i just cant feel love...what is love...i also suffer from depression.
2007-03-17 19:02:15 · 9 answers · asked by anup k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why anup.....why did this happen to you..... just stop thinking if anything bad had happened to you to stay like this...... but if you were the same right from the beginning....please stop worrying......try to love.....love people..... start caring anyone and everyone who mean to you so much...... be kind to a stranger everyday..... slowly you will be loved by others.....and you can feel the power of love....all the best!!!!!!!
2007-03-17 20:01:25 · answer #1 · answered by Phoenix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people confuse "love" with feeling "in love". Love is a commitment to another person, it is mental rather than emotional. Being "in love" is a feeling, it is a wonderful feeling, but like all feelings it is not constant.
So often times you find people who are totally into someone, feeling in love, because they seem perfect. Then as you get to know the person a bit more and you realize that they are not an angel, just another flawed human being like you, these feelings may wear off. Hopefully though by then you've really come to appreciate them for who they truly are and commit to being with them and supporting them regardless of how you may feel that day. That's why marriage vows have words like "in sickness and in health, for richer or poorer". True love will still be there long after the infatuation with their looks, etc. is gone.
As for the depression, if it's something really deep, you should try to consult a shrink, a church elder, or just someone you look up to for advice. Otherwise, if you've just been feeling down lately, try to get out of the house. Spend time in the park, enjoying the weather. If you don't have any pets, go visit a pet store or volunteer to help at a no-kill shelter. Pets do wonders for our mental well-being. Also, try to hang out with as many of your friends that are a positive influence in your life as you can, and limit severely your interactons with those that bring you down. Read inspirational books, watch inspirational movies. Join a volunteer organization. As you help others you'll find that you are living a more meaningful life.
2007-03-17 19:33:47 · answer #2 · answered by yishor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Anup,
have u had eny bad experiences in the past??? eny way forget all about it. dont waste ur time, in sitting in depression. u have only life so live it to the fullest.
u said u dont feel love, u can feel love from the opposite side only ven u giv love to them firs.
all the best.
2007-03-17 22:43:14 · answer #3 · answered by Ramya R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard to say what love is...there is all different kinds of love...i felt raw...like my feelings were gone after i had my second baby...it was depression but it has slower gone away and i am getting feelings back again...all i needed was my strength and faith in myself...i still have bad days..but we all have good days and bad days..good luck..:) and cheer up!
2007-03-17 19:09:17 · answer #4 · answered by roxyoneonone 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to be around people I mean people you respect and lots of hot chicks and then watch your depression melt away.
2007-03-17 19:06:46 · answer #5 · answered by flydives 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Problem is you are not understanding the word 'my' you have used.
Get away from this word and see the world; all are equal and important, respectable and intelligent.
2007-03-17 19:23:39 · answer #6 · answered by deepak57 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need counseling for your depression...then seek love.
2007-03-17 19:06:45 · answer #7 · answered by Holly W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your gonna be single for the rest of your miserable life .
2007-03-17 19:21:29 · answer #8 · answered by youarestupid(; 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
first tell me whats your age..and what you do..?
2007-03-17 19:19:17 · answer #9 · answered by isham h 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋