Family & Relationships - 26 February 2007

her family insists on me marrying her.I don`t want to disturb my studies and hence I highly regret my action,and to be honest I love the girl very much.please help.

2007-02-26 21:26:12 · 9 answers · asked by ali m 1 in Singles & Dating

parents never told her. She says she only found out when she went to get her passport and they couldn't find record of her. How can I find out if shes lying. Also she says shes writing songs with a chap she knows. She is 41.

2007-02-26 21:25:24 · 4 answers · asked by The Way 4 in Friends

I have a Lady/Friend, who told me that she's taking, "Zoloft". (Anti-Depressant). When I asked her, to find out why she had become "Depressed" She became enraged at me. I feel, Drugs of that Nature? Are merely a form of Escape. Not something that will allow her to get over, whatever made her this way.

Question: Do I allow her to keep taking those type of Drugs? Or stress that she get to the root of what's got her there?


[This is a Very Real Subject! Please reply in a Serious Manner]

2007-02-26 21:24:49 · 7 answers · asked by Goggles 7 in Friends

would it make you feel weird/ruin the friendship if you knew you only liked her as a friend, or could you continue to have fun with her as you always did, knowing she had feelings for you?

2007-02-26 21:23:08 · 11 answers · asked by spdy 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 21:22:07 · 11 answers · asked by SOJLO 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband is addicted to Internet Pornography. He hides it & is sneaky about it. We've argued about it in the past, and I thought it was over with, but I noticed him acting differently and a few days later found pornography on our computer. He swore months ago that he'd stop (he tried Sex Addicts Anonymous SA) I can't trust him and am considering a divorce. I think the porn is getting the best of him-HELP!

2007-02-26 21:21:56 · 11 answers · asked by Soon to be mommy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met this girl and she is nice and decent. From the moment we met I have seen that she was interested in me. Soon after she started calling me and we have met three times in three weeks. One weekend we were in some pleasant place and I found my self kissing her. We have again done this in the follwing weekend. The problem is that I do not have the required feeling for her and my heart is so far away from her. I don't think that I could do this any more cause I don't feel any thing for her. Since she is a nice girl, how could I make this less painful before it is too late and too painful cause the less the time we had the less the pain it will be. Please tell me your opinions fast? cause I may see her in this week end. Thank you.

2007-02-26 21:21:39 · 7 answers · asked by Rocky 1 in Singles & Dating

she misses her ex-bf. and her ex misses her too. sometimes i wonder what im doing in the picture. i mean i know that she loves me but she gets so damn upset so quickly about anything that reminds her of him. she feels awkward talking abt this with me, so sometimes i feel like im intruding.but then i really want her to get over him. they broke up and patched up a couple times b4 . i dunno what to do. depressed. what should i do?

2007-02-26 21:21:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i think my boyfriend have changed. before he can wait for me for until 10minutes,he's not mad. but now i think he only have waited for 1-2minutes he's mad at me. i always tell him that im sorry.

im not always late but sometimes its the environment that's keeping me late (i.e traffic) i told him to be more patient but he still insist that its his attitude and i can't change it.
but when im the one who's waiting eventhough he's 30mins late its ok for me. i understand him. i don't quarrel with him.

that's why everytime we are having little fights the reason is always me, cause even a single wrong move, he's mad.

2007-02-26 21:19:25 · 16 answers · asked by jhen 3 in Singles & Dating

well there is this boy i fancy and hes 15 im 14 i mean i get embarrassed around him and he seems to get embarrassed around me, i mean when my friends talk to him about me on msn he won't say whether he fancies me or not, once he came round my house because my dad invited his family over because my dad is very good friends with his dad and we didnt even say anything to each other we couldnt even look at each other but at the end of the day he smiled at me for about 10 seconds and said thankyou. and their was another situation were we were working at the same place and he didnt talk to me unless it was necessary i mean he was flirting with other girl except me i think it is because he knows i fancy him hes embarrassed to talk to me, and a kid went up to him and told him facny him i didnt know how she knew but he got really embarrassed and said his mate that if he fancied me he would of asked me out but he never asks anyone out because hes shy if i speak to him on msn he would go offline.

2007-02-26 21:17:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-26 21:17:02 · 1 answers · asked by SunFlower 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a 28 yr old guy, married a couple of yrs ago, my wife is 32. We discussed having children a while ago and decided we both don't have what it takes right now. It's quite complicated, coz we moved to a new country, don't have much of our own, but besides the financial strains and not being to provide too much, something else troubles us even more. We seem to not have that desire to produce offsprings, to make "others" like us. We're both Christians, we believe and trust God and sometimes wonder what He would like...It's quite difficult but I kno if I'm ever gonna have children it's gonna be coz I really-really want them. How do U feel (happily parents)? WHat drove U to become one? What did U feel at those moments, how did U decide? These things are very important for me coz I want to learn from the experience of others. And also I kno, no matter what I'm still gonna love and adore my wife, she's like my baby sometimes and I'm her baby to her. Answers will be highly appreciated !!!

2007-02-26 21:16:59 · 10 answers · asked by jonp1978 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I think there are at least 3 who's names I can't recall. How many (if any) do you think names you've forgotten?

2007-02-26 21:16:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey i know this guy who likes me but at first i didnt like him back so he tried to get me jealous but i did not respond. I told him he shud just be friend. i got to know him but later he came out to be a good guy and i can see he still likes me but im scared to tell him?!

2007-02-26 21:16:29 · 14 answers · asked by I love myself!!!! 2 in Singles & Dating

Dear friends. I need your help. I belong to a middle class Indian family. I am the only son of my parents. My parents throughout their life, have done a lot for me and have given me both financial as well as moral support. My father is a retired employee and my mother remained a house - wife throughout. My parents are now around 70 years age and do not keep good health. They are dependent on me. I am working in a private co. in Delhi. I am married for 11 years and have 2 kids. We all stay in a small but independent home in Delhi. This home is in my mother's name. I am the only working member of family with just sufficient salary from hand to mouth. But I have had tried to give all possible facilities and amenities to my family members. In the 11 years of my married life, I hardly lived a moment of peace. The problem is frequent quarrels between my wife and my mother. My wife does not obey anybody or atleast does not like to be advised by anybody not even me. She just thinks / dreams that something has happened and will blame me and my mother. She just wants that everyone should obey her and work for her. Even this does not satisfy her. She always finds one way or other to fight. This has ruined the life of my parents, my children and myself. My parents have become like servants. On trying to advise my wife, she always threatens that she will go to police and will implicate us in a dowry case. Or sometimes she threatens to commit suicide and implicate us in a case of murder. I have tried to persuade her that if we cannot go along, then we should separate. I have even given her the option to keep or not to keep our children with her and also promised to give her a part of my salary as alimony without even going to courts. But she always threatens. Now for some days, she has been saying that we should separate from my parents and should live somewhere else. Although this "MAY" bring some peace on the front of my wife and my mother but this is no guarantee that I and my wife will have peace. Moreover, living in a rented place with separate kitchen will put a lot of financial pressure on me resulting in the decrease in quality of facilities my children and my wife are enjoying. In long term this will again become a reason of quarrel. And most importantly, my parents need me at this stage of life - financially, physically and morally. I am in a dilemma what to do? Sometimes I feel that I cannot do anything and I should commit a suicide and also end the life of my suffering parents. Can anyone advise me what should I do??? Please I need urgent advise.

2007-02-26 21:16:24 · 37 answers · asked by meenu l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hello people, tell me how to convince a girl whom you love most and she cares you because you love her but she has no daring to accept your love?

2007-02-26 21:15:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I didn't know the guy very well, but he and my partner went through a lot together. I'm being supportive in every way I can think - listening to him, helping organise the memorial, getting on with stuff around the house, reminding him he's loved - I just need some words of encouragement...

2007-02-26 21:14:12 · 8 answers · asked by Skidoo 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-26 21:14:10 · 22 answers · asked by cinders 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 21:13:16 · 6 answers · asked by mathi v 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a 28 yr old guy, married a couple of yrs ago, my wife is 32. We discussed having children a while ago and decided we both don't have what it takes right now. It's quite complicated, coz we moved to a new country, don't have much of our own, but besides the financial strains and not being to provide too much, something else troubles us even more. We seem to not have that desire to produce offsprings, to make "others" like us. We're both Christians, we believe and trust God and sometimes wonder what He would like...It's quite difficult but I kno if I'm ever gonna have children it's gonna be coz I really-really want them. How do U feel (happily parents)? WHat drove U to become one? What did U feel at those moments, how did U decide? These things are very important for me coz I want to learn from the experience of others. And also I kno, no matter what I'm still gonna love and adore my wife, she's like my baby sometimes and I'm her baby to her. Answers will be highly appreciated !!!

2007-02-26 21:13:14 · 6 answers · asked by jonp1978 1 in Family

boyfriend but he always lie to me, he never tell me the truth so I always insult him is not my fault,but i cant just help it, dat someone i love is liaring to me, he is really fed up of me he told me he is no longer interested. but the love i have 4 him is growing everyday and am ready to change for the better. but he dont want me anymore wat can i do to win his love? but will he stop liaring to me
am confuse wat can i do cos i love him so much. pls wat can i do to win his love back.

2007-02-26 21:12:45 · 5 answers · asked by Sammie T 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I have been fighting and our relationship has been on the rocks for a while. We went to a marraige counsler last Thursday and "we" both decided to go to counsling and move forward while we were there. My husband decided to stay w/me and work thru our issues and not move out. well, I've been very nice,I haven't put myself first in any situation and I really listened to the counsler and I'm seeing things thru my husband's eyes, I'm being as fair and rational as I possibly can and am acting as though "when we first met each other" well, my husband seems to be fighting this...he wants to be convertanital at any given time....he stops to correct me if I say something wrong,he won't let things go....were suppose to move forward and not hold on to past issues...He says he wants to try but he can't get past our prior issues SO FAST! i know this and it's hard to forget the past but how can I try if he's fighting it??i go back tomorrow for a session bymyself. Any advice???

2007-02-26 21:12:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-26 21:11:44 · 8 answers · asked by online1785 1 in Friends

We've been dating for years and now the time is here. He's in the process of buying my engagement ring, but he hasn't talked to me about converting. He has cracked jokes such as: I'm more Jewish than he is (bc I'm good w/$), and randomly he'll say "we'll have to talk to the rabbi about getting you converted."

Neither of us believe in God, but he has said that he'd like his kids to be raised in the Jewish culture (reconstructionist).

Does he just expect me to convert? Not expecting me to convert? Shouldn't he have addressed this issue before ring shopping?

2007-02-26 21:11:38 · 9 answers · asked by PlasticTrees 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I love him very much but due to some personal problems i have to leave him and we have met before and spent most of the times with each other and also kissed each other is that a sin? pls Guide me i am in confusion

2007-02-26 21:09:59 · 11 answers · asked by usha n 1 in Friends

2007-02-26 21:08:22 · 20 answers · asked by Diane 2 in Singles & Dating

hope you understand my question... its just a curiousity from me.. sorry..

2007-02-26 21:07:37 · 4 answers · asked by kaidoh3173 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 21:06:41 · 12 answers · asked by Edel F 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 40 yrs old i am married for abt 15 yrs. The biggest mistake is i know my hubby is a womeniser but always have given him the understanding nd kept quiet abt it. I do not want to divorce him or leave him. He is close to me and kids. He brings me out for film shows shopping and spent time with the kids. But when he goes out alone or with friends he tends to have misehaved. I need to save my marriage and wnat to live with forever, moreoever he is an bankruptcy even if i file for a divorce i wont get any money cos he is too smart to say he cant afford to pay, i dont have an house to go to as we could not pay the house installments. i have to save my marriage . pls advise

2007-02-26 21:05:04 · 9 answers · asked by susan r 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So there was a girl about a month a go i liked some of you may remember me asking questions about what i should do, well i know this is kinda morally wrong but i stopped all contact with her via AIM, MSN, Mobile etc and don't talk to her at school unless she says hi which didn't happen lol. I thought the holidays would be a great way to get over her and sure enough was. When my friends said she didn't like me at all it kinda confused me because just recently she's now going on msn and saying "are we friends?" and addin me to some random hi5 crap. (i'm not talking about if she likes me in a relationship way). But it seems that if she did hate me then why would she start conversation after so long? Unless she's got bored with her mates and now just wants anyone to talk to. Ive said to her that i don't really care she can label us friends or what ever because we hardly talk anyway, and that i felt this was a pointless conversation, ive said that many a times she just says ok. Advice pls?

2007-02-26 21:02:10 · 5 answers · asked by not32myself 1 in Friends