My best friend, isnt really acting like a BEST FRIEND.?

Question

We became friends almost 2 years ago, and ever since then, we have been inseperable, until her boyfriend of 8 months, came into play.
Ever since they started dating, i have been pushed to the back burner, with EVERYTHING.

Instead of inviting me to go to church with ehr, she invites him.

I only get to see her on Fridays, and everytime i see ehr, hes with ehr.

soo annoying.

Another thing, is that she tells her dad that she is at my house, but really s hes at his, so her dad thinks that we spend more time together than we actually do, so when she does ask to come over he says no becuase she has been spending too much time with me.

i really love her, and we get along great, we have never gotten in a fight before,

maybe because im too scared that if i say somthing, everything will be ruined. i dont want to lose her friendship, shes an amazing friend. and i love her more that anyone. i just want her to treat me like im her best friend, instead of the third wheel.

Answer 1

This happens a lot! You should tell her how you are feeling, you will feel better. Life happens, go with the flow... who knows, maybe you will get a boy friend and then you can double date or something:)

Answer 2

Just let her know, that you'll always be there for her. Every friendship goes through this, when relationships come into the mix.

It'll take time for her to equal out the attention between you and her boyfriend, and until then, hang out with your other friends. Just because she's your best friend, doesn't mean she can't hang out with other people. You'll probably do the same (whether you realize it or not), when you get a boyfriend.

Let her know, you'd like to have a girl's night in/out every once in a while, because you miss her. Don't blame it on the boyfriend, and don't blame it on her.

She's still your best friend, but she's also dating someone, and therefore you do not come first priority (nor does he, but she knows you'll be there no matter what).

Answer 3

you should tell her how you feel
and if she doesn't understand
and try to make time for best friend hangout
then maybe she's not worth your time
cuz chances are if this bf doesn't work out
she'll come crawling to you and then ditch you
again when she finds a new bf

so just tell her how you feel
and if shes a true friend
she'll understand
i'm sure she will

Answer 4

That's gouing to happen when a third person comes into the picture, but you can start by telling her you're not going to cover for her anymore.

Answer 5

just tell her how you feel and that you would like to have a girl's day out minus her boyfriend and see what she says