I am in love with a great man, we met online, and he is in a different state. my birthday is next week so he wanted to fly here to see me. at first i said that it would be great, but then, the next day, i told him that even though i love him so much, its to soon for him to visit. now he wont talk to me at all. why wont he talk to me?
2007-03-09 11:29:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This to me would be a warning sign. He wants to get real close real fast, and then gets mad when he feels rejected. Do you know what co-dependent means? Sounds like trouble. He might be a great man who may not be so great at relationships. I would say wait for him to start talking again (which I'm pretty sure he will) and then keep it on a just friends level until you've known him for a while and he proves he's a little more stable.
2007-03-09 11:33:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. If he cares enough to have his feelings hurt because you think the timing is bad let him go and find someone that needs his love and affection. If you do not want it, cool, let someone else have it but whatever you do don't let it go to waste. Too many people would give their back taxes for a person that wants to see them or be with them like he does you. There is more to the story than is being told, so if you don't want it free it up for someone else. Love and attention are hard to find and if it is not ur time then let it go. Experience yours in your own time and at your own pace. Gee, hope that process doesn't cause you to lose the person who was supposed to be your life partner.
2007-03-09 19:41:18 · answer #2 · answered by andyman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is looking for an easy mark and you did not play his game.
Look there are guys that make a career out of romancing women on line; going to see them; getting their way and then the poor woman never hears from the guy again.
Consider yourself one of the lucky ones.
2007-03-09 19:34:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever told him that you love him before? If you didn't you probably scared him off. My question how can you fall in love with some one on the Internet? It's so easy to lie on the Internet.
2007-03-09 19:33:31 · answer #4 · answered by B.J. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It actually depends... He could have got insulted maybe he could have been pretending someone he is not.
Most people get in danger that way meeting someone they never met before and then the could easily get raped or w/e.
Maybe he could have been like that and got insulted because you didnt want him to come down because it was to soon and he didnt want to wait.
2007-03-09 19:40:00 · answer #5 · answered by SmexyAAF!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you said that you love him and when you love someone it's never too early to meet so honestly you can't say your in love!!Your kind of leading this guy on so make up your mind before he moves on!!
2007-03-09 19:43:58 · answer #6 · answered by mini mel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is intentionally ignoring you now that you put the brakes on moving too fast with your relationship, he is not the one you want to be with. He needs to respect your limits and respect you before you want to have anything to do with him. I'm sure this is painful for you, but if this is what he is really doing, he is not the one for you.
2007-03-09 19:33:08 · answer #7 · answered by Cynthia W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably feels that you are not ready to devote to this relationship, or that you really don't love him. If you get the chance, try talking to him about it.
But between you and me, if he acts this immaturely over this matter, it's not a good sign for the future.
2007-03-09 19:33:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well gee I guess you know why he wont talk to you. Because he was all excited about coming to visit you and you smooshed his dreams. Good Going! lol
2007-03-09 19:37:02 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably sees you as a teaser. You built up his hopes and now you are letting him down. Be careful of those guys on the Internet though.
2007-03-09 19:33:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋