Everyone is coming to me about their problems! One of my friends is fed up of everyone! My other friends boyfriend is mean and I hate him! My friends ex is depressed and wants to do drugs and drink and hurt himself! And my boyfriend wants to say something to me, I swear, but he isn't saying whatever it is! Everyone is calling me and I don't mind when they talk to me about their problems occasionally, but their problems is the only things I hear about these days! It makes me so mad, and I feel I could break any second now. Can someone give me some advice, pleeeeese!
2007-03-17 19:25:17 · 4 answers · asked by honey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you must be giving them good advice for them to keep coming back and if so you can do one of two things one avoid everyone to you feel up for advice or two stop giving them advice and they will find someone else to nag too, Good luck and make sure that your friends are also there for you and that your not the only one giving to the friendship because that could also be why your starting to feel like this.
2007-03-17 19:31:55 · answer #1 · answered by randrnorman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either tell them that you don't want to know their problems or go and do a psychology course and make yourself some money out of being able to help others.
2007-03-18 02:48:18 · answer #2 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them to give you some space because you feel really overwhelmed. You are very stressed out so you need to speak up to them. Don't be a pushover.
2007-03-18 02:29:37 · answer #3 · answered by DANCER_CHiCK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them in the nicest way possible TO BACK THE HELL OFF!!! Nah, maybe just suggest they see a shrink or something. good luck
2007-03-18 02:33:21 · answer #4 · answered by jemm4president 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋