like i have friends but i only known then for about 2 yrs.....like i see people who have friends that are they really good friends...i dont have friends like this..just aquaitances..like if im n ot in school nobody notices or cares +i got to a ghetto school that i hate.....i hate most of the people there anyway....i hate feeling like this
2007-03-09 10:41:17 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Could you change schools?
It's awful feeling like you don't matter and you have no friends, but there will definately be a group of people out there that are just like you. You just have to be patient and you'll find them, and when you do, you'll be happy you waited.
Stay true to yourself and don't change to fit in with everybody else and one day soon you'll find your people.
Have you seen the music video for 'No Rain' by Blind Melon?...you should watch it on You Tube. It will make you happy that you are such an individual that you are rare and wonderful.
2007-03-09 10:49:50 · answer #1 · answered by Jamie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, maybe trying to get to know them. Or Join a club or something. This might sign a little plain, but try it. It might really work. Plus those people you say that you hate at your school, give them a chance. You know those "aquaitances" you have might turn into a friendship. Give it some time and remember you have to do your part also!
Hope it helped!
2007-03-09 10:47:41 · answer #2 · answered by Taylor F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be a good friend to make good friends. From the sounds of it you hate your school and most of the people there, so it's no wonder? Maybe you can make a friend via an after school activity. But the most important part is to be a friend to whomever you may pick. It starts with you and your attitude. Others pick up on that.
2007-03-09 10:46:15 · answer #3 · answered by VW 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel !!!! People can be such assholes. I'm not even going to school anymore because I just couldn't take it anymore, but anyways I don't really know what to say but I hope it works out for you and I know it is hard to speak up sometimes and meet new people but that's what you have to do. And going to a ghetto school doesn't help either. but I think all schools are ghetto haha.
2007-03-09 10:46:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey someone just like me!!!! lol. I have been out of school for about 3 years now and I don't have really CLOSE friends either. I have hang out friends on the weekend but not shopping friends during the week. Don't feel so bad. Try to find a boyfriend. A boyfriend could definatley be your best friend.
2007-03-09 10:45:11 · answer #5 · answered by wifey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweety i dont have non friends neither. the one true friend i had just moved away from me 4 hours to be with a guy she met on line and that sucks because if i thought she was such a bestfriend like she said she was she would of told the guy to move here and she would of never moved so far from me. dont make friends you always get hurt in the end . for some reason i just dont trust people because of this and now i find it impossable to make friends but i honestly dont trust anyone i even have troubles trusting my own boyfriend. ....long story... if you wanna be friends add me to you,r yahoo messanger... angelblossom1963@yahoo.com ok ill be you,r friend sincerly pamela .... i also think thats why there are so many depressed people in this world is because no one trusts no one and people are just out to hurt each other these days. people are angry with this world.
2007-03-09 11:00:06 · answer #6 · answered by angelblossom1963 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you arent being very open minded are you? here's a really good hint- if you are interested, people will find you interesting. meaning, if you are genuinely interested in what someone has to say, they will open up more. you choose to make yourself invisible. its not that no one cares or notices you, its that you are hiding. stop hiding. find out what you have in common with these people. and 2 years is actually a long friendship! soon 2 years will be 4 then 6 then you're kids will be playing together. you need to be 100% of yourself 100% of the time. those who are offended by it are merely scared of letting people see who they truly are. be honest, be kind, be genuine, be open to new things, and have fun! happy people draw happy people.
2007-03-09 10:46:44 · answer #7 · answered by orange blossom honey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That you hate most of the people at your so-called ghetto school explains why you don't have any real friends who care for you.
2007-03-09 10:44:38 · answer #8 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sucks. people today are not true friends anyways, Everyone is always out for themselves. Even if people look like great friends. i guarentee you someone is talking crap behind the other one. People now are such flakes and say one thing and then turn round and same something completely different to someone else. Seems like it is like this everywhere. But i live in california might be different in another state. I couldnt name 1 true friend.
2007-03-09 10:47:29 · answer #9 · answered by j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can also try getting out the ghetto school and going to another school where people will like you and be your friend.
2007-03-09 10:45:04 · answer #10 · answered by Josh D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋