of them asked me out,and the 2 girls i like are more popular than me and they say they have boyfriends but i think its because im not popular and good looking!?Please Help!?
(I at least need a date)

2007-03-17 19:23:45 · 10 answers · asked by Arizona boy 1 in Singles & Dating

my best friend aka my ex-gf (of 1 and a half years)is a very beautiful and talented girl and is about to audition for a neutrogena commercial and is being offered an agent and all these acting classes and stuff free.. she talks about being big and famous...and i am afraid that it migt happn and she'll forget all about me and that we wont be able to spend enough time together ...... i wantto be happy for her and i most certainly am but i cant deny the fact that i feel like ill be a thing of her past if she becomes big and famous...i don want to tell her but it makes me very sad cuz maybe if she does becme famous she's been told she will be doing alot of traveling and i really like spending time with her( i still love her) what should i do?

2007-03-17 19:23:43 · 2 answers · asked by brian g 2 in Singles & Dating

what I mean is that if she didn't wanted to have sex with him and he forced her beyond her will, is that considered rape? and what would you do if your wife once tells you this happened to her 2yrs ago?

2007-03-17 19:23:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-17 19:23:29 · 4 answers · asked by Free-Lance 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-17 19:23:13 · 16 answers · asked by cool_hand_luke613 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Last year my husband injured his back and needed surgery. During that time he could not do anything but lay around and use his laptop. It was 7 months before he got insurance approval for surgery. In that time he had an online affair with a b*#ch from the UK that he met on an online game. He was on strong drugs, valume and vicodin or oxycodin the whole time. The drugs turned him into someone I didn't know. During the same time his grandmother passed away......she raised him from the age of 2 when both his mother and father abandoned him. After his sugery he told me he was leaving to go to the UK and didn't know if he would ever be back. He left and was turned around at the airport......unfortunatlly they couldn't get him on a flight back for 2 days so he spent them with her. He was turned back because the woman has done this before and had complaints filed against her for fraud.......he inherited a good some of money. He was scamed. I know this, he knows this, he's ashamed and I hurt.

2007-03-17 19:22:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-17 19:22:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you spend with your sinificate other and your friends? do you equal it out or spend time with one more then the other? what about when you had a bad day who would you rather spend time with? does it bother you when you dont get the attention and time when you want it?

2007-03-17 19:20:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-17 19:20:34 · 13 answers · asked by cool_hand_luke613 2 in Singles & Dating

how many of you white/hispanic people spend the night with an african american thinking of the "big tool"?
And if so is it true, that in general african american males have "big tool"?

2007-03-17 19:19:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would you be mad if your husband went out with his friends to a going away party and it's 2:15 and he hasn't called?

2007-03-17 19:18:33 · 11 answers · asked by *~Cam's Mommy ~* 4 in Marriage & Divorce

The wife and I seperated over six months ago. She said she wasn't happy. She is seeing a guy from work and has been for about six months (humm?). I'm still very much in love with her. She has told me on a number of occations that she still loves me but she isn't sure of what she wants. This is really messing with my head, and even more with my heart. I want to wait it out to she what happens, but I don't think I can continue to subject myself to this. On the other hand I still love her to much to get into any relationship because I don't want to run the risk of hurting someone else. HELP please, if you can.

2007-03-17 19:16:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Say you love someone, but when do you know you've crossed the line into being obessed about your partner?

Could it be when they say they're going out, that they'll be back later but don't tell you where (as in they've just got up and left like that) and you kinda sit there nervous with butterflies in your stomach?

Just a question I was thinking about... when does one cross the line?

2007-03-17 19:16:19 · 10 answers · asked by Kali 2 in Singles & Dating

were both 17. this girl has pillow fights with me, puts her photo into my phone as wallpaper, calls up my friends, even parents for jokes, even though i dont find it amusing, always laughs at my jokes, she gets very close to me, and wont move away.....and likes to touch me alot, and play with things i have. i get mixed signals though, as sometimes during the day she wont talk to me at all, cause she studies, but when were together she cant stop talking, and offering me food, and drinks, and going out places.One thing she does alot is curls up and goes to sleep for like a minute,and then wakes up, and does it again......whats all this mean???she also tells me about times when shes stressed at school and so forth....one thing thats really wierd though, she likes to know what her name is on my phone when it rings???.........need help, im from canada btw guys. I like this girl heaps, and need her to know that, cause im really scared of losing her to someone else

2007-03-17 19:16:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay this is what he does...

- in class when i feel him looking at me, i look at him, and there he is with a big smile.
- he sumtimes looks at me when he's playing soccer.
- when i talk to him, he seems nervous to talk back (he's very shy).
- when he sees me in the hallway, he looks at me but then looks away (when i see him)
- when i say bye to him after school he says bye back very shyly with a smile.
- in class when sumone's messing with me, he sticks up for me.
- also once after school when i was walking behind him and his friend, they looked back at me, and they both smiled.

he's very shy!

does he like me or wat?

2007-03-17 19:14:45 · 10 answers · asked by Chica 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend and i have been close for about three years. We just recenrtly found out that we feel the same way about each other but decided not to committ to a relationship because it's crazy time in our lives right now. It turns out he's always liked me this whole time and i had no clue. He told me that if he wants something serious and long lasting with me.

Nowadays, he'll "fish" for answers concerning other guys and always ask, "if i go out with someone, theoretically speaking, how would you feel..." I keep telling him to do it but why does he care? If he likes the other girl, then he should. This is interesting, then he said, "well, if me and some girl break up, at least i know you'll always be there..." (as a friend)

We have such a cool history together - we've been best friends - soo close, can talk to each other about everything and yet this whole time we've liked each other and didn't know.

Does he still love me? and why is he doing this?

2007-03-17 19:14:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Like I said in a previous question. I have seen it all and done it all. If I decided I want to settle down with one man would my sexual history matter to him?

I guess what I'm asking is if he would consider me "unclean" like a sex worker.

2007-03-17 19:14:23 · 12 answers · asked by Sad Woman 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay so I have two friends with benefits...one doesn't want a commitment and one, I already dated and it didn't "work out." should I drop them both, or play the field?

2007-03-17 19:13:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My 17 year old son is in college and learning to be an EMT...he is also the bored 17 year old on Saturday night who wants to know what to do..hey he already did some chores, and studied..help...what do you think girls

2007-03-17 19:12:15 · 2 answers · asked by Olive 4 in Family

My husband ,of three years, is starting to spend a lot of time with his friends. Although he tells me that he loves me, his friends always come over and they go off somewhere. It feels like he only spends time with me because I complain. I have tried to talk to him, but it seems like it goes through one ear and out the other. Do you think he is cheating? bored? or just being a man. I love him very much but, I don't want to be ignored anymore. I also don't want him to spend time with me just because he thinks he has to. I am tired of being left alone with empty promises.

2007-03-17 19:12:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Iam a guy who has this huge crush on a 17 year old. and its been buggin me since i was 18 and she was 16. SHes a junior in high school and I substitute teach high school (not the reason why I work there garunteed). I know it sounds ridiculous but
I know that some people really frown upon a young adult dating an older teen. Is this doable I mean, I dont have any sexual motives for her or anything like that.(were both church goers). Iam 19 and still a virgin and I wanna keep it that way till iam married(i made it this far). I have no idea why i have such a rad crush on her either and to keep this professianal, It has nothing to do with my hormones, its strange. but I want to do the right thing no matter what, advice please

2007-03-17 19:11:47 · 14 answers · asked by Mrdude 2 in Singles & Dating

for the wedding besides putting money into a regular savings account? Is there anything else we can try? Any tips would be great.

2007-03-17 19:11:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Here's the deal. I have been with my boyfriend for two months and I have come to the conclusion that he is an extremely introverted person; quiet, very to himself, and hardly opens up about his feelings and whatnot making it a challenge for me to really know him better. We are together usually during the week about 4 days and during the weekends, it seems as though he takes his "mental days" and chooses to stay in his home and do his own things-studying, game playing, etc. and hardly sees me so I'm stuck on the weekends kinda boyfriendless if you know what I mean. When we are together- everything is GREAT and we have a great time and he is very lovey. When we don't see each other-its as if I don't exist and he rarely calls. After 2 months he still calls me by my 1st name- wheres the affectionate pet name I expect? I'm just wondering why he doesn't call me, even for a sec to say Hi more often and act like I don't exist when we don't see each other.

2007-03-17 19:10:37 · 11 answers · asked by gali8285 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-17 19:10:00 · 10 answers · asked by Mary Jane 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think it is ok if a married man goes to hang out with his friends for the whole Saturday night and come back only in the morning?
I was really upset, but did not want to limit his freedom, so did not say anything but blessed him

2007-03-17 19:09:20 · 21 answers · asked by snowdrop 4 in Marriage & Divorce

especially if you're a nice guy who's been treated horribly? Part of me couldn't be happier to finally get out, but (as could be expected) I miss having someone, along with having some security, affection, companionship, etc. I guess I will miss her too.....
It has been coming for a long time, and I did know this would come, but still am kind of rocked with mixed emotions. How would you recommend I just get over it and move on?

2007-03-17 19:08:08 · 12 answers · asked by fromorto12 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-17 19:07:45 · 11 answers · asked by Mary Jane 1 in Marriage & Divorce