Family & Relationships - 26 February 2007

My husband has a very close friend who is a women. She used to by my friend, but now she is more my husband's than she is mine. They texted each other all the time. All day a work and even at home. I have expressed by concern to both of them. Huge fight!!! She told me she would stop texting him because our friendship was more important. She lied. The texting never stopped. When we had the huge fight, it was because I found some texts on his phone from her that I thought were inappropriate for her to be saying to a married man. My husband explained what it was about. No big deal. I have since tried to not let this bother me, but I can't shake the feeling that she wants more out of their friendship than he does. I have tried texting her when we are all out and ask if she wants to join. She will never text me back, but as soon as my husband sends her a text, she is all over it within no time. I grow to hate her more and more each day. What do I do? Help please.

2007-02-26 07:23:12 · 27 answers · asked by Kendra B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

here is the sentence:

"Do you only get a crush on someone if they like you back?"

2007-02-26 07:23:08 · 4 answers · asked by mia_michelle11 1 in Singles & Dating

Whats the best way to catch my boyfriend cheating. I have strong suspicions and some instant messages that indicate he may be. We have a 7 mo old son together and I just want this over with withouta lot of drama. I want to be able to slap the proof in his face so he cant deny it- like he has before and since I couldnt prove it, I dropped it. Does anyone have any ideas?

2007-02-26 07:22:00 · 18 answers · asked by psychoticangel_kitty 3 in Singles & Dating

well as i said in my other question ......i like females but i have a man wich i love so much...... yes i have tried everything to try to tell him i want to experiance with a female but he is not so fond of it!!! i dont want to cheat ...or break up .....what should i do??? cheat? or what cuz i relly want to experiance with a female!!!

2007-02-26 07:21:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last night I went to my father's for dinner w/my husband and son from a previous marriage....we show up and my father generally spends the time w/my son and another grandson. After a while my sister shows up with her 3 other children for dinner. My husband and I have been out all day doing stuff w/my son and playing pool (meaning husband is on his 5th beer by this time). My sister asks for a rate R movie to be changed and my husband stomps out and doesn't come back in for 2 hours. He just sits outside and drinks. Then as it is time to go (7pm and my son and I need to do some work before bed), my husband says just take him home and then come and get me while I stay here. That is over 1 hour worth of driving...when we had been there for 4 hours. He started putting me down in front of my father and son. From there..when my father takes him home, he says he doesn't want to be married to me anymore. That it was my job to come and get him and that he doesn't give a **** about my son because

2007-02-26 07:21:12 · 2 answers · asked by kishoti 5 in Marriage & Divorce

group of 6 with our initials, A, A, C, E, K, S. we are not snobby or geeks. we are a group of best friends who enjoy watching movies, playing sports, and doing regular teenage stuff. we are 13 and 14 years old. any suggestions?

2007-02-26 07:20:42 · 8 answers · asked by dancingrl6293 1 in Friends

I'm a 21 year old girl who doesn't like going to clubs, bars or partying. At the university is hard to meet someone coz everyone is busy and occupied with school. How and where am I suppose to meet a respectful, nice and cute guy? I don't really have friends at this moment because I've been moving out too much.

2007-02-26 07:20:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I been dating a guy for 7 mos. After about two months we were exclusive. We had conversation recently that led to him saying "Yeah we aren't seeing other people, but you're not my girlfriend." I decided at the time that I liked how the relationship was, and that the title girlfriend, was just a label, so if everything else is good who cares. He calls me several times a week and we see each other every weekend, so it seems as if he likes me, and he has said he likes me. I asked why I wasn't his girlfriend, and he said that due to his current circumstances, that he did not want to put everything on me, as he is going through a rough time right now. I know this and am willing to stick with him. he says if I stick with him through this I will stick with him through anything, and then he will know I'm for real? Does this seem like BS ?

2007-02-26 07:19:42 · 7 answers · asked by atablackbelt 3 in Singles & Dating

can I do?

He's home from work today, thought the cat (always indoors) would like the snow and ice, put a harness on him and had him slipping around out there "skating" trying to make a funny video ... probably for about a half an hour.

He finally brings the cat back in the house, and the cat is limping and can barely walk .. he calls me all in a panic!

I told him to take the cat to the vet immediately, but he's afraid to drive in the snow, and I can't leave work.

Help, anyone know what I can do?

2007-02-26 07:19:32 · 33 answers · asked by Reserved 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-26 07:19:07 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I can't stand my mother in law, she is a 66-year-old needy, nosey, meddling person. She plays my husband against me by making comments to him about me or something I might have said or done. She calls my husband over for almost anything she can think of. Don't get me wrong, she's a fit, solid minded person who can sit up at the casino for 12 hours, walk 3 miles a day and so on! She has eight kids, but only 3 are boys. She feels her chores should be done by her boys because this is why she had boys. She will not allow any of the in-laws to help cut her grass, do her running, salt her walks, shovel her snow..... We live 1 hour away, so do the other two boys, all her daughters are married and live by her. She doesn’t like me cause my husband is her baby. We married after just 4 weeks. I already had a son when we married. Should I go on? Needless to say she thinks I am not worthy of her son although we have been married 10 years now. We fight constantly over her. I try to keep to myself but it’s so hard. One of his sisters is my very best friend and she doesn’t understand why her mother is this way to us either.

My husband thinks I am jealous, so if that's the case, how can I over come it and stopped feeling like I want to dig her eyes out every time my husband goes running? How can I deal with this with out getting a divorce????

2007-02-26 07:18:54 · 22 answers · asked by Michelle Lynn 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend of 3 yrs. wants to get a civil union but I was really thinking of breaking up with her and Ive got someone else Im seeing what should i do?

2007-02-26 07:18:02 · 32 answers · asked by brandy0084 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 07:18:01 · 11 answers · asked by Aj 1 in Singles & Dating

I know this is really pathetic posting on here but what can make me feel ne better i feel reli down at the moment n cant stop crying cus my best friend has ditched our group of mates n my boyfriend left me a couple of weeks ago n i know i should get over him but no one knows i keep crying about him everytime i try and speak to him he is really off with me but i miss him more than anything i feel like crying all the time what should i do:'(

2007-02-26 07:17:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Since it seems that many universities don't like this sort of relationship what would you do?

2007-02-26 07:16:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what happens to your sheets
what happens to your pillows?
what happens to your pajamas?
what happens to you?

2007-02-26 07:16:29 · 28 answers · asked by lowroad 2 in Singles & Dating

okay...im the girl whos ex bf killed him self...for details on this go look at the question i asked dealing with it earlier....but ne ways


did he rly love me if he killed his self??? or was he bein selfish??....im just so confused and have so many questions...and i dont have a close friend to ask these ask these question to?!?!?

2007-02-26 07:16:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why do your exes come back even when they know you just dont want them anymore

2007-02-26 07:15:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We all can say I love you to the people of opp sex. But y it is hard to say to a frnd of ur same gender. I love my frnd. what do u guys think how she would react if I tell her I love you??

2007-02-26 07:15:08 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i dont know how to act when i meet new people, like friends of friends. i just stand there being really shy, any really good things to do when you meet new people? please help
xxx

2007-02-26 07:14:30 · 8 answers · asked by amber likes glitter 2 in Friends

I have liked him for a while now and he kinda knows. (dont ask another story). Anyway we talk some and have a lot in common. I really enjoy talking to him. In the hallway I see him looking at me and when I look he smiles a little.
He has a younger and mean girlfreind who is mean to everyone but not around him. He knows though. At the dance he didnt hang out with her and hung out with me a little bit. Do you think he likes me? what should I do? And I definitely dont want to be the reason for them to break up, if they do.

2007-02-26 07:14:10 · 6 answers · asked by Chat Noir 3 in Singles & Dating

i keep thinking of my ex. some people in yahoo told me to stop telling this on line. well i have no one else to talk to. my ex treated me with little respect and lied to me all the time. we had some good times but i was always uneasy becuz of the lies and not knowing if this was the day for a lie. well he has bought me nice things and sometimes been there emotionally. but he never admitted truthfully to doing me wrong. he use to gawk at women all the time in front of me. he was always at a party and he never considered my feelings. so i broke it off. he tried to come back but i felt it was just to have sex cuz i had stopped doing that. well now he hasnt called in a while and im thinking of him. why is this? the thought of him being completely gone is killing me. how can i stop this feeling. keeping busy is not helping. he hurt me and now hes acting like he is the one mad. so what can i do about this cuz im about to loose my mind.

2007-02-26 07:13:59 · 9 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy on the internet in Oct 05 and we have only had phone conversation, which made us very close, we talk and share everything with each other, we both were going thru some hard break ups at the time and really helped each other get thru them. since we have never met face to face it we made a decision to jst be friends, but in the meantime very strong feelings became invloved, he unfortunely got back with a old high school sweetheart, but he can't seem to let me go and i can't let him go.
So i decieded I would travel to finally see him and tell him that we need to just keep our relationship to a friendship only level ( we were way past that if you feel me, we are dying to be together physically) anyway so that was my plan i had to let him go somehow because I really love him and don't want to get hurt. So i went to see him finally and the chemistry was way stronger than i expected, he really can't let me go , i feel as thoug we are soul mates what should i do?

2007-02-26 07:13:29 · 13 answers · asked by Sexy 2 in Singles & Dating

I do not want to sound like a "crazy mom" but I really need some help. My 25 year old son lives in another state. We have/had a great relationship. I divorced his dad when he was 3 so we were attached at the hip our entire life. He has been living with his girlfriend for 2 years now. My husband and I went to visit him last week to see his new home. Well his girlfriend avoided us the entire trip. When she came home from work she went into her bed room. We saw her for approx 4 hrs the entire week. Our last night there, she went to the bar after work and spent the night with "friends" she did not even say good bye to us. I do not know her well, but wanted to do a "spa" day or something fun for "just us girls" but this did not happen. My husband told me to keep my mouth shut. I could ruin my relationship with my son if I voice my opinion of this girl He will figure out in time that she is not the one. I would just like to say something to him. This is breaking my heat.

2007-02-26 07:13:14 · 15 answers · asked by ncbound 5 in Weddings

Me and my ex have been broken up for about 3 months now.. we were together for about 8 months. Our relationship was OK... except for the times we would fight and he'd hit me. Well I felt like he was cheatin and went threw his phone and found it it was true :O( .. i did the WRONG thing & stayed wit him. Well about 3 weeks after that he broke up wit me after this HUGE fight and we just STOPPED talkin. Now I'm back with my ex who i was wit for 2 yrs prior and I keep havin dreams of the one who hit me and cheated on me.. I keep dreamin of us bein back together, us kissin, and then my other dreams of him are that he is wit the girl he left me for or another girl-- what does this mean? I dont think id ever go back to him because of how he treated me (physically & verbally abused me) and I love my boyfriend now... whats up? HOW COME EVERY TIME I CLOSE MY EYES TO SLEEP I DREAM OF HIM?? AND WHEN IM AT WORK I CATCH MYSELF THINKIN ABOUT HIS FAMILY AND HOW MUCH I MISS THEM??? HELP!!!

2007-02-26 07:12:54 · 4 answers · asked by Dana A 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 07:12:27 · 8 answers · asked by zizi m 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who is 14 all her life she has been nothing to the eyes of her parents. As her parents she believes there is some good in them but i've heard so much that i have had about enough! My friend is a great person, she has a great personality, she's smart and a future. but at home her parents call her a failure.. they treat her like **** and think of her as the worst. she has broken down on me many times and it tears me apart to see her like that. she's scared to lose all she has and i've let her know im there and i've given her thoughts about getting out but it's her family and i understand her that she wants to find the good in them. BUT THERE IS NO DAMN GOOD IN THEM!

2007-02-26 07:12:11 · 7 answers · asked by ninacoqueta0817 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I really am finding it hard to place my feelings. One minute i am ok and happy with my partner, then when things go wrong with family and other stuff i feel i dont want him around and tell him i want him to leave as my feelings for him are gone. Its like i go really cold and heartless towards him and i dont know why. We been together three years and have a little girl, just cant keep carrying on like this because i know deep down i do love him, just find it really hard to show him i do. He still sticks around, that something as i would of gone along time ago.

2007-02-26 07:12:09 · 13 answers · asked by Nichola c 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Like she won't leave my husband alone...What do I do?

2007-02-26 07:11:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

because u have 2 make sure they dont fall inwards or splatter outwards if u know what i mean lol

2007-02-26 07:10:58 · 8 answers · asked by cheesy_sausage@btinternet.com 1 in Other - Family & Relationships