Family & Relationships - 17 March 2007

How would you feel if your fiance (could be girlfriend or wife, etc.- but please only answer this in regards to a serious relationship) asked you to wear something like this? I want to get something like this for my fiance to wear. Also, how should the matter be approached?
http://cgi.ebay.com/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=330098852101

2007-03-17 19:05:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

lol ok what i know this is a really wierd question but if anyone could help me that would be great! so i like a guy, and i was just wondering what a good e-mail to send him would be. i want to send him an e-mail that he will really want to respond to, but i don't want to sound like i'm clingy. i know this is wierd, but this is pretty much the only way i can talk to him so any help would be great! thanks for any comments!

2007-03-17 19:05:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been with my bf for more than 3 years now. Even though we say that we love each other sometimes, I don't know what it really means. We talk about marrying, and living together sometimes, and we get excited (especially him). The thing is we are so young. I'm 19 and he is 22. So I get confused sometimes. My friends tell me that if it's meant to be it's meant to be. But I still stress about it sometimes, like i'm unsure if he truly loves me or cares for me. I know I shouldn't feel this way, but i really can't help it sometimes. Am I wrong for doing this? How do you tell if your bf loves you?

2007-03-17 19:05:40 · 8 answers · asked by Deesa 2 in Singles & Dating

one of my boyfriends moved to florida. the next broke his foot. then the next one moved. what the hell is going on? what do you think?

2007-03-17 19:05:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My MIL and my daughter are constantly a nusiance asking me to watch kids and get angry when we say no. My MIL has custody of my stepson (husband was in active military before we met and he could not take care of son and biological mother has not had contact with child for seven years now) and she still likes to party. The weekends are hers as she so loudly proclaims. But my husband and I like to go out on the weekends also. She insists that we take him every weekend for her or she will go to the court system and tell them that his father is neglecting him. My husband pays child support and does spend time with his son. We have appointments sometimes during the week and on Tuesdays she likes to go to the Legion Hall to party and karaoke, demanding we give up our plans so she can get a break and get out. My daughter is over every day and brings her five boys to our little one bedroom apartment and stays and stays even after we asked her not to come over so often. What can we do?

2007-03-17 19:05:23 · 6 answers · asked by Gypsy 2 in Family

we have been married 7 yrs. and just found out in oct. I was really devastated to find out, we have two daughters of our own 12 yrs, & 6 yrs, old.I never dreamed anything like this would happen. I truely love my husband, idont know how i can put up with his secret life . when im at work hes use the nylons , to satify his needs , and then when were to gerther he wants to be intimate with the two of us wear the nylons together. I some how feel somthing in my marriage has been taken awy. help!!!!!

2007-03-17 19:05:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-17 19:04:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My spouse shows several symptoms of being bi-polar. however he is in denial and insists there is nothing wrong with his wild ups and downs. His sister has been diagnosed wiath bi-polar manic depressive disease as well as his niece. Does this run in families. As a result of him not seeking diagnosis/treatment myself and our children are subjected to
what I call mental/emotional abuse. What can I do as his wife to get him the help he may need?

2007-03-17 19:04:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

of the candy man and like bloody mary how do we get over it????????????

2007-03-17 19:03:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ive been talking to her a lot on aim
somewhat in person
we hang out in different groups
im a lot taller than she is
like 10 inches
we do have similarities though
umm
parents know eachother so its a lil weird


should i even tell her? if so .. how ?

2007-03-17 19:02:18 · 15 answers · asked by Jay a 2 in Singles & Dating

i just cant feel love...what is love...i also suffer from depression.

2007-03-17 19:02:15 · 9 answers · asked by anup k 1 in Singles & Dating

with me? Could this work out? I am 37, divorced with two beautiful daughters, 9 & 8 yrs old... he is 27, never been married... he says he only ever dates older women and seems mature. I have been seeing him for 6mths casually but he has indicated he wants to take things more seriously... am I fooling myself?

2007-03-17 19:00:32 · 11 answers · asked by gudsport 2 in Singles & Dating

I like this asian guy but because hes asian i fear he only likes smart asian girls. I know im not that smart but I am active(ie invovled in many sports), and I don't wear makeup. I am an all natural girl, but how can I get him to like me. We talk but I don't thinks hes that into me because I am not smart. Do all asian males like smart women?

2007-03-17 19:00:05 · 9 answers · asked by Adorable B 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-17 18:59:26 · 14 answers · asked by buckaroo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He barely calls me, he barely txt's me, he wants to come down for a weekend to get to know me better, he keeps telling me to be careful about who I talk to on the net, he sticks up for me when no one else will, he lives in the U.S and I live in Canada I know its expensive to call Canada if you live in the U.S. Are these signs he is a stalker?

2007-03-17 18:59:22 · 7 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Family

I have had at least 50 lovers in my life (I stopped counting a while back). Some one niters, some first date, some long term. The problem is, I don't know if I can ever be monogamous. Should I even bother to get married or continue like this?

I live single and free to do what I want when I want. So what is it that I can get out of marriage that I don't already have? Also, would a man be interested in marrying a woman with a history like mine? Should I hide my history if I ever do meet the “one”?

Ladies, what would you suggest?

2007-03-17 18:58:53 · 14 answers · asked by Sad Woman 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this girl that works at the bank I goto. She keeps giving me signs that she is interested in me, and I have a feeling that she is waiting for me to make the moves. We don't really know each other but of course that is what a first date is for. How can I give her my number, without making a scene at the bank? And what would be a first good date?

2007-03-17 18:58:08 · 17 answers · asked by curiousone 2 in Singles & Dating

Hello, I will openly admit that I live a Domestic Discipline relationship with my husband. However, it is hard for me to discuss this with my mother and the groups I have looked for support in just "kick me around." Many of them do not share the same views as me. I am looking for an older woman, in her fifties or sixties even, that lives a Domestic Discipline relationship with her husband to connect to and talk about this and share. Are there any out there??

2007-03-17 18:56:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I get this weird feeling everytime my bf goes out with his friends. maybe it's jealousy, I don't know. Am I right for feeling this way? I just feel like I should be there too you know? He just went to see a movie with his friends, and we were suppose to see it. Should I get angry at him?

2007-03-17 18:55:31 · 11 answers · asked by Deesa 2 in Singles & Dating

i cant sleep but im exausted......i need to just go pass out....i atr a little bit to sober up but now im wired and i cant sleep. i want to go back to the bedroom and cuddle with my bf but im not tired. should i get drunk again and pass out or should i just do something to make myself tired.....any suggestions. please hurry i need sleep and i need help......wanna sing me a lullaby that might help lalalalala lol

2007-03-17 18:54:29 · 7 answers · asked by kitty45342 3 in Singles & Dating

maybe becasue of culture differances..........or
maybe because the guy doesn't have a clue

2007-03-17 18:53:56 · 27 answers · asked by Nishu 1 in Singles & Dating

We became friends almost 2 years ago, and ever since then, we have been inseperable, until her boyfriend of 8 months, came into play.
Ever since they started dating, i have been pushed to the back burner, with EVERYTHING.

Instead of inviting me to go to church with ehr, she invites him.

I only get to see her on Fridays, and everytime i see ehr, hes with ehr.

soo annoying.

Another thing, is that she tells her dad that she is at my house, but really s hes at his, so her dad thinks that we spend more time together than we actually do, so when she does ask to come over he says no becuase she has been spending too much time with me.

i really love her, and we get along great, we have never gotten in a fight before,

maybe because im too scared that if i say somthing, everything will be ruined. i dont want to lose her friendship, shes an amazing friend. and i love her more that anyone. i just want her to treat me like im her best friend, instead of the third wheel.

2007-03-17 18:52:53 · 5 answers · asked by ? 1 in Friends

well,my friend is cutting again..
i wanna help her but she doesnt want me to
what should i do?

2007-03-17 18:52:01 · 6 answers · asked by FLUFF PUFF<3 1 in Friends

I really like him and I think that I have to make the first move.

2007-03-17 18:49:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-17 18:49:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I feel like I've completely lost track of what there is to do for fun these day. I'm a night person, and I'm always up until the early morning. Movie theaters aren't open as late as I'd like on week days, and there just isn't anything else to do. Hookah Bars are expensive and my boyfriend doesn't drink, so going to a bar or club isn't an option. Any suggestions?

2007-03-17 18:49:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok so ky parants divorced when I was two after that me and my mom and older brother moved out of the state and then my dad was out of my life for about 7 years or longer granted the situation that arose when we moved didn't help any. my dad came back and the stuff we did was fun and I like what we did but I never really got to know my dad I went down to where my dad lives for the summer one year and he stuck me in a youth camp for the majority of the summer didn't get to know him!!! lately he has been lectureing me about things that I all ready know about. and it is driving me crazy!!! I love my dad I really do but I don't know should I tell him that I don't need him to tell me this or what do I do?

2007-03-17 18:49:09 · 8 answers · asked by Proud to be an American 2 in Family

Last fall semester, I had statistics class and talked with a beautiful girl named Wendy. She told me she had a boyfriend. Last winter semester, I had psychology class and talked with an okay looking girl also named Wendy. She and I were in the study group. One time, it was just us 2 in the study group, and we had a good chats. This semester in spring, I have Chinese class with another girl named Wendy..., and she's not very pretty. I haven't talked with her yet. The point is: in every semester there is a girl named Wendy in one of my classes! And plus they're all Asian! Could this be telling of the future?!!! Am I going to marry an Asian girl named Wendy?!!!

2007-03-17 18:49:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How long would you consider to long to be in the "talking status"? I am intrested in a guy that I began talking to a while a few months ago. At first he came on kind of strong and then backed off. I feel this may have partially been my fault in that I was not ready for a new relationship and wanted to take time to get to know one another. Still it seems as though we are both guilty of keeping strings on each other. Yet we do not see each other for weeks at a time. Is this normal?

2007-03-17 18:49:01 · 2 answers · asked by SassyChick 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this boy in my class that I was going out with in the beginning of the year. I broke up with him because he was a cheater. He asked me out again. What should I say???

2007-03-17 18:48:16 · 15 answers · asked by jd 1 in Singles & Dating