he loves me vry much & deeply involved in me. bt he is not my ideal man. may be aftr marriege i get involve in somebody else. he is staying in U.P. n i m Maharashtra, i m the only child of my parents i m really very confuse.... i have so many responsibilities. i dont want 2 heart him but i dont want marrie him. pls heep me ......
2007-02-26 23:20:13 · 10 answers · asked by S.S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. try to make him understand ur feelings.
2007-02-26 23:28:21 · answer #1 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Infact u r lucky that u got a person who loves u.u can be happy with a person who loves u rather than with a person whom u love.theres nothing like ideal man.u wont be happy bcoz u hav met a perfect guy but u will be happy bcoz u hav started seeing an imperfect guy perfectly.i hope u got the difference betwenn the two.as far as sexually satisfied is concerned, just love him & make him love u,thats it.u will be satisfied.NEVER hurt persons who truely love u & NEVER have extra marital affairs.if u think u r mentally that weak that u cant stay without sex then better not marry this guy.Personally my advice is look if the guy is good at heart & is independent.remaining things come automatically.
2007-02-27 01:58:23 · answer #2 · answered by K P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there pressure on you to marry him? If there isn't, you don't have to. You do not appear to be satisfied with him, full stop - sexually, emotionally or on any level. So give him up and move on to find someone you will be compatable with. If you are already deciding to be unfaithful once you are married you are in grave danger of hurting more than yourself. Think carefully please.
2007-02-27 02:08:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in indian society what u r wishing is a joy for a very little time
if he is financially sound and loves you then he be prefered things will get smooth soon
i can understand your choices which are true to have such things but in india other matter do matter more
take my advice
u may contact me on im /email too
i am mature and wont detrack you
2007-02-26 23:27:47 · answer #4 · answered by Caring 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Guess what! If you aren't sexually satisfied with him your going to eventually long for something better. You will finaly find that you not only need to satisfy him, you need it too. You will end up hurting him later when you go astray.
2007-02-26 23:26:15 · answer #5 · answered by sereta zandrae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get married unless you mean it when you say "til death do us part".
Don't get married unless you promise to be faithful.
Don't get married unless you have every intention of keeping every single one of your vows.
You'll hurt him more if you marry him and don't love him than if you refuse him now, and set him free to marry another woman who will truely love him, so he can build himself a nice life.
2007-02-26 23:24:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You r fooling yourself. He is not fit for you. You r shaky in taking critical decisions. Forget him for better future.
2007-02-26 23:48:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not marry him 4 there r two types of compatibilities one is sexual second mental. if you r not inclined now itself make it clear now before it is too late
2007-02-26 23:26:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to go away from this man, you need a happy marriage anfd very good sex too .. every woman needs to have good love and great sex..
2007-03-01 17:22:14 · answer #9 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u don't fit for him,i wish he would say no before u do.I think he doesn't deserve a female like u in his life.
2007-02-27 01:52:58 · answer #10 · answered by cute 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋