Help me please!!!?

Question

I went into the hospital this past Monday for depression. When I went in my sister and mother and I got into a big fight. My sister went and called my boyfriend of nine months and had a "talk" with him, (I have no idea what was said) well needless to say I got out Wednesday morning and surprising I haven't heard from him (but he loves me right) anyway he called my sister on Thursday to check on me but has yet to pick up the phone and call me not even to check on me and now he signed into yahoo messanger and still hasn't acknowledged me, Is this a sign that my relationship of 9 months is over, should I just move on and cut my losses or try to call him, I do love him is it fair to assume Im single now and start living the single life again? one more issue I just found out Im 1 month pregant with his baby? Help me please

Answer 1

Oooh my goodness, that baby thing at the end is a zinger. The baby thing changes everything - you'd better get in touch with him! Call him, don't wait for him to call you! It could be that your sister told him he was making things harder for you, and he's chosen to lay off for a while. So, call him already!

Answer 2

Okay thats a quite a thinker lets see here did you tell your mom ur pregnant becuz if u did perhaps she had told him and he's now scared to talk because he doesn't know what to do about it. and most men would be like that after only 9 monthes once ur married you wouldnt have to worry about that but since your not he could be thinking that . id say you need to call him despite if its over or not and tell him if he doesnt already know that you are the mother or soon to be the mother of his child and he deserves to know i mean do u really wanna raise a baby alone i don't think so. Just talk to him alone concise and if hes too scared to talk then just go over to his house and tell him its important discuss ur relationship first and then the baby second uneed to know the truth right and thats a way of getting it.

Answer 3

Does it feel like everyone is against you? I can only say from experience If he could not call you to at least ask how you were doing something is wrong there. What does your sister know? What did she tell him? (the pregnancy). Does he know about the baby? What ever your sister told him was against you it seems, so why didn't he call you himself and find out the truth. Don't trap him with the baby, one happy parent is better than two fighting unhappy parents.

Answer 4

I'm sure that he just doesn't know if he should approach you yet. Maybe he still thinks you're depressed and you need some time away from everyone to cool off, so he doesn't want to make the first move and talk to you and see if you're alright because he thinks maybe you might want some time to yourself. Just make the first move, and say hi to him. Then, I'm sure he will know you're ready to talk to him. You need to find out as soon as possible what he's thinking, because then you can decide what to do with everything else that's happening (the baby?)

Answer 5

First, you need to figure out what your depression is from. Guys told like unstable girls - but the depression could be related to your family.

Figure things out 1 step at a time. Talk with him to get his view, find out what your mom said.
But it also depends how old you are as well.
Depression can also be caused by a hormonal change due to your pregnancy.

Hope do you eat a 3 ton elephant ? 1 bite at a time.
good luck.

Answer 6

It'c ok. It happens to alot of people. If he wont accept that your having his baby, you have the following choices you could do. 1. You could just have the baby and forget the father. 2. You could have the baby, and then sue him for child support. or 3. Put the baby for adoption. I would pick 2, but it's your choice. I hope you have a nice day and rest of your life. Good luck on the baby.

Answer 7

tell him the truth
Oooh my goodness, that baby thing at the end is a zinger. The baby thing changes everything - you'd better get in touch with him! Call him, don't wait for him to call you! It could be that your sister told him he was making things harder for you, and he's chosen to lay off for a while. So, call him alreadyYou hould really try talking to him about this, and explain o your sister that she shouldn't be in your business and its possibly hurting your relationship. so he is not mad

Answer 8

omg i hope ur not young to have a baby... umm maybe hes just a little freaked out or scared that u are so depressed, or maybe he thinks hes the reason for ur depression, so he wants to give u some space... u can move on with ur feelings if u want but the reality is that if u have his baby he is always gonna be in ur life.

good luck.

Answer 9

well its hard sometimes but im sure he knows hes hurting you if some one makes you wait they think they have power over you. you should call him and ask him why wont he talk to you... and if he does not answer or tell you forget him he does not deserve you its time to move on but you can do it just think theres some one out their for you..

Answer 10

maybe you need to take the first step in contacting him, if your sister told him why you had gone into hospital, maybe he is scared to contact you as he might be worried that it might affect you, maybe he is unsure what to say or maybe he thinkes that you need space to sort your self out, whatever his reason, you need to talk with him so, you should pick up that phone and ask him if everythings ok.