well i've been going out w/ this guy for a week and a day and i like him sooo much but hes so annoying. like whenever we're at a game he follows me around EVERY WHERE! Its so annoying!
And everytime i talk to him hes always like r u gonna brake up w/ me and like asking if im mad at him.
OMG its so annoying
Wut should i do??
2007-03-09 11:26:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's really into you and he's made you the center of his world and it sounds like he has self-esteem issues. Tell him you're into him but that you need a little space. Lay the law down to him and make it crystal clear...you like him, you're not mad @ him, you're not breaking up w/him but that could change @ any time unless he backs it up abit and gives you some space that you don't like to be smothered and that it's making you uncomfortable. I've been there and done that myself to a girl years ago and I lost out big time. I hope this helps you, Good Luck! G.
2007-03-09 11:38:46 · answer #1 · answered by G=ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i have some experince with this kind of guy.What you need to do is sit and talk because he follows you around so much because he like you so much!So you should jusst be like okay well you can stay here ill brb.And then if he follows you again kind of make a joke out of it so he wont feel as bad like saying why do you keep following me then laugh and say im okay you dont have to waste your energy just to follow me im fine nad just laugh.Or you can do whatever you want but dont be mean about it make it as kind of a joke.
Good LUck:]
2007-03-09 19:33:47 · answer #2 · answered by I WONDER! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, he sounds a bit insecure.
Maybe just try to tell him that you need some space, but if he gets all sad like you're trying to break up with him, reassure him that you are NOT gonna break up with him! If he annoys you more than he already does, I'd break it off with him. There are other guys out there.
Good luck =)
2007-03-09 19:29:26 · answer #3 · answered by Wendy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it. Tell him to take a chill pill, and also that sometimes nothing's wrong, it's just that you need some of your space. Maybe he thinks you're mad at him because since you're annoyed, you unconciously make a face.
2007-03-09 19:29:03 · answer #4 · answered by julia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To have a good relatioship is to be honest about everything you don't let anything by. So if you are bug by this so bad that it might cause you to to break-up then might need to talk about these things. Were it might not be a problem for you 2 in the furtune.
2007-03-09 19:34:55 · answer #5 · answered by momloveashlee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart if hes really annoying then break up with him but if you really like him then talk to him about it
2007-03-09 19:29:20 · answer #6 · answered by nonya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems to me as if he's needy and controlling because he follows u everywhere....furthermore low-self-esteem people tend to ask questions like "Are u gonna break up with me?" Talk to him....find out why he's acting the way he does...try to find a solution...maybe his past gf has broken up with him so he's afraid of losing u? Or does he want to isolate you from everybody and not give you space?
Hope I helped =)
2007-03-09 19:30:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
end things with him ASAP. this is going nowhere and more than likely ya'll will continue to repeat this pattern of chasing or whatever it is. If you don't end it now, it will only bother you more and then the guy would also maybe become overly obsessive
2007-03-09 19:29:30 · answer #8 · answered by YinxSphinxmen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like a girl. Wait til his nuts drop and he grows some hair.
2007-03-09 19:28:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him it is annoying and suggest ways he can avoid doing this to you. If he is nice then you can work it out with him.
2007-03-09 19:29:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋