me and my boyfriend have been dared by my friend to go out for 62 months, which is 5 years and one month, so far we been going out for almost three months. our relationship is strong when something bothers us we can tell each other and this has been thee best relationship i`ve been in, what do you think , will we make it,(if we do we most likely get married then )
2007-03-09 11:24:55 · 31 answers · asked by Loving_This_Time_Around 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if we ever didnt like each other we would break-up, this dare is more like trying to see if our love can last that long i think it can
2007-03-09 11:29:36 · update #1
we were already going out for about 2 months we we got dared to see if we could last its not a dare to go out with him
2007-03-09 11:30:58 · update #2
WE ARE NOT TOGETHER BECAUSE OF A DARE WE ARE TOGETHER BECAUSE WE LIKE EACH OTHER
2007-03-09 11:32:22 · update #3
IM NOT ASKING FOR RUDE REMARKS IM ASKING FOR YOUR OPINION
2007-03-09 11:33:10 · update #4
i {emily} swear on my life i am not just in it beccause of a dare i actually love him the dare just came along, my friends think we will make it and they think he is the best boy i`ve gone out with
2007-03-09 11:35:25 · update #5
i can honestly care less about the dare im just asking for your guys opinion!!!
2007-03-09 11:36:52 · update #6
his parents started going out at our age and ended up getting married so stop trying to yake my hope away,
2007-03-09 11:42:19 · update #7
yes! if both of ya'll love eachother dearly you will make it. Have fun being together! But remember you don't have to do it. You can get married before the 52 months of dared. Just have fun, k? :)
~Smile cause God loves you~
2007-03-09 11:29:30 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ღ...∂αηg3яσυѕℓу ιη ℓσν3...ღ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I'm not sure if you'll make it. Not to be negative or anything. Theres two sides to this. If you and the guy were dared to be boyfriend and girlfriend then it isn't going to last because you were being dared. On the other hand, if you were already boyfriend and girlfriend, then there is a chance that you can last that long. However, in the beginning of a relationship, it may go great and stay great. But sometimes, it starts great and leads to disaster.
2007-03-09 19:28:55 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well since you are Brandon's girl forever and always, then duh, of course you'll make it. And everyone knows that a dare is the best reason to stay in a relationship!
Sorry, honey, three months is still the honeymoon stage. And my guess is that you are pretty young because you say things like "go out" and oh yeah, "my friend dared us." People change a lot during that phase of their life. Maybe you will make it, but I say odds are you don't. Plus, being together for 5 years does not mean marriage.
2007-03-09 19:30:41 · answer #3 · answered by graybear 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
In my experience, dating that begins or ends with a dare end up going south. And... think of it this way... Three months... it seems like a long time... until you realize that a) marriages are generally a lifetime commitment (fifty years, round about). So you only 49 years and nine months left. And b) many couples don't even last a year. So. Although I wish you two the best of luck... I wouldn't plan your entire life around your boyfriend just yet.
2007-03-09 19:30:17 · answer #4 · answered by xletxmexgox 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't worry about the dare. I would be more concerned if you care about or love the person you are with and if you are good for each other. Don't worry about a dare or what other people may think.
p.s. 62 months is 5 years 2 months :0)
2007-03-09 19:27:39 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think that the "thrill of the dare" is what's driving the relationship. You might well indeed make it. But to determine if it's the type of relationship where you want to get married, you should have someone take off the pressure of the dare.
2007-03-09 19:28:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're joking right?
That's the silliest thing I've heard. Why would you subject yourself to a relationship you felt obligated to be in? I mean really think about that.
You should be in a relationship with someone because you want to, not because you were dared.
I'm happy that you two are connecting, that's awesome. However taking yourself away from other opportunities just to fulfill a dare is ridiculous and wasteful.
2007-03-09 19:30:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
So, you're on a dare to go out with someone? That kinda sucks, I mean, it's a pretty sh itty deal.
Anyway...see how far you get. Don't force the relationship if you guys get into any problems, just for a stupid dare.
Good luck. Don't rush your life, by the way.
2007-03-09 19:27:41 · answer #8 · answered by Wendy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should tell how old you are and what the circumstances are first. I'd re-ask this questions with details. If you are young and dumb, then no it will not. You should not make a life decision on a dare which insenuates to me that you are a young, dumb couple. Sorry.
2007-03-09 19:29:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Really. It's only been 3 months. Of course it's going good. This has to be one of the most retarded things I've ever read. It doesn't sound like either one of you are mature enough to be in a relationship that long. But do it anyway....you wouldn't want to lose that dare!...GEEZE...GROW UP!
2007-03-09 19:29:58 · answer #10 · answered by dil7827 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋