Is it ok to do for a married man?

Question

Do you think it is ok if a married man goes to hang out with his friends for the whole Saturday night and come back only in the morning?
I was really upset, but did not want to limit his freedom, so did not say anything but blessed him

i do trust him, but made me upset anyway, 'cause i wanted to spend this night with him too.

Answer 1

No. This is definitely not ok. Married men should not neglect their wives like that.

Answer 2

No it's not OK for him to stay out all night and come home the next morning and you have every right to be upset. He ought to know better and if he doesn't you are well within your rights to tell him. He wouldn't like it if you did that would he? He acts like he's still single; like he's one of he boys. Freedom is one thing but so are boundaries and commitment. He needs to know the difference and you need to show him. This is plain out disrespect and neglect which you shouldn't put up with. So, the next time he tries to pull this stunt tell him you aren't going to be there in the morning so he better figure out what he wants from you and his marriage and he better find out soon. Don't be afraid to assert yourself and tell him how you feel. Stop acting like you are fine with this when you really aren't. That only makes him think that he is OK to do this. If you keep blessing him like this you may find out one day that he may end up never coming home.

Answer 3

The day you get married your freedom is limited. If you want to be free and not have a commitment to each other, don't get married. If you didn't want to spend the nights with each other then why get married. I'll bet it wouldn't be OK for you to be gone all night. I'll bet a lot of cheaters would like to be married to you, "she doesn't want to limit my freedom." Girl, your being played for a fool. Where and with whom do you think he is all night? Come on, get a brain.

Answer 4

You need to nip it in the bud. His got no reason to go out with out you. Why do you young girls think that your husbands need or should have their freedom? If they wanted freedom they wouldn't have got married, don't you think? But if you girls are going to keep letting them have the best of both worlds then it's your fault that they do this. You young ladies need to out your foot down to your husband and start reminding them that your married life is priority over their outings with the guys. If they have a problem with it then they shouldn't have got married. I mean whats the point in it if their always gone with their friends while you sit at home all alone. They know what your doing and where you are and who your with. DO you know where, who and what his doing? Really, do you? You only know what he tells you, right?Mmmmm?

Answer 5

Yes and the same goes for you!
AS LONG as it's with in both likings. In others words.
"Don't do anything to me that you wouldn't want me to do to you!" But if becomes a habit that he is going out on a regular basics and that is what is upsetting you by all means explain to him how this bothers you. Maybe he will then stop and think about what he is doing to upset you.

Answer 6

He should've called if he wasn't coming home. That's not right to leave your wife up worrying about you. If you trust him and have no reason to think he was up to no good, then I'd say, once in awhile, it's good to go out and waste the night away. But he should've let you know what was going on. AND he should give you the same freedom.

Answer 7

well, it depends. well ...no, a married man shouldn't need to be hanging out with friends so tough. he needs to get home. if he had of come in very late ...can slide, but the next friggin morning! yes, he needs his freedom but he also has to realize he is a married man, not a young college stud.

Answer 8

I got news for you there is only one thing going on after the bars close for the night . You go to a bar get drunk flirt with the women pick a woman out to take to hotel or to friends house have sex have more sex and take shower most important then come home to the wife who he knows trust him and would never think he could or would do that to her.
Honey that is why men have been getting away with it for so long because they have stupid women like us at home waiting for them to walk through the front door and in to our open arms.They think to them self( GOT AWAY WITH IT AGAIN ). Do you really think by giving him freedom that is going to stop him from cheating on you .Freedom or no freedom makes no differences a man is going to do what a man is going to do regardless of what you do or say.

Answer 9

Overall, no, because married or not, responsibility and communication are still needed. And it's something more that he's married, so that means he has responsibilities and should know what to do. But it depends on this situation because sometimes married men (group of friends) have their outings like camping trips or fishing trips, for example, and their wives know. But if this was unplanned and was not discussed with you, then it's not ok.

Answer 10

I'm married and love some freedom, so I know I have to afford my husband his...Do you trust him? Then let him do what makes him happy. If you try to constrain him, he'll be miserable and your relationship will suffer for it. Now if you don't trust him then that's another story. If he shows signs that he is unfaithful, forget about it--but if he is going out for some harmless fun with the boys, drinks too much and crashes (and you believe he is honest) don't worry.