Family & Relationships - 26 February 2007

My bf and I broke up in august with cliche circumstances...after 8 months he dumped me for an upgrade to my best friend who dated him and ditched him after a couple of months. I went through a period of hate but I was best friends with him for 2 and a half years before I dated him and I worried then, and find myself worrying now, about his weight. He is REALLY skinny. Anorexia is uncommon in guys but it does occur. I heard him say a couple of times he thought he was fat and he never ate much at lunch or anything. Is it normal after this time to still have some feelings for him, or atleast his well being?

2007-02-26 23:26:56 · 9 answers · asked by Bambi 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 23:26:11 · 8 answers · asked by crazylady w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I bought this panty the other day from marshalls and can't find this style anywhere, It is a mix between a thong and a string bikini. My b/f say's it makes my butt look really hot. I guess you can say it is 3/4 cut in back. Any ideas where I can get more?

2007-02-26 23:25:47 · 6 answers · asked by Dina G 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 23:23:22 · 21 answers · asked by spin spin sunshine 4 in Singles & Dating

my m8 said she is low on her confidence she worries about what people will think of her etc i want to try and help her get more confidence or do somthing anyway any ideas

2007-02-26 23:23:19 · 5 answers · asked by ak222002 4 in Friends

My BF came home last night told me there is a staff party for his work and that he is going to get paid to be the Designated Driver. To and from the Occassion and then to a party at the end of it all.

I got angry with him and said that I didn't think it was apppropriate for him to be doing this when he doesn't allow me to go out to parties and I am in the house 24/7 with kids.

He got angry told me its for work, accused me of being controlling, insecure and said that he would quit his job. I am not controlling or insecure, I was simply telling him that If I can't go out with my friends to parties, then he shouldn't be allowed either.

Am I being unreasonable for making him do what he expects of me? Be honest.

2007-02-26 23:20:45 · 17 answers · asked by Java Queen 3 in Singles & Dating

he loves me vry much & deeply involved in me. bt he is not my ideal man. may be aftr marriege i get involve in somebody else. he is staying in U.P. n i m Maharashtra, i m the only child of my parents i m really very confuse.... i have so many responsibilities. i dont want 2 heart him but i dont want marrie him. pls heep me ......

2007-02-26 23:20:13 · 10 answers · asked by S.S 1 in Singles & Dating

A (supposedly)friend is getting with this boy,This boy though went to my boyfriends school and has explained to me how he usto be a lying and miniplitive player and cheat,because many of my mates from this players area has also explained what he is like i didnt want my friend getting hurt, because of upsets in the past with previous relationships each time crying to me on the phone for over 5hours with heartbreaks of boys hurting her i decided to lightly break to my friend that the boy she is getting with was a player and hurt alot of girls before,just to warm her so she wouldnt get hurt again.If i hadnt of told her and she had got hurt and she new i new about him being a player she would of been even more hurt and lashed out on me.Once i told her she told that player straight away what i told her and what he was like and he shouted at me,after this he wanted to prove that what i had done by telling her was wrong,s he got my friend involved and she said that i have known you-the player

2007-02-26 23:19:32 · 9 answers · asked by xxcharlenebbyxx 1 in Weddings

i recently broke up with boyfriend of 2 yrs, it has been almost a month since he broke up with me and i have been really down and think about him constantly every day(i still really like him). he told me when he broke up with me that he never wanted to speak to me again. yesterday though he txted me and was really friendly and we spoke for hours. he has really changed since we last spoke and i feel im not talking to the same person as i remembered(it was definitely him i was talking to) should i move on?

2007-02-26 23:16:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 23:16:01 · 28 answers · asked by shoegalkb007 1 in Singles & Dating

Be honest! Do you despise them because they are "cheating"? Or feel guilty becouse they are getting a bum deal not having all of your time / attention?

2007-02-26 23:15:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

at first i was distraught but wev decided to make a go of it and swept it under the rug. now i feel i let him off too lightly but i jus wana be with him. now i feel as long as i dont find out im happy, is this normal or ok to have this attitude?

2007-02-26 23:15:23 · 29 answers · asked by kate 1 in Singles & Dating

she likes Michael jackson and I like rock but she cant make love to rock so I need some Ideas.

2007-02-26 23:12:42 · 29 answers · asked by love less 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriends been moaning are relationship is so routine but we cant afforf to got out for meal or films every night! just wondering if anyone has any good things couples can do that dont cost too much?

2007-02-26 23:12:32 · 18 answers · asked by kate 1 in Singles & Dating

when do they get an orgasmmmmmm.....
just curious ....

2007-02-26 23:12:25 · 19 answers · asked by feakinquestion 1 in Singles & Dating

They're so obsessed with chicks making out with each other and whatnot...apparently its a huge turn on but I could NEVER get turned on by two guys...what the hell is with this...is it just coz it's kinky?!

2007-02-26 23:11:25 · 9 answers · asked by Bambi 2 in Singles & Dating

have to go to the registry office to sign documents in order to make the state know that we are a married couple to be?I don't know how it's called here but in Italy we go to the registry office to do this before the actual religious ceremony and it's called "pre-marriage promise". The priest over here made us sign some paper last time we met and we are also going to have an engaged couple course within few weeks. Can you please help me? I would like to know as I don't want to risk us not to be recognised from the state as a married couple!

2007-02-26 23:10:34 · 5 answers · asked by monjka l 2 in Weddings

At the time of seperation we had a home equity line of credit. He had borrowed $25,000. We have been divorced for 7 months and he has ran that up to $45,000. The divorce papers stated that he was not to borrow anymore against our home. My name is not on the loan at all and he is responsible for paying that back, but he only gets 25% of the house if I decide to sale in the next 8 yrs.

2007-02-26 23:09:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

every time i talk in fornt of the class i get red.. or when i talk to a girl why and how can i fix it?

2007-02-26 23:08:12 · 9 answers · asked by Dakota 1 in Singles & Dating

my bf of 2 years got me the most beautiful necklace for my birthday this past week-i was shocked when i saw how much he paid for it (there was an insurance appraisal note inside the box-1500.00!!) he was really nervous about me not liking it and had even called his mom for help picking it out and called his best friend (a guy) about it when he was buying it.

everytime he refers to it-he calls it a ring ("when i went to pick out your ring" , "the place where i went to get your ring", etc) and i don't know if i should think anything from this?

we've talked marriage before but are still living separate (he has a house and me an apt w/my 3 kids that i have part-time, which he adores)

he said it was the most money he's ever spent on a girl (he even used part of his rebate from his credit card to pay for it)

i was so grateful and felt so lucky to have it!!

but y does he keep referring to it as a ring? could he be thinking of proposing too?

2007-02-26 23:08:08 · 22 answers · asked by prncessang228 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-26 23:07:33 · 29 answers · asked by dlip d 1 in Singles & Dating

He is super cute, smart, funny, tall, and a football player. I need to know my answer before 6:45 A.M. Maybe sooner.

2007-02-26 23:07:14 · 20 answers · asked by Ashley B 1 in Singles & Dating

i was so ashamed the social worker said if you are disrepectful to them they are back. sometimes i do call her names when i get angry cos she has been refusing to go to school. Its been getting me right down i have been frustrated and showing my feelings

2007-02-26 23:06:00 · 21 answers · asked by denny 2 in Family

Well, I haven't been seen her for more than 30 months, she is Indian, she loves to smile, but she don't smile much in photos and she never show her teeth in photos either, probably because she don't like to have photos taken. To me, she is a very kind & quiet girl. Someday if I fix a date to meet her, I will love to take lots of photos of her. Do you think she will smile? Do you think she will show her teeth? Cause her teeth is pearly white & straight, like she wore braces before, but she didn't.

2007-02-26 23:05:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 23:05:25 · 10 answers · asked by Unoptrid1aq 4 in Friends

2007-02-26 23:04:03 · 26 answers · asked by Only Me 7 in Singles & Dating

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2007-02-26 23:04:02 · 20 answers · asked by Ando 1 in Singles & Dating

hi..ummm my friend jesse does all the wrong things..but i can't help that it is true..b/c brandon my b/f..has had a histroy of those kinds of problems..well i rember brandon telling me that he went to the mall..with his friend..and this girl was all over him and how..he deffently didn't find any intrest in her at all..but then jesse said he was all over a girl..so i don't know who to beleive...ya know..me and jesse have had our problems..but were still ok friends..but whatever..i asked brandon about it but he said it never happened and if i should beleive him or jesse...i've known jesse since august..and brandon since october..i really don't know who to beleive b/c they have both hurt me in the past..what should i do?

2007-02-26 23:01:43 · 12 answers · asked by *Chelsea* 1 in Friends

in ur opinion would ue ver leave ur best friend for a guy u really like..is it ever okay to leave ur best friend for a guy..i guess i have a lot of questions..but i'm sure i can answer them on my own..but i wanna know..would u ever leave ur best friend for a guy? do u think it's ok? sometimes ppl say they never will but they do...i'm so sick of the ppl who u think are ur best friends..but...treat u like crap i'm so sick of being betrayed by teh same person..but it's hard to just be like i don't wanna talk anymore..u treat me like nothing but it was never like this before..until him

2007-02-26 23:01:22 · 7 answers · asked by boom56 1 in Friends

I don't get it. She don't look like a transmission.

2007-02-26 23:00:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating