My ex- boyfriend who says we are still talking but not together feels like he is bering forced into getting back together with me because I keep asking him what were doing, are we together or aren't we? Before i broke up with him we would fight alot, now we have only faught 3 times this month, what should i do? should I wait and try to work it out and take things slow like he wants, or should I leave and not come back because he's just playing me along?We have only been split up for a month!
2007-03-09 11:42:05 · 11 answers · asked by chelsmat2001 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you love him, time will tell, becasue remeber whast meant to be will be... give a little time... and if fights come up still.. girl he aint the one!
2007-03-09 11:45:16 · answer #1 · answered by xX_0o_Xx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU broke up with HIM. YOU have to deal with the consequences. IF you two are NOT together then start dating other guys. DO NOT brag about this to him, but don't try to hide it either. Also continue dating him. This will show you how he really feels. Give it a month and DO NOT ask him again if you all are 'together or not'! Chances are if he is still feeling you, this will make him ask you back out to claim you as 'his' so you aren't dating other guys. If he gets mad then he is playing you and MOVE ON!
2007-03-09 19:49:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is OK to disagree, but "fighting" is not something you want. If your fights are true fights, you need to find a better way to work through your problems, and always remember, sometimes you just have to agree to disagree. Not all problems can be worked out. Also pick the subjects you wish to argue about wisely, not everything is worth arguing about. If you can work through your problems in a healthy manner, you can fix things with him, but if it will be the same ole-same- ole (even if the number of "fights" are reduced) it is not worth your effort. There is no happily ever after, but there is a tolerable ever after.
2007-03-09 19:52:14 · answer #3 · answered by AMoRous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke up with him and yet he feels pressured to get back together and you want to know if he is playing you along? Sounds like you are playing each other.
2007-03-09 19:45:44 · answer #4 · answered by MI 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just be patient with him
because if you really like/ love this guy then
your going to want it to work out.
if he already likes you now
and its working out pretty good with the fights and all
then there is no need to rush anything.
you dont need a boyfriend all the time.
just stick with the break inbetween.
im going through the same thing right now.
2007-03-09 19:47:11 · answer #5 · answered by jaayy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes playing you.
and 3 times is alot in 1 months. :[
bad idea to get back together
2007-03-09 19:46:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its only been a month so i would wait and see hoe ur friendship goes. Sometimes people were meant to be friends not lovers.
2007-03-09 19:46:56 · answer #7 · answered by cutie123 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't waste my time on a silly relationship you don't need the drama move on girl.
2007-03-09 19:47:01 · answer #8 · answered by oppositeangles 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why wait for him to make a decision for you. tell him what you want andgo from there.
2007-03-09 19:46:56 · answer #9 · answered by clubchaos1965 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he want's to take things so then take things slow if u still want him that bad...like i always say if u would do anything for the one you love do wut they want u to do as long as both of u are happy
2007-03-09 19:46:32 · answer #10 · answered by hot_noe_1235 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋