Whats the best way to catch my boyfriend cheating. I have strong suspicions and some instant messages that indicate he may be. We have a 7 mo old son together and I just want this over with withouta lot of drama. I want to be able to slap the proof in his face so he cant deny it- like he has before and since I couldnt prove it, I dropped it. Does anyone have any ideas?
2007-02-26 07:22:00 · 18 answers · asked by psychoticangel_kitty 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only reason im asking is because the girl lives in another state and i cant exactly follow him when he goes somewhere whie im at work, or calls her when im not with him from a friends house. and of course none of his family who profess to "love me like one of thier own" would ever tell me if he was cheating.... i guess the apple doesnt fall very far from the tree.
2007-02-26 07:41:22 · update #1
o yah, i CAN aford to raise my son wthout him. I know i dont need him to live my life, but we've been together for 4 years and i dont want to just drop that without proof that somethings is going on
2007-02-26 07:42:38 · update #2
i have a keylogger- thats how i found the messeges. i have 2 infact- one that has screenshots and one that doesnt. and i have th converstions savd on a travel drive that he doesnt know about.
2007-02-26 07:43:52 · update #3
Follow him or spy on him that's how they do it on TV or get one of your friends to do it.
2007-02-26 07:27:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when hes in the shower look through his phones and through a few days go step by step and start texting whoever you think hes cheating with. Im a very jealous kind of person and have never really delt with this problem myself because my boyfriend has strong morals and is an overall great guy and thats what you want. dont take anything thats less than what you deserve. If he is cheating i have one thing to say, revenge is best served cold, leave him and start getting child support asap. you can go on without him and with that advice make changes in your relationship for the better, even if it means finding a new one :)
2007-02-26 07:30:04 · answer #2 · answered by know_moore 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do want to go through all this?? Spying on him, checking his phone etc.... If you think he's cheating then leave him. You go through all this to find out what? Something that you already know may or may not be happening. The energy you "waste" doing that, you could be doing something productive for you and your child. If you do follow him, look through his phone, etc. and find what youre looking for... it will give you closure. But those images of what you found are going to do more harm than good. You'll forever be thinking about it. So save yourself from hurt by leaving. Leave the drama for those who love it...
2007-02-26 07:46:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question to you is WHY do you need proof to dump him? If you think he's cheating he probably is and frankly if this is even an issue there are big problems in the relationship. Dump him and move on to a man who you can trust.
BTW.. if you are waiting for "proof" there will be tons of drama. Shut the door and start anew!
You go girl!
2007-02-26 07:29:19 · answer #4 · answered by p3wg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 00:36:52 · answer #5 · answered by howsare 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A healthy relationship is based on trust. If you have strong enough suspicions that he is cheating that you are wanting to investigate clandestinely then that trust is already gone. Seek counseling or move on from the relationship. Whether or not he is cheating, he can no longer count on your trust of him and it is unfair to him to string it out without an effort to seek help for the underlying causes of your suspicions.
2007-02-26 07:28:38 · answer #6 · answered by Steve S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not that "I" would know about these things? But I would suggest that you cut him off! Leave him hangin' in the wind. If he stays? he's innocent. And he loves for more than your Bod! If he Bolts? He's as guilty as Sin. And should be floogged, within an Inch of his life. Best to ya, Love. Go get him!
2007-02-26 07:29:57 · answer #7 · answered by Goggles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he uses the computer, you could install a program that moniters usage, keylogger, ect.. He would never know its there but you would have access to all of the conversations he is having.
2007-02-26 07:27:08 · answer #8 · answered by shadycaliber 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u know he's cheating breakup w/him instead of wasting time w/his nonsense. not need 4 the proof. u have enough proof yr gut. if u r not comfortable w/the relationship then end it since what matters is how u feel. he's a LOSER!!
2007-02-26 07:26:55 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. San 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you torturing yourself with this sorry relationship? You know he is cheating. Dump him now. You don't need proof of his cheating you need the guts to stand up on your own and leave him!
2007-02-26 07:30:44 · answer #10 · answered by mikey_fiveoh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋