& now he's being very mean to me and argues with me and puts me down. Why can't he just leave me alone? Why is he acting the way he's acting??????????
2007-03-09 11:28:17 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i used to be friends with this guy for a year but now he became a freakin #$%&*#@
2007-03-09 11:32:52 · update #1
you are better than him. If he really likes you then he wouldnt be that mean. If he is mean to you again tell him to backoff and stand up for yourself as a confident and intelligent woman. Tell him no MAN no...BOY is going to put you down. Do what you think you should do!!!go get him!!!
2007-03-09 11:34:05 · answer #1 · answered by Britt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him. He's probably just so frustrated, he's taking it all out on you. Tell him that if you don't want to go out with him, you won't, and there's nothing he can do about it, so he might as well leave you alone! Or, if you want to say it in a nice way, say that he doesn't deserve you anyway, because one day some pretty girl will come along and he will be happy happy joy joy.
2007-03-09 11:31:32 · answer #2 · answered by julia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well rejecting a guy 3 times kinda tells the guy that you don't want to have to do anything with him.
you should sit down and talk to him. tell him that being friends is the best for you. or the real truth.
and if he still is mean and stuff, just ignore him.
2007-03-09 11:31:01 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Jamie. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you darlin. You should be flattered. But then again, its all a game with you gals, and playing it up to the hilt is what yall do. I mean, whats wrong with this guy that you keep rejecting him. What does he not have, that you need so desparately from a man. Good luck to you.
2007-03-09 11:41:09 · answer #4 · answered by tennman012000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can't leave you alone because he feels like if he rejects you the way you rejected him, it'll make you want to go out with you.
2007-03-09 11:34:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always a backlash when you reject someone. It's the price to pay for being desirable. That being said, you don't have to take it. Tell him you can make things a lot worse and more embarassing for him so he better step off.
2007-03-09 11:32:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is angry. You need to get him off alone and explain to him that you think he is a nice person but you are not interested in him romantically.
I have been through this and I can tell you a rejected man is a dangerous man who could try to ruin your reputation and more.
2007-03-09 11:31:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people don't handle rejection well. If he doesn't leave you alone you should talk to his parents, teachers or the police if need be.
2007-03-09 11:31:31 · answer #8 · answered by Q.A. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! You ask why? You hurt his ego, so he's trying to do the same to you. I know that is really immature, but just ignore it and move on. He'll soon move on, unless he's a stalker type. If he is, get a restraining order.
2007-03-09 11:36:54 · answer #9 · answered by kimmie315 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he puts you down in front of others, tell him that you never forget a face, but in his case you will make an exception.
2007-03-09 11:32:25 · answer #10 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋