Ok ive known this girl for a couple years now. Just recently ive started to develope feelings for her. Ive recently tried asking her out but i have a feeling shes not having it. For example the first time i asked she said she didnt feel like it and asked if i wanted to go another time and i told her ok yeh whenever u want to (so i pretty much put the ball in her court but she hasnt responded to it yet) and the second time she said she was sick (which i feel is just a way around it). But my main problem is she still acts really friendly towards me whenever i see her. So how should i take this? should i keep going or just drop it all togethere.
2007-03-09 11:27:00 · 8 answers · asked by scott c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would think she just wants to be friends...Dont ask for a while and see where things lead...
2007-03-09 17:52:52 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She apparently just wants to be your friend and doesn't see you in a romantic point of view. I would stop asking her out. I bet you wouldn't want a girlfriend who didn't really love you. But don't give up hope; she may find feelings for you yet.
2007-03-09 19:31:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe she thinks that you are better as friends rahter than something else.. i say just keep being the best friend you can be.. if she doesnt feel the same way eventually you will get over it. maybe she will come around if she sees how good of a friend you are.. maybe not.. she is still your friend either way :)
2007-03-09 19:31:41 · answer #3 · answered by curls 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just drop it for now.
because it seems like she isnt interested in a relationship.
and hey! if she lets you down, then move on or wait for her to change her mind of liking you.
2007-03-09 19:34:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just not that into you. Stop asking her out.
2007-03-09 19:30:50 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say she is just trying to be nice and trying not to hurt your feelings but she prob. doesnt want a relationship with you.
2007-03-09 19:44:36 · answer #6 · answered by tracklifeismine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes persistence pays off.......Good Luck!
2007-03-09 19:31:32 · answer #7 · answered by justmedrt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from wut i've read she has no idea that u want to b more than just friends drop more clues or just tell her that your feelings have changed and you want more than friends
2007-03-09 19:32:03 · answer #8 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋