how much time..?

Question

do you spend with your sinificate other and your friends? do you equal it out or spend time with one more then the other? what about when you had a bad day who would you rather spend time with? does it bother you when you dont get the attention and time when you want it?

Answer 1

Actually, when I spend time with my boyfriend... I spend time with our friends too...

I hardly have alone time with my bf of 13 months. He always asks our friends to come hang out with us every weekend we get to see each other. It has started to bug me. I know the reason... I am waiting till marriage to have sex and he doesn't want us to have alone time because then we may get too close to actually doing it.

But anyways, when I have a bad day... I would rather spend time with my boyfriend.... no doubt. We both have the same friends. And honestly, I don't hang out with them without him. It's weird, I guess.

And it does bother me a bit that I don't get the attention and time when I want it.... as in spending time with JUST HIM.

Answer 2

I spent the balance of time with my wife(but I considered her my best friend).

As far as when I had a bad time, I would rather be around my wife - she could always make me feel better no matter how bad my day was.

I never had to worry about attention or time with her because we enjoyed each other's company - that sort of the reason we got married.

Answer 3

I spend more time with my partner than friends. In good time and in bad time.

Answer 4

always more time with family. they will be there until you die, most of your friends wont. wouldn't you like to have memories to talk about with the ones that are still with you when your old?

Answer 5

try and remember everyones different and be understanding about that persons needs.