Me and my girlfriend use to always talk about having a threesome while having sex, and afterwards use to feel a bit sicken of it due to jelousy and all of that, now afterwards we just talk about which guy or girl should we get for our threesome, does this mean we are ready?
2007-03-09 11:21:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not neccessarily hun. It's okay to live in a fantasy world, but unless your relationship is absolutely stable and secure and there is complete trust, i don't reccomend you do it. IT is one thing talking about it, but when it comes to the crunch, could you do it?. There is nothing wrong with trying, and if either of you feel that you cant go ahead, then say so straight away. Also, when another person is involved, it would be wise to know that they wont get attatched to much to either of you. Also, if you go ahead with it, remember that it is just sex, no feeling and emotions involved, and you should know how to differenciate between the two.
2007-03-09 12:30:23 · answer #1 · answered by Solista 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in a relationship I would strongly suggest not to do it. It turns into a disaster 99% of the time (even if not right away). The best time to try a threesome is when three single people are involved. This way you everyone can truly enjoy it. There will be no worrying about jealousy, hard feelings, or awkwardness. If you do it there is a good chance it's going to destroy the relationship...especially if you have already talked about jealousy.
2007-03-09 19:26:22 · answer #2 · answered by dil7827 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Very few people can have threesomes successfully without ruining their relationships. If you had jealousy talking about it, imagine how you'd feel actually going through with it. I don't think its only jealousy, it is also that if you love a person, you don't want to share. Fantasizing is fun and harmless, but someone is bound to get hurt. If you do it though, make sure there are very set ground rules, and DON'T have it be someone you are close to. That always ends bad.
2007-03-09 19:32:22 · answer #3 · answered by s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
exgaging in sex with someone else and your partner can seem very exiting at first my advice to you and your partner would be to keep grip on those fantasies try a movie new underwear spice things up as if you do go ahead with a threesome you might end up regretting it make the best of what you have together if you still want to go ahead with it then plan ahead use protection and have fun good luck to you both
2007-03-09 19:33:38 · answer #4 · answered by nicola s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haven't read the replies you have had but quite honestly a threesome could be the ruin of you. It works for some but only a minority. If you love and respect your girlfriend and she likewise this wouldn't come in to the equasion. There are lots of exciting things to do for just the two of you........use your imagination.
2007-03-09 20:24:23 · answer #5 · answered by Ms Mat Urity 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-09 19:31:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you invite a girl to join in your G/F would probably feel jealous, if a guy joins you you'll feel jealous, i know i'd be spitting feathers watching some other girl doing my man!
3somes very rarely work out and someone will be left feeling very insecure.
Why dont you leave it as it is, a sexual fantasy, you dont need to act on it.
2007-03-09 19:40:59 · answer #7 · answered by The Original Highbury Gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah sounds fimilar here,,,,,,, what i suggest is,,, you both have to be very open with each other and sometimes you can get hurt and you maybe always think is he/she thinking the other one is better than me... your maybe just like speaking like that when having sex,, so it makes the too of you feel goodd while doing it... always think first be4 heading into something thats way beyond your head..... trust is always a big thing (think first).
2007-03-09 20:29:14 · answer #8 · answered by dundeelass02 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that if the two of you have serious feelings for each other that you don't . . .you will regret watching someone you care about so much enjoying themself with someone else . . .Now if the two of you just like/lust each other and want to try something new then go for it you will love it . . .trust me
2007-03-09 19:29:38 · answer #9 · answered by SexySlim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You talked about it an now she thinks that you want it an you think she wants it. Sounds like you both need to talk about it till you both find out if that's something you both want to do.
2007-03-09 19:27:44 · answer #10 · answered by Jim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋