She's married but unhappy, but at the same time she don't want to hurt his feelings and tell him. I want to tell him or her to tell him? is it wrong to pressure her or let whatever happens happen.
2007-03-09 11:27:13 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Quit being a greedy *** ***** and if she wanted your *** she would come to you but i gues she does not want you because she screwing some one else so back the **** off
2007-03-09 11:31:51 · answer #1 · answered by pimp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly....I would have to say your getting into trouble. Never get involved in someones elses marital problems. You need to take a step back, put yourself in the spouses shoes....would you want someone doing that to you? It's so wrong, dont fall in love with someone who's married, it's not fair to yourself, or either of the two married people. I believe it is wrong for you to put pressure on her. What if she makes a mistake, how will she feel about you then, when it's too late to save her marriage? As hard as it might be, I think you need to let her go, it's the right thing to do. Good luck...
2007-03-09 11:37:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me she or he is going to do whatever they want to do, so u pressuring them will not make a difference on their mind set.The question is even though shes unhappy, are they still in love with that person. Sometimes its not worth your time + emotion with a married individual, Ur going to eventually see that all along when u thought the relationship was moving , it never even came out of park yet.
2007-03-09 11:33:16 · answer #3 · answered by meesha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get entangled along with her until AFTER she gets divorced. If she would not choose to get divorced from her husband, then recognize that and leave her be. purely don't have an affair along with her.. 2 wrongs do not make a suited.
2016-12-18 09:35:01 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to step back and let her figure things out for herself..if she leaves her marriage then bonus for you but if not then you need to respect that.
Bottom line is that this is a decision she needs to make with no pressure from you.
2007-03-09 11:33:58 · answer #5 · answered by pepc1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were married to her an she was unhappy an was cheating on you with someone else, how would you feel?
2007-03-09 11:33:18 · answer #6 · answered by Jim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she leaves, let her leave on her own without any nudging from you. You don't want to be known as a home wrecker and then she ends up resenting you for it. Let whatever happens happen.
2007-03-09 11:31:59 · answer #7 · answered by fefe917 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are wrong to interfere with their marriage!
Back off. Tell her "When you decide I'll be here, but not forever"
She has to decide. You being in the picture is wrong and you will wind up getting hurt very badly
2007-03-09 11:30:08 · answer #8 · answered by eddie9551 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Let her make the chose. Let her decide weither she wants to get divorce or not. You can be friends but, don't try to muscle in because that'll start a fight with the husband and there's no good in war. Let her be, and let her decide.
2007-03-09 11:31:57 · answer #9 · answered by Robby M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong of you to be hanging around there at all right now. Period.
Let go, and get away from this situation. If she breaks up with him and comes to you later, that's one thing. But you can't influence her to break up with her husband. If you do, and it was the wrong thing, she will always blame you.
2007-03-09 11:31:39 · answer #10 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's nice you're in love- but so? She's married. It's her problem if she's unhappy, not yours. Butt out of her marriage and leave them alone.
2007-03-09 11:29:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋