2007-03-17 19:10:00 · 10 answers · asked by Mary Jane 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well to those of you that left smarty pants remarks. I was just asking a question - no need to call names. No, it is not the same!!! If a woman is with another woman, she is doing something that she can not do with her husband. She can't get pregnant by a woman or be penetrated by a woman! If a woman were to be with another man, I think that is worst because she has a man at home so that would be her seeking the same thing she has at home (not something different). PLUS she runs the risk of getting pregnant by the other lover - not something she can get by another woman. Think about it and stop jumping the gun when you answer questions...
2007-03-17 19:38:48 · update #1
I never knew that cheating has gender... Hm! I've always thought that it was about sexual pleasure and being already in a relationship...
2007-03-17 21:09:39 · answer #1 · answered by myliz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is just as bad, because when you got married, you vowed to stick to that one person "forsaking all others" - this doesn't say just other men, does it?
On the other hand, I can understand your dilemma. Your husband can't supply what you need - he simply has the wrong anatomy. You could try seeing if he understands your need for this (hopefully not at his expense), but this is pretty risky. Or maybe try suggesting a threesome - that way, you can have some female action for yourself without it becoming a problem (assuming he consents.) Of course, you will have to accept that he will be with another woman, even if you are there as well...
PS: A woman can be penetrated by another woman - using fingers. However, this doesn't really matter. What matters is that it is still sex, whether there is penetration or not. After all, how would you feel if your husband had someone performing fellatio on him behind your back?
2007-03-18 02:51:28 · answer #2 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is cheating and it makes no difference whether is with a man or a woman, it is just as bad either way. I know of one marriage that the wife left her husband for another woman. So what do you think??
2007-03-18 02:17:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IMHO, cheating is cheating no matter what the gender is. Even an on line affair is cheating. Anytime your affections are give to someone other than your mate it is cheating!
2007-03-18 02:14:16 · answer #4 · answered by Jo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't be serious? Cheating is cheating and if you can't figure this one out on your own, I feel sorry for you.
Maybe I should say I feel sorry for your husband.
2007-03-18 02:24:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is cheating. Why don't you ask your husband if he thinks it's okay for you to go vagitarian?
2007-03-18 02:17:55 · answer #6 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES,YES,YES!
Cheating is cheating and I would through the wife to the curb!
2007-03-18 02:13:22 · answer #7 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, here is my opion if you share what you are doing with your hubby then maybe you can have both. i personally am married for 10 years but with my hubby's understanding i also sleep with women. it is all about what you and your husband can share wether its him watching or you sharing your experiences. its OK to be bi and OK to be different.
2007-03-18 02:23:04 · answer #8 · answered by Torey H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its as bad or way worse cause your not even sure about your sexuality and your not even sure about yourself...
2007-03-18 02:14:00 · answer #9 · answered by Olive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say it was the same...
2007-03-18 02:13:32 · answer #10 · answered by sangogirl8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋