Family & Relationships - 9 March 2007

I mean I really, REALLY hate him!!! He has not been a part of my sons life hardly ever (hasn't seen him in over 5 years now)even though I have given him every opportunity He has accused me of things I did not do. I have waived him of thousands of dollars of arrears yet he has been nothing but a big jerk . The biggest thing is his wife - who is a total witch and who has lied to him so many times about me.We do not talk now (thank gawd!) but I still harbor bitterness and resentment towards him. He even fights any kind of child support! He fights everything with me and gives me a hard time. I have asked im to give him up for adoption so my husband can adopt my son but he refuses. Heck, even after our son was born even with problems I respected his request to change our son's last name to HIS name!!! I have been so nice to this guy, yet he has screwed me over so many times. I'm so done with him. Sorry needed to vent!

2007-03-09 11:32:19 · 28 answers · asked by someoneyoudontknow 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my friendshas a restraining order against him by his wife. The only time he can be near his wife is during visitation drop offs or his kid and they are not allowed to talk about anything but about the kid. One day he picked up his kid at the coffee shop. My friend and his wife both left. my friendreturned to the coffee shop moments later with his kid to order something, she returns to the shop and gets in line directly behind him at the coffee shop to order something. my friend has not been talking to her out of fear of violating the order. why is she doing this if there is a restraining order against my friend? The restraining order has been for 8 months.

2007-03-09 11:31:57 · 3 answers · asked by hurtin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok well. .. I go to this community theatre and i met met this guy he is funny sweet and cute but now I have to stop going to the theatre and i think i love him but i am not even allowd to talk to him on myspace and stuff like that and he knows i like him just to add that but what should I do to get over him~advice please :/

2007-03-09 11:31:52 · 3 answers · asked by shops_in_nyc 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We are having a Jack and Jack in place of the traditional shower or stag. We have 5 groomsmen and 5 bridesmaids in our wedding party. We have not asked them to help us with anything as of yet (our wedding is in may), but would like for them to help us out by purchasing some of our raffle prizes. I don't mean that they each have to go out and purchase $300 radios, or anything like that~ gift certificates, and things like that would be great. I haven't asked them to help us, my sister will probably suggest the idea. However *my question* is, are we required to *reimburse* them for the prizes they purchase? I've heard varying opinions, and would love to hear from someone who has done something similar. Help!

2007-03-09 11:31:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

((i like him))

2007-03-09 11:31:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

there is this idiot in my art class that constantly insults me and points out all the things the things that are wrong with me. some say that he likes me but i disagree, any way i like a different person in the same class and i want him to stop.

2007-03-09 11:30:11 · 30 answers · asked by ladyslippers 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 11:29:29 · 22 answers · asked by primamaria04 5 in Singles & Dating

I am in love with a great man, we met online, and he is in a different state. my birthday is next week so he wanted to fly here to see me. at first i said that it would be great, but then, the next day, i told him that even though i love him so much, its to soon for him to visit. now he wont talk to me at all. why wont he talk to me?

2007-03-09 11:29:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would you do it again?

2007-03-09 11:29:06 · 21 answers · asked by Batson D. Belfrey 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 11:28:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

& now he's being very mean to me and argues with me and puts me down. Why can't he just leave me alone? Why is he acting the way he's acting??????????

2007-03-09 11:28:17 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok there is this boy at school that i really like and he acts like he likes me but he tells everyone he doesn't . Every time he sees me he blushes and looks at the ground and smiles . His friends look at me in weird ways and when he found out i liked him he started being nice to all the people i hang out with . so do u think he likes me ?

2007-03-09 11:27:36 · 7 answers · asked by sugark93 1 in Singles & Dating

well my friend she always needs to cut me and i say no but she says who is the poupuler girl and i don't replie wat should i do??????say something mean to her???or back off??

2007-03-09 11:27:16 · 6 answers · asked by simabina r 2 in Friends

She's married but unhappy, but at the same time she don't want to hurt his feelings and tell him. I want to tell him or her to tell him? is it wrong to pressure her or let whatever happens happen.

2007-03-09 11:27:13 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok ive known this girl for a couple years now. Just recently ive started to develope feelings for her. Ive recently tried asking her out but i have a feeling shes not having it. For example the first time i asked she said she didnt feel like it and asked if i wanted to go another time and i told her ok yeh whenever u want to (so i pretty much put the ball in her court but she hasnt responded to it yet) and the second time she said she was sick (which i feel is just a way around it). But my main problem is she still acts really friendly towards me whenever i see her. So how should i take this? should i keep going or just drop it all togethere.

2007-03-09 11:27:00 · 8 answers · asked by scott c 1 in Singles & Dating

It seems like everytime I invite him to hang out with us he'll make up some excuse not to. I invited him to play pool, go bowling, sporting events, lake tahoe....but he always says no whenever I mention it's my friends and I. At first I didn't take it so personal but now its pissing me off! We've been dating about 7 months now. Is this not a good sign, what could it be? Or what should I do?

2007-03-09 11:26:41 · 1 answers · asked by a1980 3 in Singles & Dating

OK guys and girls my sister is in 7th grade her birthday is on Tuesday and i don't have anything for her! can you think of a cheap cool present? thanks so much! :)

~Smile cause God loves you~

2007-03-09 11:26:26 · 4 answers · asked by ♥ღ...∂αηg3яσυѕℓу ιη ℓσν3...ღ♥ 5 in Family

well i've been going out w/ this guy for a week and a day and i like him sooo much but hes so annoying. like whenever we're at a game he follows me around EVERY WHERE! Its so annoying!
And everytime i talk to him hes always like r u gonna brake up w/ me and like asking if im mad at him.
OMG its so annoying
Wut should i do??

2007-03-09 11:26:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't exactly know where to put this question...

I am adopted, and I am SOO happy that I have been and all. I'm so grateful and stuff, I have friends who don't care that I'm adopted or anything. I'm korean adopted into caucasian parents.

Though I have had a couple experiences of people who seem to not like me or something after they find out I'm adopted. Someone called me a freak or something recently and it made me wonder about this...

2007-03-09 11:26:00 · 20 answers · asked by SarangHaeyo 2 in Family

me and my boyfriend have been dared by my friend to go out for 62 months, which is 5 years and one month, so far we been going out for almost three months. our relationship is strong when something bothers us we can tell each other and this has been thee best relationship i`ve been in, what do you think , will we make it,(if we do we most likely get married then )

2007-03-09 11:24:55 · 31 answers · asked by Loving_This_Time_Around 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 11:24:50 · 24 answers · asked by ShogiO 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 14 and i weigh 114 and I'm only 5'1! how can i loose weight? any tips or websites would be greatly apprieciated. I get called fat a lot and i believe im the fattest of all of my friends. Even though most of the time its not even my friends who call me fat! Its mostly some boyz and former friends who i still thought were my friends!
Thank You

2007-03-09 11:24:39 · 8 answers · asked by baby gurl 2 in Singles & Dating

my wife said she often thinks of being with another person male and sometimes female. the only thing that stops her is our religious beliefs. do you think one day she will act on these fantasies? she would like to explore her sexuality. sometimes i would like to try other females but i just feel this is wrong. i have not done so but we talked about swinging. i don't think i can handle my wife with another man other than me. i do not think i would want to be together after that. our relationship is very valuable but i would like to please her as well. what you you do, couples?????

2007-03-09 11:24:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

not so long ago i remember doing chores for money and then saving that money to but things i wanted. what's with kids getting cell phones and expensive electronic things at age 9 or even younger. i have an 11 yr old that keeps bugging me for a cell phone. i say, why? i know where you are at all times, your only 11, you don't get to have too much freedom yet. am i wrong?

2007-03-09 11:23:08 · 7 answers · asked by katgirl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If so, why do married ppl look so boring?

2007-03-09 11:23:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Theres this guy and his always staring at me when i walk down the hallway... we have never talked .. why does he do this? today he tried to talk but then he didn't i saw him look at me and trying to say something but then his friend interrupted him ...

2007-03-09 11:22:29 · 6 answers · asked by Stan 1 in Friends

A few years ago my friends and I were at a RenFaire when we came upon a set of stocks...you know the heavy wooden contraptions with two holes for your ankles to go through and lock you in. In the way old days they would lock the bad guys in these things in the town square, and humiliate them in public. My "buds" convinced me to get in for a photo, so I sat on this bench, put my ankles through the holes, and they locked me in, trapping me good. Then they removed my shoes and socks and began to tickle my feet until I went crazy with laughter. Several strangers even took a crack at me. I was so embarrassed but I couldn't stop them. If you had happened by right then, would you have been tempted to tickle my feet as well? If you saw me being helplessly tickled out of my mind, would you want to rescue me or help tickle me crazy? And if you saw that I was incredibly ticklish would that effect your decision? I'd really like to know what you'd do. How much of the devil do you have in you?

2007-03-09 11:22:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

okay first im so sorry for reposting..but I need more help lol
(if you already answered this than at least you can get 2 pts!)
ugh. So a lot of this is to rant but i need advice...(ps-im 17)
1- I am going out of town this weekend with my boyfriend (of 8 months) and his family...I LOVE his family but lately he is bugging me. I love him but i dont think im in love...and i tried to break up with him but couldnt do it. I REALLY at least want tonight to myself because we are leaving tm. and we already made plans to hang out...what do i do?
2-I have been talking to my ex/first love and am starting to get the feelings again (butterflys, smiling when i think about him) kind of thing. the only problem is we both have new lives and new boy/girlfriends.
3- my "best friend" is trying to control everything i do, and always says im blowing her off even when im not. I try to include her in things but she is super passive agressive. I dont know how to deal with it...suggestions?

2007-03-09 11:21:55 · 19 answers · asked by *Cole* 3 in Friends

Me and my girlfriend use to always talk about having a threesome while having sex, and afterwards use to feel a bit sicken of it due to jelousy and all of that, now afterwards we just talk about which guy or girl should we get for our threesome, does this mean we are ready?

2007-03-09 11:21:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hold the magic stick.....he came rite up to u and said that. and lets say u know this person for a while or u have met him before. how would u react and what would u say and what would u do?

2007-03-09 11:21:28 · 10 answers · asked by ♥Olivia♥ 4 in Singles & Dating