Family & Relationships - 9 March 2007

Help! I am the MOH in my best friends wedding and am getting ready to send out 57 invitations to her bridal shower!! - which covers about 87 people, including kids!! I have tried relentlessly to make her lower the number and not allow children, but she won't budge...and afterall this is her "special time" and all.

She really wants to play games....but what kinda of games can you play with this many people?? I'm hoping not everyone can make it so what about games for like 60 people? And is it my job to entertain the kids and provide things for them too, because I don't think it would be....I am hosting a bridal shower not a little kids birthday party!

2007-03-09 10:40:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

And you have two children, and he says you only get to keep one. Which one do you keep, the ugly one or the cute one?

2007-03-09 10:40:04 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We are separated. She told me I could move back in 30 days IF I got a vasectomy. I said we ought to reconcile first before having something like that done. She said I was being selfish and if I loved her I would do it. O.K. I had it done. At the office, I said to her, 30 days right? She said o.k. Well, I had it done. It was painful. I hated it, I trying to forget about now. It's been 60 days and she said I did it for MYSELF, not her. She said it turns her stomach to think I am coming back to live with her and doesn't like it when I come over to see our two children yet she won't let me spend time with the kids w/o her around. I didn't want to get one in the first place. I wanted to have more kids. I still do. I feel totally betrayed and lied to. I'm trying to put our marriage back together but I'm not going to wait much longer. My mom says I should get a lawyer and my brother says I should get a girlfriend and forget about her. All this makes me want to start drinking.

2007-03-09 10:39:33 · 25 answers · asked by prouddaddy 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I like this guy but. . .my friend just broke up with him and i have a lil rule that i cant go out with my friend x's and I think he likes me and I kinda like him back but i dont want to hurt my friendship plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz help

2007-03-09 10:38:46 · 17 answers · asked by AmandaPanda1121 1 in Friends

She o figure out if he is going out with anyone, he is really cute, he looks like a "male model" thats wat my bff says! He is on the student concil. He hangs out with lots of 8th grade girls!

2007-03-09 10:38:19 · 7 answers · asked by cclovahh 1 in Singles & Dating

So theres a guy and we used to be best friends.We kept getting in big arguements so finally he said lets not be friends in a very crual way.IT BROKW MY HEART.I cried for like 2 monthes.He teased me and pushed me and got a lot of people to hate me.Just recently he told me sorry along with his little sister.I dont know if I should forgive then.I mean I dont even know why he said sorry in the first place.HELP!

2007-03-09 10:38:11 · 9 answers · asked by ae_chik3179 1 in Friends

2007-03-09 10:37:29 · 27 answers · asked by curious 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 10:37:24 · 2 answers · asked by jessie k 1 in Singles & Dating

this is prolly dumb but w/e.my boyfriend is in my spanish class and we have a girl T.A.((teacher assistant)).and he goes to her desk and sits by her everyday for like 10 minutes.he talks to her sometimes about me and him and how were going out..and when i walked out of class with him i saw him check her out as she walked past us.i dont want to ask him because i dont want to make it awkward at school.what do you think?

2007-03-09 10:37:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, here is the situation..My husband and I are both 21 and have been married for four years with two kids. We love eachother very much but we are still at the age where we want to go out on the weekends and have fun. The majority of the time we go our seperate ways on the weekends. I love him very much but I also have this urge to get attention from other guys and talk to them sometimes. He hasn't cheated on me before, but I am sure he's talked to other girls too. We are getting a house built right now and have two kids but a lot of times I just fantasize about living alone with my two kids so I can do whatever I want. Half the time he doesn't want to do anything with me anyways but has said to me before if I leave him I will break his heart. If it wasn't for him holding us together I think we wouldn't still be married. I'm wishy washy..one day I want to be married and the next day I want to be single.

2007-03-09 10:37:17 · 13 answers · asked by wifey 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-09 10:37:07 · 8 answers · asked by deltagremlin 5 in Singles & Dating

i need to be in love atleaset in my life time with some inlove with me

2007-03-09 10:36:52 · 4 answers · asked by harrison c 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

most of the time the tv holds us together...what can i do for the conversation to keep going? i really dont talk a lot, so please help!

2007-03-09 10:36:29 · 7 answers · asked by I love Beatriz...GOT A PROB? 1 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married to my boyfriend who is currently in jail and will be for a while. Does anyone know how they do ceromonys and such when they are in jail. I know its possible and all I just dont know what is allowed and what is not and all that stuff

2007-03-09 10:36:20 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Hey, my name is Leslie, I'm 17, and in my family, i'm the main babysitter (i have an older brother, and 14 little sibs, it's a long story). i get almost no time to myself. i started going to a church youth group every wednesday night (mom and dad and big bro jason -19 work wed. nights), and my bro derek (16) and my sis's Bridget (15)and Jaymee (14)watch the kids (they're fine with me taking one night out of the week for myself). the problem is the other 11 kids (10 mo., and from 6-12) won't listen to them at all. and when i get home the house is a mess, and everything is out of control, but everybody listens to me just fine. how can i get them to listen to Derek, Bri, and Jaymee. we've tried everything, from telling mom and dad to punishing them ,nothing works, if i have to stay home and watch them i will, but i don't think one night a week for me to be by myself is asking too much. am i being selfish? i love my sibs, all of them , but they can be too much sometimes. what do i do?

2007-03-09 10:36:02 · 5 answers · asked by I'm 17 and ME!!!!!! 1 in Family

I am the s%*t. Girls stare at me anywhere I go. The problem is that's kind of my pet peeve. No matter the reason I hate when anybody looks at me without smiling or at least nodding. Even worse is women often retaliate against me only not to get there feelings hurt by me which isn't fair. How do they know how I'll treat them. I don't get every girl I want all the time but I definately get there attention. What type of girl can appreciate me???? Haters need not answer this question.

2007-03-09 10:35:42 · 6 answers · asked by South Beach 2 in Singles & Dating

Help?! I have been "just freinds" with this girl for about 6 months now, but unfortuneatly have fallen in love with her for the last 4 months. Every time we see each other we give each other great big hugs like we hadn't seen each other in years. I don't know if she is just being really nice and I am like a best freind to her or if she feels the same way about me as I do to her. But here's what happened the other day: I see her, walking with this guy, and when I greet her and she greets me, the first thing she says to me, in a very unenergetic, kind of depressed voice, is "I'm single." I respond confusedly, "You mean...you broke up with your boyfreind?" She nods yes. I ask "How come?" and she says "Its a long story." I would have hugged her but she was on the floor below, so I gave her an "air-hug." I tell her I will call her, and I do, but she has not responded back yet.

Is she in love with me?!? Or does she just want me as a freind?

I want to make her mine so bad!!

2007-03-09 10:35:18 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm approaching forty and she still makes me feel like i'm six years old. And she always ends phone conversations first- takes control . Are they all control freaks or is it just mine?

2007-03-09 10:34:10 · 15 answers · asked by Peace 2 in Family

2007-03-09 10:34:01 · 4 answers · asked by SEXY BACK 1 in Friends

2007-03-09 10:33:15 · 11 answers · asked by tierrababygirl1 1 in Singles & Dating

We know we like each other. When he was flurting with me before I did not response because I was angry on something.
But know I want and am(a little flurting with h im) and well he kinda slowed down on flurting with me. Yet he still want to meet with me alone. What do you think?

2007-03-09 10:33:15 · 6 answers · asked by curious 2 in Singles & Dating

ok here goes, i really like this guy, like REALLY! and i see him sumtimes coz he takes the same bus as me. and i cant stop thinking about how hto he is or how tall and its like a great big event evrytime i see him! the only thing is-he dusnt notice me, im not even sure if he knows who i am. my brother says hes 'aquainted' with him and hes a cool guy so i know hes just PERFECT!
i need advice on how i can get to talk to him and get to know him better ; ) (u wud understand my situation if u knew how hot he is) and hes not even trying-its not like other guys that spend forever in front of the mirror or nethin! HELP PLZ!!!

2007-03-09 10:32:49 · 7 answers · asked by ▓▒░ ♫ Pump !t up ♫ ▓▒░ 6 in Singles & Dating

Yes I've seen a picture of her. Ive talk to her mom sister etc. Can I actually be in love.......... the 29th will make it a year. Txt, Talk , and email everyday. Can this actually be true love? We talk for hour and the longest I think was 8-9 till the battery went out. Hard to hang up without saying I love you.

2007-03-09 10:32:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 10:32:23 · 3 answers · asked by daddu2000 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 10:32:00 · 15 answers · asked by shellv1966 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I like a guy that is older than me and i am not sure if i should ask him out or not. I definatly like him 1000000000 times 1. I am in 7th and he is in 8th!

2007-03-09 10:31:33 · 10 answers · asked by cclovahh 1 in Singles & Dating

My mom is dating this guy that is supposedly going to be coming over here to the U.S. soon and they have known each other for a while now. But thing is she is over 50 and he is only 23. and i am 20. My brother/friend is 23 and my blood brother is only 18 about to be 18 about to be 19.

I have seen other males that are older get with younger females and marry or date. and then i have seen younger men or women go after older people. & i see it all the time as well. Please someone help me.

Thing is i have told her how i feel about her new bf. B/c i think that she should be happy but at the same time i dont want her to date this guy that is just 3 years away from me. I think that is wrong and plus that would be dating my older brother/friend and me for that matter almost. Just i am worried and dont know what to think really. Can someone please give me their opinions on this situation.

2007-03-09 10:31:12 · 5 answers · asked by fryeindustries2002 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 10:31:03 · 37 answers · asked by tierrababygirl1 1 in Singles & Dating

i sent one of the nicest teachers a hurt full leter because i was mad and know i dont think that he will be there for me any more I fell so bad

2007-03-09 10:31:00 · 11 answers · asked by sakura 1 in Singles & Dating

sadies hawkins dance, by the way, is a dance where the girls ask the guys to it......so whats expected of the girls now? do you just meet up with the guy for the slow songs, or like hang out before the dance...or WHAT>???? HELP

2007-03-09 10:30:55 · 4 answers · asked by scarheadlovesferret 4 in Singles & Dating