Family & Relationships - 9 March 2007

I am desperate please help. I NEED KICK MY SIS IN LAW OUT OF MY HOME WITHOUT GETTING MY HUSBAND INVOLVED.. I NEED TIPS to do that.I have had an arranged marriage and am married for 3 years, my husband is from india and i live in US. he come here with me after marriage and my sis followed in 2 years,and lived in nyc, she is here on student visa, pretending to be studying (she keeps on failing her pharmacy exam).My husband moved to NY last year and so we got a two bedroom apartment so she can save some money, I could not move here since i was looking for a job. Now i am here since since Dec and after living with her for 4 months now i cannot stand her.she was never on my good side. i think she is too fake nice to me as she needs me, she always tries to over do me and compare and this stuff really bothers, now her BF has moved in withus we did charge him nething has my hubby is lookin out for her sis. i just want them both out after the weddn june, without letting my husband know aboutit

2007-03-09 11:42:41 · 17 answers · asked by PM student 1 in Family

My ex- boyfriend who says we are still talking but not together feels like he is bering forced into getting back together with me because I keep asking him what were doing, are we together or aren't we? Before i broke up with him we would fight alot, now we have only faught 3 times this month, what should i do? should I wait and try to work it out and take things slow like he wants, or should I leave and not come back because he's just playing me along?We have only been split up for a month!

2007-03-09 11:42:05 · 11 answers · asked by chelsmat2001 2 in Singles & Dating

one time there was a boy infront of me and my friend pushed me on pourpes and i fell on him wat should i do next time.. I AM 9 YEARS OLD NO BAD WORDS

2007-03-09 11:41:54 · 7 answers · asked by simabina r 2 in Friends

In high school I was teased by some students including girls because I was fat, nerdy, and had glasses. However while attending college away I lifted weights, joined boxing, and now dress with the best urban gear. I now am able to get any woman I want and when I came back home I rejected and nsulted those girls who teased me in high school that now want me and they was upset and felt bad that I did that to them. Is this great revenge?

2007-03-09 11:41:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok..So here goes. My fiance left me at 7 months pregnant to take a job 2000 miles away with his father..We was still together and then he called last month and broke it off with me. We was together for 7 years, I am 23 and he is 22. He treated me SO good. I know we both have our flaws. Now..He called me last week because he heard from a friend I had been seeing someone..Which I'm not and told him so but he still flipped out. He tells me 3 days ago that he just started "talking" to another girl...I am so hurt. I told him not to contact me again and I will see him when he comes down to see our son being born. He text msged me last night that he isn't happy without me. I didn't send him anything back because I feel like he is playing games with my head. I don't know why I still want him back but I won't let him know that. I just wonder how is it that easy for him to get over the love of his life and his unborn child?

2007-03-09 11:41:31 · 3 answers · asked by angelsdeath420 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

1.do you make a point to sit with your ex at your childrens sports games?

2.if your ex wanted to go to a parent/teacher conference(for your child) with his new wife not with you would you mind going alone?

2007-03-09 11:41:18 · 12 answers · asked by karenmarlku89 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I are 21 and when the weekend comes along kind of agree to go our own seperate ways if each of us has something to go do. We have two kids and our kids stay at my moms house on the weekend, which I don't mind at all because she doesn't get to see them during the week and by the time the weekend comes we both need a break. As long as we don't cheat on eachother is this ok?

2007-03-09 11:41:15 · 24 answers · asked by wifey 2 in Marriage & Divorce

1.do you make a point to sit with your ex at your childrens sports games?

2.if your ex wanted to go to a parent/teacher conference(for your child) with his new wife not with you would you mind going alone?

2007-03-09 11:40:59 · 4 answers · asked by karenmarlku89 1 in Marriage & Divorce

They brag about the people that they sleep with? They explain it with detail, where, etc.. It is stupid! who else agrees with me?

2007-03-09 11:40:41 · 6 answers · asked by alohaforever16 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 11:40:10 · 6 answers · asked by sexandthecityluvr 1 in Singles & Dating

well me n my gf broke up after 8 months well she broke up with me cause she said that i was being to protective, well she said she just dont feel the same about me anymore we have been through so much together and were really in love with each other, we planned our life together and everything and had so much in common we would talk all the time everyday sometimes all day we would be together everychance we could get and she said just sometimes i would act more like her parents then her gf idk what i did i would change for her i love her more than anything and she is my life she still talks to me but barley any and she said she still loves me and cares about me as a friend and nothing else. she says there is no one else but idk if there is or not she isnt the type that would just do that either i really love her and care about her more than anything we would never fight or anything and all of a sudden this what can i do? do you think we can ever get back together?

2007-03-09 11:40:06 · 5 answers · asked by Brandon D 2 in Singles & Dating

When my gf broke up with me, she said that she needed some space. What did she mean? Also, everyone at school hates to see us broken up. She says she still loves me, but she just needs some space. Do you think we will be able to get back together? we never fought or anything...

2007-03-09 11:39:54 · 19 answers · asked by Matt 3 in Singles & Dating

My bf and her ex dated 4 two years.
She wasn't happy so a month ago she broke up wid him.
he still loves her and tells her he wants to hang out she dosen't know how to
tell him No!


And is askin me 4 advice


can u guys please help!

2007-03-09 11:39:45 · 6 answers · asked by Bianca P 1 in Singles & Dating

like she has like crush's on 4 or 5 guys

and she knew this one guy first but they arent together
but everytime she gets a friend thats a guy
she like "claims" him like i shouldnt be hsi freind
and acts all hissy
well this 1 guyi like and he is hot
and i wanna go for it
but shes into him to saying she knew him first
idk what to do
she has a bf already and 3 other crushes
and she has a another crush on a guy im crsuhing on to and i knew that guy first and she still talks to him
so why cant i talk to this new guy

i told her shes being mean and she said " i didnt mean it bitchy i jsut saying i knew him first"
she hasnt ever acted like this to me before
and shes staking claim

what should i do

2007-03-09 11:39:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't mean a marriage I'm only 13 so I just want to know how to make a RELATIONSHIP last.

2007-03-09 11:39:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been gone for 3 months and when i signed onto our messenger my wifey had a statis message that read ( so damn good) that oblivious was used once, whats your thoughts on this?

2007-03-09 11:39:25 · 5 answers · asked by john l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She said its not pain please help me
NEED U-R-G-E-N-T- help!! PLease hhurry

2007-03-09 11:39:19 · 9 answers · asked by free4daworld 1 in Family

When a guy have sex with a guy for the first time does it hurt?

2007-03-09 11:39:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 11:38:52 · 18 answers · asked by Taken For Granted 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 11:38:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok..So here goes. My fiance left me at 7 months pregnant to take a job 2000 miles away with his father..We was still together and then he called last month and broke it off with me. We was together for 7 years, I am 23 and he is 22. He treated me SO good. I know we both have our flaws. Now..He called me last week because he heard from a friend I had been seeing someone..Which I'm not and told him so but he still flipped out. He tells me 3 days ago that he just started "talking" to another girl...I am so hurt. I told him not to contact me again and I will see him when he comes down to see our son being born. He text msged me last night that he isn't happy without me. I didn't send him anything back because I feel like he is playing games with my head. I don't know why I still want him back but I won't let him know that. I just wonder how is it that easy for him to get over the love of his life and his unborn child?

2007-03-09 11:37:34 · 6 answers · asked by angelsdeath420 2 in Marriage & Divorce

mention sites

2007-03-09 11:36:46 · 3 answers · asked by ramo17y 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't want it to be no anymore! I mean all the guys at my school are freakin' perverts and buttheads! Ask ANYONE who goes to Cooper in OKC! Right now I like this guy but I don't want to ask him out for that reason... because he will probably say no... I really like him and I want a boyfriend. Help please!!!! And please don't give me some stupid answer!!!! Thanx

2007-03-09 11:36:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Best friend is awesome . But i like this boy. and My best friend is really good friends with him what do i do?!( I NEver told my friend i like him )

2007-03-09 11:35:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok this is how it is. Theres this guy in work who I have not instantly but gradually become quite attracted to but the thing I always got the certain vibe off him that he was attracted to me, you know, the body language, the extra long gaze into your eyes. I've never been wrong before but I'd love to know for certain if he's attracted to me. How can I find out without confronting him obviously!!

2007-03-09 11:35:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Mention reasons.

2007-03-09 11:35:24 · 16 answers · asked by ramo17y 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok..So here goes. My fiance left me at 7 months pregnant to take a job 2000 miles away with his father..We was still together and then he called last month and broke it off with me. We was together for 7 years, I am 23 and he is 22. He treated me SO good. I know we both have our flaws. Now..He called me last week because he heard from a friend I had been seeing someone..Which I'm not and told him so but he still flipped out. He tells me 3 days ago that he just started "talking" to another girl...I am so hurt. I told him not to contact me again and I will see him when he comes down to see our son being born. He text msged me last night that he isn't happy without me. I didn't send him anything back because I feel like he is playing games with my head. I don't know why I still want him back but I won't let him know that. I just wonder how is it that easy for him to get over the love of his life and his unborn child?

2007-03-09 11:34:37 · 9 answers · asked by angelsdeath420 2 in Singles & Dating

actually all 3 of my sister inlaws a serious psychos how do i deal with them? my husband has told me in the begining that he wants all us to be best friends but that wasnt possible due to his sisters strange rude way of acting towards me for exp: older sis always mentioned his name when calling us. she spoke to others about me indirectly to my face(like disses)..and when i greeted her with a hello she was like yeah yeah hello when i said bye she was like why u telling me bye go i dont care..i stayed quiet cuz i was new,then she took us out to dinner(her brother but ofcourse he took me)when he went to get the car she attacked me by saying who do u think u r and i was shocked shes a b**, she seemed to have gassed her sis(who wasnt married living at home)about me so that sis outa nowhere started being so rude like slamming doors when i pass by the hall.says insults about me when passing

2007-03-09 11:33:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-09 11:33:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Last night I sent this guy I have been flirting with a text at 11:30pm and said, "I can't sleep and I just wanted to say hello, when do you think you are going to take a cruise, and see all the hot women on the ship". I am a travel agent and I wanted him to get the hint that the hot women were me, do you think he got the message?

2007-03-09 11:33:21 · 1 answers · asked by Kemma 3 in Singles & Dating