I don't want it to be no anymore! I mean all the guys at my school are freakin' perverts and buttheads! Ask ANYONE who goes to Cooper in OKC! Right now I like this guy but I don't want to ask him out for that reason... because he will probably say no... I really like him and I want a boyfriend. Help please!!!! And please don't give me some stupid answer!!!! Thanx
2007-03-09 11:36:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well girl i know how ya feel. ive seen u at school before i think. lol, but just dont make boys your number 1 thing. u will be rejected at times, but u cant expect to say yes and itll last forever. it takes the fun outta meeting someone to fool around with and see what other qualities that it is u didnt like and what else u want to look for.
2007-03-09 11:57:11 · answer #1 · answered by marina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rejection is never fun. When any of us - men or women - ask someone out, we take the risk of being rejected. Our hope, though, is that the person will say yes. One would think that past experiences with rejection would make it easier to bear, but it doesn't. I say that if you like the guy, let him know. Perhaps he feels the same way about you. Regardless of his answer, I imagine you'll appreciate knowing more than wondering about it and not asking. I hope this is helpful.
2007-03-09 11:42:29 · answer #2 · answered by Eastern US Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It used to be the same way for me. But there is a guy for you. trust me. He is probably right infront of you at your school and you can't see him yet. And you don't really want to wait. I understand. But, your time will come one day. Who knows it may come sooner than you think.
2007-03-09 11:50:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're too domineering or controlling and it frighten guys. Let them do the asking and you just worry about being the most authentic you that you can be. Hang in there.
2007-03-09 11:41:51 · answer #4 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋