Ok, maybe i am over reacting, I was doing laundry and out dropped a candy with the logo Holiday inn(Hotel) on the package. We have never stayed in a hotel before. He goes ice fishing every weekend and only twice was it over nigh stays, renting a hut with his friends. I asked him about it and he said " I dont know I probably asked for a piece of gum and got that instead" I know I am the love of his life, and he would never cheat on me, but it just seems weird.
Am I over reacting?
2007-02-26 07:38:42 · 15 answers · asked by Tammy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have all the credit cards.lol and he doesnt have a cell phone. So really i cant find out anyhting....lol
he doesnt go on the computer unless hes posting pictures of the fish he caught on some fishing website.
2007-02-26 07:45:40 · update #1
ok Sad But True....... He's told me im the love of his life all the time, yes my kids are # 1, thats what happens when you become a parent, Sex is great in my life, and last but not least I do have a picture of us together in my profile, i just chosed to use my girls as my main one.
2007-02-26 07:49:43 · update #2
I wouldn't worry,seems that he had a pretty good answer immediatly.Maybe somebody did give that to him@work or anywhere.If he is the love of your life then depending on how long you have been together,there are signs that he is cheating.Going out at night,working out more,showring more than usual,Things like this.I think it's to quick to jump the gun.Now you feel something is going on possibly,only overreact of you have solid true.But if he isn't acting different then go on with you happy life together.Good luck I hope I could help.
2007-02-26 07:50:23 · answer #1 · answered by kimmysue34 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The week-end he went ice-fishing are those the pants he had on. In where he go's is there a Holiday Hotel near there. You need to investigate. Don't tell know one what your doing. Don't let the left hand know what the right hand is doing. Because someone might try to bit if off. You understand. So keep it quite.Until you get your facts, not even him. I believe that your hubby loves you. If him in his friends rent huts to stay over night why was he in a holiday hotel. If there is a holiday hotel somewhere by where he gos ice fishing how far is it. You need to find out. I don't think your over reacting I think your under reacting to be truthful. If your not going to make a big deal over it investigate then just leave it alone. Don't ask him 30times because your never going to get the right answer. If he is cheating he be caught. They always do. Guys somehow leave evidence they forget little things like a candy with a logo on from the Holiday Hotel.
2007-02-26 18:38:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now days sweetheart, I dont think you can over react. Kind of sounds like what happened to me. My husband & I have been together 13 years & married 5. He also went on a "fishing" trip with some buddies & I found out he did in fact cheat on me.
I too thought I found someone who I could totally trust with all my heart & I thought I was the love of his life as well. I always said not us- it will never happen to us!
It's just so sad now days what people take for granted!
So just be aware! Kepp you eyes open. Best of luck to you!
2007-02-26 15:49:00 · answer #3 · answered by rasngrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is strange. His excuse doesn't even make sense!!! I don't want to make you think the worst, but I'd consider a little spying to be in order! Get one of those keylogger programs so you can see what he's up to while on the computer, scan his cell phone bill to see if there are any strange numbers, etc. Maybe it is nothing but then again you'd want to know if there was something up too!
2007-02-26 15:42:34 · answer #4 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not to many people just have something like that handed to them but chances are. The best advice I can give is to follow your gut. Investigate. start having more sex than ever. sex is usually how a man gets caught b/c his penis does not act like it usually does. Any time you have a feeling run with it and your answer will be right there.
2007-02-26 16:11:45 · answer #5 · answered by BettieRulz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By your picture, it is hard to tell that he is the love of your life. Seems like to me you put your child(ren) before your husband and you now are wondering why you are finding "holiday inn candy's" in his pocket.
"I know I am the love of his life"...That's a bold statement to make and then question his faithfulness. I am sorry for being critical of you, but you seem very self-absorbed. Basing whether your husband is cheating on finding a piece of candy is not even the point here. You need to pay more attention to him and try and meet his needs. Starting today.
"Sex is great in MY life". You are self-absorbed.
If your husband tells you that all the time, then you obviously don't believe him. There is a reason for you non-belief. The reason is because you haven't did anything to make yourself "the love of his life". You are primarily concerened with you child. Then comes your husband. That's not right.
2007-02-26 15:45:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think you are over reacting. But because you are asking the question something is making you insecure.
Just pay attention & watch. Do you have a reason to think he's cheating?
You said it yourself, "I know I am the love of his life, and he would never cheat on me, but it just seems weird."
Maybe you just need reassuring.
2007-02-26 15:46:39 · answer #7 · answered by ♣Hey jude♣ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A piece of candy wrapper to ruin a marriage?
Don't let this get into you, maybe he got that candy from a friend.
Is it really worth the aggreviation?
Just be happy that you are his love of his life
sometimes innocence is a bliss....
2007-02-26 15:43:33 · answer #8 · answered by lovelyc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you are not that sounds really fishy. Was there a number on it? Call them and ask them if your husband has came with another woman.
2007-02-26 15:42:22 · answer #9 · answered by Awakened 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes you are over reacting but you better get naughtier just in case
2007-02-26 15:41:50 · answer #10 · answered by Arthur Richards of Kent 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋