Family & Relationships - 26 February 2007

Personaly i dont have a promblem with being fourteen and dating what do you think

2007-02-26 07:09:58 · 42 answers · asked by smurfett 1 in Singles & Dating

Yeah cupid hit me and he hit me hard too but only the feelings are not mutual :-(. Im in love with the best guy ever at least to me he is, but he is in love with somebody elese who is not in love with him and wants somebody elese and thats how i feel about him. The other night I sat with him in his car and watched him cry over this person and all I could do was think about how I feel about him that way and why cant he just love me like that things would be ok then. I wanna be his friend and be here for him but im having a hard time with it since I feel this way for him. What should I do? how do u handle something like this?

2007-02-26 07:09:53 · 16 answers · asked by Amy D 5 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend went into Victoria’s Secret to purchase some sheer lingerie for me for Valentine’s Day. He said they showed him all kinds of sheer lingerie ranging from $250 to $500 in price.

Well, he bought the sheerest item, paid the $500 and brought it home to give to me.

So he gave it to me and asked me to go upstairs and try it on and model it for him.

Upstairs, I’m thinking, “I have an idea; it’s so sheer that it might as well be nothing. I won’t put it on, but I’ll do the modeling naked, return it tomorrow and keep the $500 refund for myself.”

So I came out naked standing on the balcony and struck a pose.

My boyfriend said, “Good Lord! You’d think that for $500, they’d at least iron it!”

2007-02-26 07:09:39 · 20 answers · asked by K-E-G 3 in Singles & Dating

The government should completely back out of the buissness of marriage. It should allow 2 consenting adults to enter into a Civil Union regardless of sex that gives all the benefits that marriage currently gives couples including living marital trusts and joint tax filings.

Marriage would be in the arena of the churches and other religious groups. Thus they can make the choice weather to allow someone to be married and use of their clergy or facilities. Since many people claim marriage is a sanctify and a religious origin it should not have a place in our government which separates church and state.

The church should take a more active role in taking back marriage. It could then put more ardent restrictions on the term, not allowing divorce (although the state issues legal civil union could be disolved) or requiring children at some point or another.

2007-02-26 07:08:12 · 5 answers · asked by Jacques C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

turned it on instead. At first I thought it was a joke and then I relized what he was doing. I confronted him when he called me a few minutes later. He came home and said he was sorry and it was only his 3rd time. He will never do it again. Of course how can I believe it....... what steps would you make to what to do..leave him or work through it?
Lost and devested

2007-02-26 07:08:02 · 21 answers · asked by weblogic b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-26 07:07:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

there is a new girl at school and she is very mean. She pushes everyone around and thinks she is the boss. I try to be nice to her bot she keeps on being mean. My teacher says be nice to her, because she is new. In class she always acts nice and sweet but in places where the teacher isn`t around she acts all bossy. She isn`t nice to anyone. She`s like bully. What do I do about it? I can`t tell on her because my teacher would think I am making it up, because she is always nice in class and she wouldn`t beleave me, and I can`do anything to her because that would get me in troble, and ignoring her is gust not posible. What do I do about it?

2007-02-26 07:07:52 · 4 answers · asked by Pothead 3 in Friends

She says she hears voices telling her that people are coming to get her, that aliens are all around us and that clothing should be optional because the gov't puts microchips in cotton. I love her so much... but can I deal with her strangeness.

2007-02-26 07:07:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Been together for 5 years and married for almost 3 years. We have 3 children together. Our youngest is almost six months.
This would be the second time I've ever asked her to start working on loosing some weight. And now she wants to file devorce papers and she doesn't want me to see the kids anymore. All I want is for her to be more active with herself and make an effert to want to change the way she looks. She was fine when I first met her but now I don't know. Am I asking to much of her?

2007-02-26 07:07:10 · 32 answers · asked by nlocnilk 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-26 07:06:43 · 38 answers · asked by atxman2003 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

bio father was very abusive to me...had to be relocated to nj..in a shelter for domestic voilence protection...now reside in albany ny..where my children are residents with me...im the only legel guardian...the bio father wants to take me to court...he doesnt pay child support tho he was ordered to...and one of the children is in special ed...the bio father fills the childrens heads with garbage...i work a parttime job..because my minor daughter has a baby...im currently going thru family court for non found child necglect...which is because the board of ed..has not accompanied my children with the proper transportation...can bio father take my children from me...???

2007-02-26 07:06:31 · 1 answers · asked by billionaires072000 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This saturday, I'm going to go eat a private dinner with my girlfriend's parents with high hopes that they approve of me asking their only daughter to marry me. Her parents adore me, but how do I go about it? I know I'll be nervous since they're old-fashioned, so I want to make sure I do it right. Any suggestions that will help seal the deal? We both have talked of marriage and how we're ready, we just have to convince the parents! I thought getting shot in Iraq while in the Army was tough, but this could be an even tougher task!

2007-02-26 07:05:24 · 10 answers · asked by John Redcorn 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm 19 and this guy is 24 and engaged but tends to be flirty then disrecpects me but he thinks its funny, one of the things he does is that he bitches about me not bussing his tables and threatens not to tip, but i buss his tables in front of his face, then he'll be nice , say hi to me and try to get know me, then he'll make remarks and say i get offended easily and will keep going on about it, he will say things like "your sweater is ripped,do you wanna show off your nice tan", he always asks how old i am after i have told him

he also wanted to know my schedule at the community college i go to b/c he goes there too and he said" so when are you there so i can hide from you", that's also when he wanted to know where i was from and he got concerned for me when i told him i didn't like school, what to do?

2007-02-26 07:05:23 · 19 answers · asked by amanda 1 in Singles & Dating

I was dating this man from Syria for about one year before he left for California. I flew back and forth for a year to see him while he lived out there and then he eventually broke if off with me because of the long distance thing. Well, we stayed in contact via email and two years after we broke if off, he emails me and says he has been still thinking about me and wanted me to fly out. So I did and we had a great time, just like old times. He always mentions I should move out to California but thats it. He doesn't ever elaborate on commitment or anything. When I saw him he was holding hands with me and acted like he was having a great time also, but when I got home, he emails me one sentence....."I hope you arrived safely home and your trip was not to tiring. I'm thinking, that's it, no "It was so great to see you, maybe You can come out again soon, nothing. So what am I to think of this??

2007-02-26 07:04:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I was watching a tv show, and the woman came on their to tell her boyfriend she cheated. But he cheated on her numerous of times and she forgave him over and over. I understand she was wrong, but if she can forgive him, why can't he forgive her??? He broke it off with her. (we all know what talk show it was)

2007-02-26 07:04:06 · 24 answers · asked by SexyBlackFasho 3 in Singles & Dating

How can I tell him that its the game or me. Is it wrong for me to give the ultimatum? We lost our apartment and everything- back at our parent's houses because he wanted to play instead of work. I've tried telling him and he says it wrong to give the ultimatum. But isn't it just as wrong to not do anything besides play a game. I want a man who acts like a man, not a 10-year-old kid. He’s 24 years old!! What should I do?? All we ever do is argue about a stupid game. I lost everything I've worked for because of it and him. He said he had a shoulder injury from lifting ladders @ work. My family is all labor working men and none of them has hurt shoulders from lifting a ladder up every now and then. Is he BS'ing the shoulder thing? I've always thought it is BS. There are a lot of problems w/ our relationship and this game is one of the big ones. Should I just leave him? It’s hard to believe any words out of his mouth b'cuz actions are louder. He has an excuse for EVERYTHING

2007-02-26 07:03:37 · 17 answers · asked by KittyKatKarin 2 in Singles & Dating

i kissed this guy that i really like and he tols me that he liked me to but he just sent me an email saying he dosent want a relation ship. now i am sad deprest and embarest i really like him and thats why i kissed him now he dosn't want to be with me and i feel so bad. what do i do now?

2007-02-26 07:03:33 · 3 answers · asked by blah 3 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy and last night i had a dream that we were at the movies, sleeping in the movie theater. then he asked me to turn off the lights so i did and then he moved closer and closer to me and we made out. what does this mean?

2007-02-26 07:03:08 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it considered whipped when a guy hangs out with his girlfriend rather than hanging out with his friends because he loves her and enjoys being with her and not because she says he has to.

2007-02-26 07:02:37 · 16 answers · asked by Hakim N 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 07:02:29 · 1 answers · asked by whitemandarin 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm still married but for how long who knows.and thats the major one the keeping me there. i work but he is the one who pays the BIG bills.i have NO idea what to do.i've been with him 11 yrs. i think i still love him but then i hate him.ADVICE PLEASE

2007-02-26 07:02:28 · 14 answers · asked by clocklear05 2 in Marriage & Divorce

iam not expecting somuch from him . but he is not doing normal things also. he is not talking with me clearly. everything is silly to him..but iam not like that....i take care every thing

2007-02-26 07:01:55 · 12 answers · asked by sb b 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 07:01:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive kinda been seeing this guy for six months i know i love him, ive not met him yet but he wants me to go down to his at easter and i dont know what to do because i couldn't tell my parents where i was going, i would have to lie to them i do want to go but i dont know how i would pull it off i mean with my studdies and everything.
Got any ideas????

2007-02-26 07:01:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend told me I would finally meet his family in Sep 1st, It's been 2 years and I never met them, until now, and I'm really nerves, is there anything I need to know, or prepare, or what should I bring them as a gift? Or should I bring one gift each for my boyfriend's 8 year old brother, and 12 year old sister, any advice can you give me, thanks and have a nice day.

2007-02-26 07:01:10 · 19 answers · asked by kitty 6 in Family

I wouldnt care but this is her first real bf. and he has been in alot of trouble including he is a first degree sex offender and he is only 21. Can anyone help me? what can i say to her? what is the best thing for me to do?

2007-02-26 07:00:55 · 10 answers · asked by fobfanlovesgreg 2 in Friends

Don’t you see it?
When we look in each other’s eyes.
Don’t you see the love, and the hope?

Don’t you hear it?
When we talk together.
Don’t you hear the longing, and the heartbeat we share?

Don’t you feel it?
When our hands touch.
Don’t you feel the silent bond and the uncertain future?

2007-02-26 07:00:46 · 5 answers · asked by Specter 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Guys: where can i find flavored "protectors"?
Girls: which flavor would you prefer?

**serious question, my girl said she'd do it, but i she wants flavored "protectors" on it......

2007-02-26 07:00:38 · 4 answers · asked by truesoldier4ever 2 in Singles & Dating

OK I HOPE U DONT TELL ME GO TO A DATEING SITE ALL I NEEDIS ADVICE OK !!!!! WELL I KNOW I LIKE FEMALES BECAUSE GIRL ON GIRL TURNS ME ON BUT I HAVE A MAN !!! AND I LOVE HIM SO MUCH I WOULD LOVE TO EXPERIANCE WITH A FEMALE .....BUT IM AFRIED TO TELL HIM WHAT SHOULD I DO ......BUT I RELLY WANT TO TRY IT ..... PLESE HELP!!!!

2007-02-26 07:00:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it worth spending like 10-15 dollers ( in canada its more pricey than the u.s ) on magazines or should we all save our money when it comes to bridal magazines?

2007-02-26 06:59:54 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings