1.do you make a point to sit with your ex at your childrens sports games?
2.if your ex wanted to go to a parent/teacher conference(for your child) with his new wife not with you would you mind going alone?
2007-03-09 11:41:18 · 12 answers · asked by karenmarlku89 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
1) I think it's important for the children that we get along in front of them and their friends.. so yes I do sit near, not exactly next to my ex.
2) The new step parent is an important part in your children's lives, I would have no problem with her being at the conference, and would make sure to welcome her input. If she cares enough to go to kids conferences, she must care about your kids.
It will get easier as time goes on :)
2007-03-09 11:47:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. When I first separated from my X, I felt very uncomfortable at the sports games sitting next to him. If you have a good relationship with each other, that's one thing. We did not so there was no sense in faking it. Even now after being divorced for a couple of years I would not do it. I have seen couples that do and seem to get along great, good for them. I guess it all depends on your individual situation and how both of you handle it. My X has always been very bitter and to this day does not speak to me, even on matters concerning the kids. I have to communicate with him via mail and even then receive no response. I wouldn't mind speaking with him, but I would not feel comfortable sitting with him.
2. I would not mind going alone at all. I would not want to sit there with him and his new wife. If the teacher is agreeable, arrange another time to go and talk with her alone.
Hope this helps.....
2007-03-09 11:47:55 · answer #2 · answered by pooterpie123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh I can totally answer this one. My ex only sits with us at the kids sports game if he comes alone!! If he comes with HER then he is to sit as far away as possible and this goes with any kid event. As for parent/teacher...I do it alone. He could come along if he wanted to and no way in heck would she be allowed to. They aren't married so she has no legal grounds to be there in the first place. Even if they are married...unless she is the only taking the child to school and helping with homework..she has no business being there. That is my opinion. I am the one doing the work...taking the kids to school, making sure they have all of their supplies, talking to teachers and coaches. The mistress(we aren't legally divorced yet) has no business being at the meeting! Dad has shown no interest in the kids school work so I just do it all alone.
2007-03-09 11:49:19 · answer #3 · answered by mysweetluvie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I might or might not sit with my ex - and I think my ex and his current wife have a much right to go to parent teacher conferences aa me and my current husband.
You need to let go of the man. He is not your husband anymore but his child is his business as much as it is yours.
I would not mind going alone at all because this is adult stuff; we are not children and we are not jealous; we are trying to raise a child. It might take all of us to raise the child but if the ex and his wife are truly interested then I would be thankful and happy they are.
2007-03-09 11:47:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the two of you can be on good speaking terms and you are ok with his new wife, sure why not..but if there is any kind of tension, then sit elsewhere and also go to conferences alone, the school will work with you.
2007-03-09 11:45:25 · answer #5 · answered by lynda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At my child sport games we dont need to be side by side bcuz my child understand we are not an item and in public i don't wish to mislead anyone who may see us as a pair. At a meeting i would not mind attending alone, its a meeting not a party or couple setting event.
2007-03-09 11:46:48 · answer #6 · answered by roro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex's last involvement in my life was copulation 10 years ago. However, I'll look at this hypothetically.
1. No way.
2. Wouldn't mind a bit.
2007-03-09 12:34:17 · answer #7 · answered by girlsincamelot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The restraining order won't artwork till he has threatened someones existence, or killed your cat or slashed her tires or something. If I have been you and your female. i might in basic terms tell him that he can no longer have his visiation together with his baby on your place. He might desire to take the youngster domicile with him for a jointly as or go someplace else. i think of if the father grew to become into no longer sitting on your lounge you adult males might in all probability sense much less stress and stress from him. in case you relatively love her nevertheless, get used to it. he will in all probability continually be around being an *** and inflicting issues. that's what my infant daddy does.
2016-09-30 11:11:10 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1-I don't make it a point to, but would not act unfavorably toward that.
2-I would not mind going alone, only because I'm a single mom, and my son lives with me. I've been prepared to do it all for quite some time now! I'm used to it, I just hold my head high and when they call me Mrs._____ I just politely correct them: it's MISS _________
:) Good luck
It gets easier...
2007-03-09 11:56:02 · answer #9 · answered by mochajavalatte25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No my ex never took us to games
No ex does not have anything to do with the kids ( His choice)
2007-03-09 11:44:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋