he will say no, but his friends tell me he likes me...do you think they are making fun of me because they know i really like him...
im so confused ,i have just come back from a party, and his friend said he thought i was fit...but i dont like him, i like his friend..I catch him looking at me all the time, and His friends were saying will i go out with him, but when i text him later he said it was his friends just messing about, I talk to him sometimes but we are both quite shy..He has just gone out with my friend , but finished with her 2 days later..Do you think he is scared ..or confused, should i move on ...I have liked him for 3 Years now, but i cant wait foreva..but he is the only boy i like,
I want him to be my first boyfriend...
What should i do ..
2007-03-09 10:58:08 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am 13 yrs
2007-03-09 11:04:32 · update #1
OH sweetie, give it up and forget all about him, you've already wasted 3 years of your young life pining for him and he's not made a move on you but on your friend!
The minute he knows you've lost interest he'll be buzzing round you like crazy and when he does tell him to go boil his head!
You have plenty of time to find your first boyfriend, dont waste your youth on a boy who doesn't' know if he's coming or going.
2007-03-09 12:04:21 · answer #1 · answered by The Original Highbury Gal 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best option you have here is: ASK HIM DIRECTLY...
3 years is enough waiting... If you ask him then you'll know if he likes you or not, and then move on with your life.
Also, he might be just too shy, (he must be aroud 13 so that's why he's acting that why and not ready for a relationship) and unsure about you towards him, so let him know what you think and feel, then, talk it up...
Life is so short to waste... please don't do it =]
You got nothing to lose but a lot to gain...
2007-03-09 11:04:29 · answer #2 · answered by Aquaman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want him as a boyfriend here is what you should do first thing make it clear to him you only want to be his friend period.For some reason it is hard for a guy to keep a female as his friend without wanting to f u c k her .The quickest way to a guys heart is to become his friend and with in time he will start to notion you and his feelings for you will change for you.
2007-03-09 11:36:42 · answer #3 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's clearly no longer likely to go away her exceedingly if he suggested that he trusts her and consequently he's together with her. yet once you refer to him tell him which you do no longer think of it particularly is a robust concept to talk to one yet another anymore because of the fact it would not experience authentic that he's have been given a female buddy and one that of course would not decrease to rubble on him and which you at the instant are not likely to be all and sundry's rebound and that when he gets his existence straightened out that he could provide you a decision till it particularly is too previous due. If he particularly needs you he will injury up together with her and make contact with you and ask you to be his female buddy.
2016-11-23 18:11:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's been three years and he still hasn't made a move he either doesn't like you or is too much of a little boy to say something to you. Either way, move on to the next.
2007-03-09 11:01:19 · answer #5 · answered by wifey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are really coming across as desperate. Please take no for an answer. If he really liked you he would have jumped at the opportunity when you asked him. Despite what Womens Lib might say, most men don't like women who are forward. Men prefer to do the hunting. they don't like their catch to lay down and play dead. Move on I say.
2007-03-09 11:03:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to yourself. damn, he said no! fergit about it! go out with some friend and have dinner or someting a little fun and different. go buy a new pair of shoes. write that one off. sooner you forgeet that one's name the faster you move ahead. young people have messed up juice in their brains.
2007-03-09 11:02:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should tell him how u really feel. And if he don't respect your feelings he don't deserve your love. So, that is the best thing to do. He probably teases you or he don't want no one to know that he like u because of who u are. u know what i mean.
2007-03-09 11:03:41 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please move on, you are so young. They are messing with you, stop pursuing him. If he wanted to go out with you he would have already asked you or said yes to your proposal. Put a bandaid on your heart, keep your head up high, smile and keep looking cute, and just pass his dumb butt by.
2007-03-09 11:12:01 · answer #9 · answered by SandLady 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on and find a guy who wants you and treats you the way you deserve to be treated. You'll find the right one someday, you just have to be patient.
2007-03-09 11:03:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋