Family & Relationships - 26 February 2007

Hi ladies: Last night I saw show, And the host of the show told someone that the top two thirds of a ladies private part has now nerve ending. And you can't feel anything up there..and she stated to the lady that she was talking to, that a 5 or 6 should work as well if not better then a 9 ....Pls tell me what you think about that!! You see I fall in that 5or 6 range..not looking for anyone to make me feel good just looking to see what others think......Thanks and enjoy your day.. ( And why do SOME ladies like longer)).

2007-02-26 07:46:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I love my husband and i believe he loves me. we got married in september and i think we have a realistic relationship he is as perfect as he can be i dont expect the world but i think hes the best

i don't trust him though, and i don't know why. he looks at other women on myspace and i feel betrayed and let down, but i know its hypocritical because i probably look at men sometimes but it doesnt mean anything
why cant i sort this out? i feel so bad that i have turned to self harm but other weeks i am on top of the world. i am wondering if i am suffering with depression or something.

2007-02-26 07:46:00 · 32 answers · asked by flossie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I saw the O tapes a documentary about women’s orgasm. In it they said that 47% of women don’t have the big O. My wife has about 10 each time we have sex, now I know she is rare, but to think there are women that cant have any is crazy. It's is such a stress reliever for me and it keeps both partners happy. What is the point of sex if you cant have and orgasms (assuming you don’t want kids)? Why would the women who can’t not explore other avenues to reach one? Do you think it is societies views towards sex that have so many women oppressed? I have been with 12 women in my life and all of them act like they couldn’t move after we were done. Although, I am very large and do work very hard to please, but don’t other guys? Why do I see these good looking girls with dudes who I know cant please them. Why would you stay in a relationship if that’s the case? What the hell is going on here?

2007-02-26 07:45:46 · 5 answers · asked by simsad31 2 in Singles & Dating

If you liked a person, and you found another person you liked can you like both of them at the same time?

2007-02-26 07:45:36 · 5 answers · asked by Incredible 3 in Singles & Dating

When my father died (we wern't close) I don't know what happened to his personal effects. I am interested in things like the family photo collection - no real value to anyone other than sentimental.
I didn't find out he'd died until 9 months after the event and have finally located the solicitors who dealt with the case. The seem disinterested in helping (I can understand - if I took no interest while he was alive ...) are they obliged to tell me who the beneficiaries were or can they simply take the "we don't need to tell you" attitude?
If you want to judge me please remember these are only the brief outline of the information and that's a long way from the whole story.
Many thanks

Tony

2007-02-26 07:45:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

There are these two men both of whom I care for. With one I would have it all he is a very caring sensitive man. We get along good and he would do anything to make things work out between us. Our kids also get along great. I am happy when I see him. He has made me his life and that is hard to take at times. With him I would have a happy secure and stable life and in my head he is the better choice. Guess the problem is the other guy who is so deeply rooted in my heart. We were friends it went further he got scared didn't tell me how he felt I moved on so it goes. It has always felt wrong to let him go and move on but I did except he still has my heart and they both know it. I know I can make a good life with the first guy so is it wrong to follow my head and hope my heart catches up completely with time?

2007-02-26 07:45:17 · 10 answers · asked by french fry 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been single for about 3 years. I've met other guys but when we start talking and getting to know each other cause we like each other more than just friends. It seems like they stop talking to me all of a sudden. Than it turns out that they are dating someone else. Why do guys do this to me? it makes me feel like i'm being lead on or something. I'm tired of being single it makes me sad!!! :(

2007-02-26 07:44:38 · 5 answers · asked by ashie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 07:43:53 · 35 answers · asked by bahablast 1 in Marriage & Divorce

And ended up having a relationship with them?

LiL EarlE

The Postal Service Rules

2007-02-26 07:43:53 · 3 answers · asked by LiL EarlE 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm 19 and this guy is 24 and engaged (i think he knows i think he is a little cute) but tends to be flirty then disrecpects me but he thinks its funny, one of the things he does is that he bitches about me not bussing his tables and threatens not to tip, but i buss his tables in front of his face, then he'll be nice , say hi to me and try to get know me, then he'll make remarks and say i get offended easily and will keep going on about it, he will say things like "your sweater is ripped,do you wanna show off your nice tan", he always asks how old i am after i have told him

he also wanted to know my schedule at the community college i go to b/c he goes there too and he said" so when are you there so i can hide from you", that's also when he wanted to know where i was from and he got concerned for me when i told him i didn't like school, what to do?

2007-02-26 07:43:38 · 14 answers · asked by amanda 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was married for 5 years to a man who was later diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder and while I know he is emotionally messed up, I find it hard to NOT feel completely disgusted and angry all the time about him. I have no desire to get involved with another man and my husband and I have been apart for over a year. Don't say see a shrink- I have... I would just like to know how other women have dealt with similar situations and feelings. THANKS!

2007-02-26 07:43:28 · 14 answers · asked by BLAM1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend and i have only been together for about 4 months, we have a very good connection with one another, he wants me to move in with him in a few months when he gets a new apartment.... what do you think?

2007-02-26 07:43:14 · 11 answers · asked by Pregnant with baby# 2!!! 4 in Singles & Dating

I always read here about people recommending "marriage couseling" for a variety of problems ranging from not getting enough sex to wanting sex from somebody else.

Is this guy some kind of miracle worker? What exactly can he/she do for you?

2007-02-26 07:43:01 · 9 answers · asked by Joe B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

he broke up with me 2 months ago. now he im's me on aim and post away messages related to me like "i miss you; I'm playing games trying to forget the past;it's not working" . he also sent me anonymous emails apologizing although it's pretty obvious it's from him. but he never addresses them directly to me from him. we are each other's first love, i know there's nobody else.

if i post a link to a song in my away message he'd im me saying good song, you know, just little things like that. he never mentioned getting back together though. when he broke up with me he begged me to leave him alone and wanted nothing to do with me. is he ever gonna actually say to me: i made a mistake, let's try again?

I still want him back. what should i do to make him actually say let's try again? should i quit going on aim to force him to actually talk to me by phone(we are long distance) or drop him hints on aim to tell him i'm interested he should ask me?

2007-02-26 07:42:16 · 10 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Singles & Dating

im in 5th grade and my bf told me that we cant go out the night he said he was going to his uncles his uncle well i went to my aunts house and i seen him with another girl kissing there i dont want to break up with him but do i need to

2007-02-26 07:41:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 07:41:12 · 16 answers · asked by xcrazyx 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to get a hooker to join my wife and me, but keep it a secret from my wife so she will be surprised. My wife's never been with another girl that I know of, so I thouhgt it would be special. I figure if I skip the usual dinner, flowers an jewlery, that would save me some money to make sure we get a good one.

2007-02-26 07:40:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was thinking of asking my boyfriend how many woman has he slept with....but i was just wondering if anyone here would want to know how many partners their significant other have slept with...why would you want to know? after you know then what?

2007-02-26 07:40:38 · 6 answers · asked by Bee 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 07:40:15 · 7 answers · asked by Dee Brat 2 in Family

My wife came clean to me a few weeks ago. she said she has been with my brother in law for over 2 1/2 years. She claims the first time he raped her and he threatened her life and beat her if she ever told anyone. well he would constantly want to see her and if she didnt he would tell everyone and ruin her life. he would show up at her job trying to start trouble unless she slept with him. during that whole ordeal i noticed my wife was suicidle and very depressed. i always suspected something with him and her and she always denied it. she was always mean to me and i felt at some times the devil must have came out of her. she was very short and cried her self to sleep. I know what this man is capable of because he does the same to my sister and we did find out he did the same to anoter relative but didnt know if he raped her. Well i think he did but she doesnt want to admit it. she denied me sex all that time and always wanted a divorce but never went thru. now she says she loves me hapy

2007-02-26 07:39:55 · 31 answers · asked by sal588 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The other day when I came home from work I got the shock of my life. I found my husband and his older sister in the bathtub together giving each other full naked body rub downs. I couldn't believe what I was seeing and became very upset at the sight of this. I demanded that my husband get out of the tub and have some shame. He and his sister both became angry at me. My husband told me that I was over reacting and that he and his sister take baths all the time. They said that they have been doing this for years and find nothing wrong with it. Was I wrong for getting upset or should I allow my husband to continue to take bubble baths with his sister? Help please!

2007-02-26 07:39:37 · 60 answers · asked by mamabag06 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a 22 year old female dating a 39 year old male. Do you think the age differnce will pose a problem in the future?

2007-02-26 07:39:33 · 23 answers · asked by ♥♥♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

Hello everyone, I am trying to find my big sister. The last time that I ever saw her was when she came to visit about a year ago. She moved back to Lawton, Oklahoma to live with her boyfriend and son. I have not spoken with her since. She gave me her phone number but it has been disconnected and I have no other way of getting in touch with her. Our family members here in TN will not help me reach her and the only thing that they have told me is that she is pregnant again and is going to get married. Her name is Canary. If you have any information about her, please feel free to contact me by e-mail anytime. Thanks.
I wanted to know if Lawton is a small city because maybe someone would know my sister.

2007-02-26 07:39:32 · 2 answers · asked by laquandraleverett 1 in Family

This morning my wife told me that our good friends had miscarried over the weekend. I left work and visited them with flowers. I wasn't able to express my sadness at their loss any better than "I'm sorry."

Would you like to share a time when you just couldn't express your grief or happiness?

2007-02-26 07:39:13 · 5 answers · asked by Martin Pedersen 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-26 07:39:11 · 9 answers · asked by CJ100 2 in Friends

Ok, maybe i am over reacting, I was doing laundry and out dropped a candy with the logo Holiday inn(Hotel) on the package. We have never stayed in a hotel before. He goes ice fishing every weekend and only twice was it over nigh stays, renting a hut with his friends. I asked him about it and he said " I dont know I probably asked for a piece of gum and got that instead" I know I am the love of his life, and he would never cheat on me, but it just seems weird.
Am I over reacting?

2007-02-26 07:38:42 · 15 answers · asked by Tammy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I was in my 3rd period english and this guy (my crush) was hitting (not like liking but like literally hitting just a fake punch in the arm) with the guy and so I went to put one of the books away on the shelf in the library and I was like get outta my way and a silence came and they moved and I put my book away. And the guy that was being hit on was like, "Jeez. Have manners." But my crush didn't say anything just looked at me. And then my crush moved out of the way and I said sorry. I don't know was this bad to do? Or does it even matter? Was it a turn off?

2007-02-26 07:38:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 07:38:29 · 7 answers · asked by Ed 1 in Singles & Dating

go on, imagine for those who haven't found it...

2007-02-26 07:38:22 · 18 answers · asked by florence 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 07:37:59 · 29 answers · asked by truesoldier4ever 2 in Singles & Dating