ok here goes, i really like this guy, like REALLY! and i see him sumtimes coz he takes the same bus as me. and i cant stop thinking about how hto he is or how tall and its like a great big event evrytime i see him! the only thing is-he dusnt notice me, im not even sure if he knows who i am. my brother says hes 'aquainted' with him and hes a cool guy so i know hes just PERFECT!
i need advice on how i can get to talk to him and get to know him better ; ) (u wud understand my situation if u knew how hot he is) and hes not even trying-its not like other guys that spend forever in front of the mirror or nethin! HELP PLZ!!!
2007-03-09 10:32:49 · 7 answers · asked by ▓▒░ ♫ Pump !t up ♫ ▓▒░ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off i think that if your brother knows him and he says that he's a cool guy then thats fine. But you don't necessarily know if he is perfect at home or whatnot, out in public away from you and others so people wont see how he really is.....etc....anyways, thing is you need to get to talk to him first and get to be friends with him, b/c if he is for real then he will talk to you and be friends with you then and just keep at him about it and saying hey or hi or whatnot, and that way you will be one more step closer to liking him and getting to know more about him in the process. But this process doesnt and wont take a day, you will have to get to know him first and go from there as a FRIEND and then see where it goes. Depending on if you see it as the right time to tell him or not about your feelings depends on you completely. Thats my opinion girl. Later tater.
2007-03-09 10:42:32 · answer #1 · answered by fryeindustries2002 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you just keep dreaming about him. We used to do that a lot. It's fun. It doesn't always have to end up with something. Who knows what the future holds for you. He might cross your paths somewhere down the line, when you least expect it and it could click. That's a lot more exciting than hunting the guy down and him not being interested. Then the dreaming would cease as well. Enjoy the time you have right now.
2007-03-09 10:37:36 · answer #2 · answered by VW 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In your situation I would advice you to have small talks like hello..and see where it goes from there. Dont be a stocker just say hello..Even sitting beside him on the bus. You never know..you might see a spark or not. You may even exchange numbers and start spending time together. Even if its friendship atleast thats a start verses you sitting wondering what if.
2007-03-09 10:42:00 · answer #3 · answered by roro 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should some how (drop something or something) get his attention smile and say hi! Then he will probably say hi back and then it'll get the fire going! Then when you get off of the bus, don't look back to see if he's looking, kind of like hard to get, and one thing I know is that guys want you more when they know they can't have you!! Good luck on getting him!
2007-03-09 10:39:14 · answer #4 · answered by Birdiebuddy_11 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why dont u introduce urself and say hi. Thats usually a pretty good opening line.
2007-03-09 10:37:09 · answer #5 · answered by itzmedbd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well go and ask him out the worst that could happen is him saying no but if u dont ask him and someone else does then u will have this repentence that u never gathered enough courage making u a loser....
2007-03-09 10:36:11 · answer #6 · answered by classy!!! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go up and talk to him the worse he can say is no
2007-03-09 10:38:51 · answer #7 · answered by hot_kokoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋