2007-02-26 21:22:07 · 11 answers · asked by SOJLO 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
my work mates husband just got 2 years in prison for attacking her AGAIN, previous attack she got stabbed in the hand and the chest for defending herself... GET OUT before you are KILLED, it happens daily and is very traumatic, leave, its the best thing u will ever do!
2007-02-27 00:09:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend was in an abusive relationship for 7 years. It wasn't until her husband turned on their son that she fled to a woman's refuge.
There is always hope and a way of rebuilding a life. Even if a person feels like they have to give up everything, what you get in return is peace of mind and spirit. This was 14 years ago for my friend and she is still dealing with the effect it left on her.
It's the hardest thing to do, but swallowing fear and getting out is the only solution.
2007-02-27 05:27:30 · answer #2 · answered by PrettyKitty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The worst thing that has happened in any abusive relationship is the abuser became a murderer. Get out while there is still breath in your body.
2007-02-27 05:24:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i have been in an abusive relationship and it wasn't nice. He frightened the living daylights out of me and then when i finished it, he locked me in the house and took an overdose. Had to call police and ambulance. He was well known by the police, he'd been in prison before i met him. He also chucked me out of his house in the pouring rain when i was 7 months pregnant after telling me he didn't want it or me. There is so much more that he did but it's in the past now but I'd advise anyone who is in this situation to get out, there are organisations out there that will help. I do know however that many women will stay in the situation due to being scared and this saddens me.
2007-02-27 05:44:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Sojlo, I was marry to an abusive and mental abuse husband.I think the worst thing he did to me,is he was running around with a drunk of a friend and came home drunk as a stunk. I was 7 months pregnant with my first daughter. He came in drunk and smelly and i slap his face for being drunk and spending money we didn't have. He got out rages and grab me by the throat and started choking me until i almost passed out. He let go and i was gasping for air and coughing. He said, don't be on a show i didn't hurt you,but next time you slap me it will be a lot worst on you. Anyway things just got worst and i finally had enough of his abuse and file for a divorce and i finally got my divorce 2-8-2007. It took me 14 months to get that BASTARD out of my life. I feel so much better away from him. I can now go out and be myself and enjoy life. I feel like i just got out of a cage and have my freedom now. Life is good now. A Friend.
Clowmy
2007-02-27 05:39:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The abuse transfered onto the children, my self esteem was destroyed,as was my childs. I ended up permantly in pain daily, following my injuries.
Its never too soon to get out of an abusive relationship, but it CAN be too late.
2007-02-27 20:43:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aunt got killed and they made it out to be suicide if anyones in abusive relationship get out
2007-02-27 05:24:23 · answer #7 · answered by getomorrowforme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he can kill u, but u have a choice, u can get out of it, before it gets any worse. it is always scary to leave relationships, but it may have alot to do with your self worth, and not trusting yourself to make good decisions. oftentimes those with no self esteem do get involved with people who are controllers and abusers, they see us as easy marks, because of our self esteem, because we don't trust ourselves, we often give our power over to someone else. leave abuse right when we see it, as it doesn't change, our abuser only tends to get more abusive, the longer we put up with it. as he has no consequences for his actions because he knows we won't leave him, as we usually have no confidence in our future. we fear abandonment for financial reasons too. but it is always better to live alone, than live unhappily with someone controlling us, and hurting us all of the time.
2007-02-27 05:31:56 · answer #8 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in a really horrible relationship,and because of this i have ended up on anti depressants,but im so insecure and that doesnt help
2007-02-27 05:28:21 · answer #9 · answered by cinders 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i was about 4 yrs old when i started getting sexually abused but i didnt know anything and i thought it was alright but then i got found out and i didnt know what was happening to me.
2007-02-27 05:35:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋