I think I am madly in love with someone that I have never spoken to. We have been staring at eachother for about half a year and we havnt even said anything to eachother, we just will occasionaly look at eachother and sometimes stare. I think we are in love without even knowing eachother. Any advice?
2007-03-09 10:47:49 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try showing her your foreskin
2007-03-09 10:50:19 · answer #1 · answered by nathan m 1 · 1⤊ 7⤋
LOVE?
First of all, you may feel that you are "in love". It's that chemical feeling at the beginning stages of a possible thing between 2 people.
Secondly, REAL love is the trust, commitment, and a desire to please the other persion.
An aquaintance once told me that a relationship is meant to lift up both people - make them both better people.
So, really...you are just in LUST. Which is okay because that is how relationships start. We are attracted to others. It's human nature.
IMPRESS HER?
If you want to impress a girl, talk to her. Listen to her. Remember what she finds important. Being friends with a girl is just as important during a relationship (or when trying to develop one).
Don't just take her on the dinner-movie dates. Be creative (it can be cheaper sometimes too): picnic under the stars, cook for her, treasure hunt date (she'll find clues to find parts of the date), a walk in a park, go to a farmer's market (big ones), go fishing, go canoeing, go hiking (if near mts or tall hills), etc. Creative dates will definitely impress her!
Thirdly, don't try to get extremely physical with her until she is ready. If a girl feels pushed into more physical aspects of the relationship, she may bounce or cave in. If she caves in, she'll regret it later and you may feel the brunt of it.
When you spend time with her, get to know her, and do things for her, you two will fall in love (if it's meant to be).
I hope this helps! GL
2007-03-09 11:00:55 · answer #2 · answered by mandirae23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its your move Romeo. Do something!
Youre the guy, shes sending you the signal to approach her, so long as you arent some freaky looking perv thats scaring her.
Just start off with a hello. The trick is DONT TRY TO IMPRESS HER.
Just be yourself and hope youre personality does impress her.
Some girls like shy guys, others assertive, even others cocky.
Best you can do is see if you guys click together.
Guys always seem to try to impress girls. And thats not what a girl realy wants. A girl should be impressed with your character, your romantic nature. Because its not enough to just be a nice guy. Guys in general should know how to flirt, or take initiaitve to learn. Flirt, dance and cook!
AND MOST OF ALL--- LISTEN!!!!
In trying to impress her you might talk to much, or try to inflate yourself up to much trying to win her over.
Listen to see if shes the kind of girl you deserve, and she should be listening to you, for the same.
In time, youll either learn you reallyclick andbelong together, or that you arent compatible.
Plain and simple.
So, go out, enjoy the process, and really -- be yourself.
If youre goofy and like to go to the park to feed the birds by yourself, take her with you. Dont try to take her somewhere you think she wants togo -- because then shes not getting a chance to see who you really are.
And girls can tell when a guys trying too hard to impress them. Anyone can.
So, again, take it as it comes, dont kiss her butt just yet. Wait until you know shes the girl for you, then thats when you devout yourself to her.
Right now, keep it fun, see if you like the same things or share the same views.
Dont go to the movies -- 2 hours sitting next to eachother not being able to talk is not really a good first date.
Rather, go to the beach pier, go to a carnival, bowling golf,or heck if youre romantic, cook for her -- GirlsLove that.
Good luck Cassinova!
2007-03-09 10:59:16 · answer #3 · answered by writersbIock2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why waite any longer. Just start a conversation and find out more about this person first. It may just be a fractual love or shallow love. Find out more about that person before you decide what you want to do with her. The love at first sight does not usually garantee of any thing!! Do not try hard, just go talk to her and see how you can take things to the next level.
2007-03-09 10:54:29 · answer #4 · answered by D. M. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-09 10:55:49 · answer #5 · answered by michael 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I highly doubt you are 'madly in love' with this person. Infatuation can be very strong between two people but without ever having spoken? NOt true love. Try saying hi.
2007-03-09 10:50:55 · answer #6 · answered by -Bibee- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up and say hi. once the tension is broken, the "love" may be gone. if it is, then it wasn't "love at first sight" and you don't have to worry about living a lie. if it isn't, then maybe there really is something to the entire "love at first sight" thing. of course it could just be that you're stareing and she's staring back in a creeped out kind of way.
2007-03-09 10:52:02 · answer #7 · answered by Shamus O'Larry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually when you like someone you feel conscious to that person.And in your case it seems like both of you like with each other but cant express how you feel.The guys should do the first move.I think the best way to know her is to make friends with her. but when your already friends dont take the time right away.Know her deeply first and let her make believe that you are a good person until when you feel that the girl have the trust in you then take the steps in courting her.
2007-03-09 11:01:57 · answer #8 · answered by caitlyn n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start talking to her, but take it slowly...if shes shy she probably would be more comfortable starting off without a full on conversation. Any girl would be happy if a guy they had been making eye contact with for a while took the next step to get to know them. :) good luck
2007-03-09 10:57:46 · answer #9 · answered by help me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off, talk to her and see if you two actually have chemistry. I liked this one guy for like a year and when I finally talked to him, I realized that he wasn't what I thought he would be and that was the end of that. But if you do have chemistry, ask her to hang out sometime, casually.
2007-03-09 10:51:34 · answer #10 · answered by Mechiko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to this person. You can't know if you are in love with someone without getting to know them. Your interests might be totally opposite. It seems as if you are in love with their looks or the fantasy playing in your head when you stare at them.
2007-03-09 10:51:21 · answer #11 · answered by vancie121 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋