Family & Relationships - 9 March 2007

He want to meet with me somewhere we do a little flirting. and thats it nothing else. He inisheates the flirting and I just except it most of the time, many times I returned the flirting. Is getting a little boring.

2007-03-09 10:59:32 · 5 answers · asked by curious 2 in Singles & Dating

ugh. So a lot of this is to rant but i need advice...(ps-im 17)
1- I am going out of town this weekend with my boyfriend (of 8 months) and his family...I LOVE his family but lately he is bugging me. I love him but i dont think im in love...and i tried to break up with him but couldnt do it. I REALLY at least want tonight to myself because we are leaving tm. and we already made plans to hang out...what do i do?
2-I have been talking to my ex/first love and am starting to get the feelings again (butterflys, smiling when i think about him) kind of thing. the only problem is we both have new lives and new boy/girlfriends.
3- my "best friend" is trying to control everything i do, and always says im blowing her off even when im not. I try to include her in things but she is super passive agressive. I dont know how to deal with it...suggestions?
4-My best friend and i have barely talked in the last year. she is not the same person and everytime i try to talk to her she doesnt talk back. Do I deal with it…or get over it?

2007-03-09 10:58:08 · 16 answers · asked by *Cole* 3 in Friends

he will say no, but his friends tell me he likes me...do you think they are making fun of me because they know i really like him...
im so confused ,i have just come back from a party, and his friend said he thought i was fit...but i dont like him, i like his friend..I catch him looking at me all the time, and His friends were saying will i go out with him, but when i text him later he said it was his friends just messing about, I talk to him sometimes but we are both quite shy..He has just gone out with my friend , but finished with her 2 days later..Do you think he is scared ..or confused, should i move on ...I have liked him for 3 Years now, but i cant wait foreva..but he is the only boy i like,
I want him to be my first boyfriend...

What should i do ..

2007-03-09 10:58:08 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mother-in-law is a manipulative, lying, bossy cow. She comes into our lives and causes trouble. When someone tells her off she pulls out of our lives, making out she is the victim. When all has calmed down she comes back into our lives again, makes trouble them disapears. I have tried continously to get her out for good, but she keeps coming back whether u like it or not. My husband has even told her to get/butt out. She has called the police on us many of times saying we wont let her see her grandkids, she tells me one thing and my husband another, when we confront her she makes up another totally different story and calls us liars.
What can i do? should i take out an intervention order?

2007-03-09 10:56:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

- He says we were made for each other
- He says he's never felt this way before
- He says he loves me
- He moved out, but hasn't proceeded further with legal work towards a divorce
- He went on a trip with family, friends, and his "ex" because it was planned before we met
- He says it's nothing
- He says I am worrying too much

As I write this I feel so stupid because it seems painfully clear that I'm a fool for believing this man.

How is it that I have fallen in love with someone who obviously hasn't put me as 1st in their life.

The worst part is, I've always been 2nd in some way to the men I've choosen. Why?

Why can't I find a man that loves me for who I am. How can I learn to choose the right men? I can't stand being second, I feel so low and unworthy. I've been here before, and this time I don't know how I'm going to pull myself back up again.

On top of it all, my best friend just moved away, we still talk on the phone, but it's not the same and I'm so lonely.

2007-03-09 10:55:51 · 17 answers · asked by Hammy40 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-09 10:55:48 · 10 answers · asked by maidenrocks 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I went into the hospital this past Monday for depression. When I went in my sister and mother and I got into a big fight. My sister went and called my boyfriend of nine months and had a "talk" with him, (I have no idea what was said) well needless to say I got out Wednesday morning and surprising I haven't heard from him (but he loves me right) anyway he called my sister on Thursday to check on me but has yet to pick up the phone and call me not even to check on me and now he signed into yahoo messanger and still hasn't acknowledged me, Is this a sign that my relationship of 9 months is over, should I just move on and cut my losses or try to call him, I do love him is it fair to assume Im single now and start living the single life again? one more issue I just found out Im 1 month pregant with his baby? Help me please

2007-03-09 10:55:06 · 15 answers · asked by Sweet 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy in my class that I really like, and he likes me but one time he asked me out and I told him no because I didn't know I had feelings for him, and now not too too long ago I realized I like him, but the problem is one of our former classmates is going to go back to school with us and I'm afraid that he might start to like her because my friend told me that she is real pretty. Please help me I don't know what to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...
P.S. I'm not gay my older brother let me use his computer. I am a girl!

2007-03-09 10:54:41 · 2 answers · asked by ilk 1 in Singles & Dating

my sister says this is romantic if you think about it. i never thought about it........anyway this is the story

when i was getting ready to leave for the night, and saying goodbye to my girlfriend. i hugged her and lifted her off the ground and she said "wow i was like 3 ft. off the ground" and i said "thats nothing i could have lifted you over my head if i wanted too" and she said "im sure you could" my sister says this is romantic, i say "nnnnnnaaaaawwww"

2007-03-09 10:54:22 · 15 answers · asked by SwordDancer 5 in Singles & Dating

well i have to sit next to this really really really annoying kid and he won't stop being annoying what should i do to stop it i already told my teacher and he didn't do anything!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-09 10:53:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i just broke up with my ex-bf kyle and he wants to be friends. im happy about that sorta...but i didnt tell anyone and all you ppl dont know me so whatever! anyway- i like this person jeremy♥ alot and i did scince the beggining of the school year. hes a total hotty<3 and everyone likes him. we r pretty close friends nd i know he doesnt like me dur but im like madly in love with him and everyone knows it... i asked him out and he refused to answer and instead he said "jeff hardy's awsome" so im like whatever and forgot about it. what can i do?

2007-03-09 10:53:46 · 6 answers · asked by bella 1 in Friends

she is REALLY GETTING ON MY NERVES!!! we only have one income coming in. our infant daughter is disabled and im a full time college student so money is really tight. i also have to take care of bills i had before i was pregnant, such as my car note, insurance, and my credit card. she told me that me and my boyfriend are not a family because we aren't married, so she feels that her son should give her money whenever she asks for it. i take care of our finances, so if i say we dont have it, we dont. we have a little bit in our savings, but we are slowly having to go in there and use it because it's hard living on one income. my daughter gets a disability check, but it aint much. do y'all think im being mean to tell her to leave us alone about money? my boyfriend gave her 500 dollars when he did his taxes less than two months ago.

2007-03-09 10:53:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

he hurt my fellings and my friend and i dont want him to hurt his girl friends heart because he is cruel and he got to much pride how do i bring him down off his crown to were he belongs and say sorry and on his knee and also get him back till nothing is left

2007-03-09 10:52:03 · 13 answers · asked by princess09 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 10:51:16 · 19 answers · asked by icyhott4urmind 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok this is a really question but im really curious.

so... everytime i talk on the phone with her or talk in person, she always talks about other guys and how she has so many "boy-toys" and we go to different schools so i always have that little voice in the back of my head saying "SHE'S CHEATING!" but i don't believe it.

And i dont see why she would want to make me angry!
is it just to get a reaction outta me?
and like the reason i get angry (guys w/ gf's can relate) is because guy dont want to hear about there other guys doing stuff with there ya know?
=/

so yeah im kinda stuck.

2007-03-09 10:50:22 · 13 answers · asked by Austin 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 10:49:08 · 13 answers · asked by ABCCCCCC 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have brown hair, blue eyes, average hight, friendly, 13 y/o (almost 14)
and shy, I'm kind of a tomboy, I love sports and would rather play hockey than dance. I don't wear make-up except for a bit of blush, any suggestions? All my friends have had there first kiss and It makes me sad that no guys seem remotely interested in me at all...

2007-03-09 10:49:02 · 17 answers · asked by rukia319 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 10:48:00 · 9 answers · asked by switchfoot_fan2 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I think I am madly in love with someone that I have never spoken to. We have been staring at eachother for about half a year and we havnt even said anything to eachother, we just will occasionaly look at eachother and sometimes stare. I think we are in love without even knowing eachother. Any advice?

2007-03-09 10:47:49 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, my sister in law has, time and time again, screwed my brother over. She has put him $25,000 in debt, totalled his car, and put their very lives, along with my 14 month old nephew's life in jeopardy for drugs. She has gone to rehab 4 times and is still using drugs.. my brother is like blind to it. She has also stolen from me and my boyfriend when we tried to help her when she was homeless. Now, again, my brother has taken her back.. and I'm the only one in my family that knows.. I want to say something and let him know really how I feel.. but I can't stop seeing my nephew.. that would kill me. Any suggestions?

2007-03-09 10:47:35 · 7 answers · asked by ThatGirl6 4 in Family

if my friend ask me to slap some guy and i did
but i hit him too hard
what would you do??

2007-03-09 10:46:44 · 10 answers · asked by LVonigiri 1 in Friends

my sister ran away and she is 20 i miss her so much and i havent seen her in 8 months what can i do?

2007-03-09 10:46:18 · 18 answers · asked by Alexa D 1 in Family

k today we were leaving ag. class and my i was walking behind her she stopped and i stepped on her heel she got mad and now is not talking to me i am trying to call her and she doesnt answer i dont know what is wrong with her our relationship hasnt been the greatest and we have faught a couple of times but we made up i told her i was sorry then at lunch (wich was right after ag.) she said she hated herself and she says she tries to kill herself i am really concerned for her i try to make new friends but she is the only one who i can really relate to the omst i have known her since 3rd grade and i dont want our friendship 2 end she is very nice and i am moving next year so i dont know what to do

2007-03-09 10:45:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

hows it working for you

2007-03-09 10:45:38 · 8 answers · asked by xoxbabexoxox 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 10:45:18 · 2 answers · asked by Blade 1 in Singles & Dating

This girl named Kelsey is always bugging me when she sees me. I mean she follows me around and wants to do everything with me. It gets really annoying sometimes. One time i was having a party and my mom told her mom and Kelsey heard, and she just came. IT was so horible! I mean, she is nice but annoying. How can i tell her she is getting to clingy but not hurt her feelings.

2007-03-09 10:45:07 · 26 answers · asked by Taylor F 1 in Friends

okay, so my story goes like this: i hav likd a guy for about a a yr and after we both broke off relationships with no intentions of going out w/eachother, he finally asked me out but now we BARELY ever talk and on top of it my guy bff claims he is basically in love with me and i like him and dont want to lose him as a friend and im just so confused! i want more than anything to be w/the guy who askd me out just the other day and want it to work out but ther is one mor problem, his bff is also my ex, and it ended pretty badly, and sometimes we get along while other we dont, and so i understand the bros b4 hos thing, but i still think he should pay just a lil attention to me, but maybe im wrong, iv been broken up w/his bff for about two mos. and i think thats long enuf...i dont know how to handle this, please i desperately need some advice..please?

2007-03-09 10:44:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 10:44:02 · 7 answers · asked by sweet heart 1 in Singles & Dating

I have good credit and my boyfriend's is poor. He had a BK almost 6 years ago. We want to get married but we're afraid it will ruin my credit. Does anyone know how marriage will affect us? We live in California.
Thanks!!!

2007-03-09 10:42:01 · 10 answers · asked by Sparkle Darling 3 in Marriage & Divorce

like i have friends but i only known then for about 2 yrs.....like i see people who have friends that are they really good friends...i dont have friends like this..just aquaitances..like if im n ot in school nobody notices or cares +i got to a ghetto school that i hate.....i hate most of the people there anyway....i hate feeling like this

2007-03-09 10:41:17 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends