Family & Relationships - 26 February 2007

Boyfriend of 4 years wont ask me to marry him. Is there anything I can do? Things have been going really good between us, I just don't know why he won't take the next step?

2007-02-26 22:32:36 · 23 answers · asked by juniper 4 in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine committed suicide at the weekend. His wife is very distraught and she has told her children that their daddy died of a heart attack. The children are aged 9 and 6. Was this the right thing to do?

2007-02-26 22:31:01 · 46 answers · asked by David F 2 in Family

2007-02-26 22:30:14 · 13 answers · asked by Lyndah K 1 in Singles & Dating

Without doing anything illegal or immoral?

2007-02-26 22:29:48 · 3 answers · asked by victali 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well we had a massive arguement but then resolved our differences I said that she didn't make enough effort getting in contact with me she said she would make more of an effort and she did, but now she has stopped phoning or txting me once again!, She has got friendly with my other mate asks her round her place asks her out even has asked her to her work do! I seem to get left out! Do you think I should just leave it be and get on with my life and I see if she does get in contact! And if she wants to see me! I feel she dosn't care anymore! I don't see why I should do all the contacting it should be 50 50!

2007-02-26 22:27:39 · 29 answers · asked by Purple Fairy 3 in Friends

Alright, so around February 2nd of 2005....me and this boy starting dating!! He was 16 and so was 15!! Our parents hated for us to be together and they tryed everthing in their power to keep us apart. My dad hated him but his parents didn't care because we we deeply in love!! My dad threatened to get a restraining order but we kept seeing each other and then my dad warned me that he would take my clothes, jewelry, and shoes. He made me wear baggy jeans, a big white shirt and some old shoes...but I still didn't give up on my boyfriend!! We were madly in love and we would have done anything for each other....even though he wasn't getting in trouble by his parents, I was because my parents were the ones trying to keep us apart. We never had sex, but we were so much in love!! One day, during the summer of 2005, my dad made me move to a new school and a whole new enviornment about 30 mintues away!!! I was devastated and so was my boyfriend!! I cryed for months and I hated everyone in my

2007-02-26 22:27:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK well I'm an ice skater. Big time except I'm not like snobby like the ones you see in movies. Do guys like us twirl girls? HELP!!!

2007-02-26 22:26:07 · 15 answers · asked by icesk8ergirl2180 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 22:24:00 · 15 answers · asked by Jerrica Starlight 5 in Friends

My boyfriend is upset with me and he is not contacting me. He explained to me that he is going through a lot of stress at work, he doesnt like his current job, he had an argument with his boss, he is trying to find a new job while he works full-time. He told me last week that he is really down about everything. He told me that he needs time to focus and some time for himself. I had a hard time to deal with his distancing and questioned him about his feelings and our relationship. He was trying to explain things to me but now he is upset as I became needy of him a couple of days ago again. He said that Im making things hard for him and I dont support him. I told him that he does not seem to care about our relationship so much anymore and he got upset with me. I apologised and said I will let him concentrate but he said to me that I never stick to what I say. Now I have not heard from him since 2 days? I want to talk to him and make things right but should I contact him?

2007-02-26 22:21:46 · 20 answers · asked by violet b 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi, my partner was with a women 10 yrs ago they have a child together, they split up about 7 yrs back, as she was cheating on him, with his mate, they stayed together and got through it, but not long after she was caught doing it again, so my partner ended it,and they went seperate ways, then about 6 months before i got with him he was seeing her behind her boyfriends back, he never told me, it was only about after a year of dating him, his mate told me, i was fuming and constantly argueing about it with him, he said he never loved her, but he wanted to marry her, he always said he was only with her for his daughter, excuses i think.
He says to me i need to get over his past before it ruins our relationship, and i totally agrre, but i constantly feel secound best to his x.
I dont know what to do as we are getting married in 4 months and i dont want to make a mistake incase he does still love her, i love him 100%, just not sure if he does me.

2007-02-26 22:21:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 22:17:34 · 21 answers · asked by Ellie W 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 22:16:50 · 12 answers · asked by Ellie W 3 in Singles & Dating

in the nicest way possible....

2007-02-26 22:14:52 · 16 answers · asked by Jessica Velasquez 2 in Singles & Dating

It seems they put sex as a low priority.

2007-02-26 22:14:40 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

plsssssss help

2007-02-26 22:13:05 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a joke at first until she told me she meant it.she said when the opportunity came for us to travel together and use the same hotelroom,she had it all planned in such a way that we will have no choice but to make love.she said she wanted to know how making love with me will feel,she said she felt bad about it initially but now its one of those cazy shits and that whenever she needs sex she can always call me.I asked her more than twice if she took advantage of me and she affirmed it.Now i feel i have been used,i think all this while she has been untrue and unreal although she said she has not done anything to make me distrust her.the thing is i still like this girl so much,her mum and her siblings the love me and they always want me to come around.no matter what i wont like to lose her friendship?pls if you are in my shoes what would you do considering the previous questions i have asked.pls reply as soon as possible.regards oluwaseun

2007-02-26 22:13:03 · 2 answers · asked by olawepos 1 in Friends

2007-02-26 22:12:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 22:09:05 · 26 answers · asked by Ellie W 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-26 22:08:09 · 20 answers · asked by Ellie W 3 in Friends

I have not met her yet but long talks had on phone for last 2 months we are in love.

2007-02-26 22:07:28 · 7 answers · asked by Enngee 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-26 22:04:45 · 20 answers · asked by himanshu k 1 in Friends

2007-02-26 22:02:54 · 19 answers · asked by drixx 1 in Singles & Dating

I am going to be going on a second date with this girl I really like. The first date was awesome, both of us thought it was the best first date either of us have ever been on. We both really like each other, and we both know it. I want to give her a small boquet or a single flower. I don't want to over do it with a dozen roses or anything, as we have only been on one date. What kind of flower should I give her? I know there is different meanings for different flowers, but every website I go to says something different about each flower. I am thinking a single pink or white rose. Let me know what you think ladies!!

2007-02-26 22:02:44 · 13 answers · asked by Skinny 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 22:00:37 · 15 answers · asked by sitihajar m 1 in Family

I can talk any thing funny in a serious situation in a such way that it can make the people get cool.
I am always ready to help the people around me mostly I help my frnds. New people always find me sweet. They enjoy my company they like to become my frnd but some way they treat me like a kid. My friend always tries to get hold me no body really wants to break up with me, its only me who breaks up usually when I dnt get the expected response from others. At the first call of my friends I rush to help them ( only the frnds I like) no matter how difficult it is for me to help them I try to help my best. but later I feel may be I am being taken for granted. May be they just use me for their needs. My frnds talk to me when they have time, when they r bored, I talk to them even when I am most busy. I dont like to break my frnds hearts but usually I am the one whose heart gets hurt and broken by friends. so tell me what kind of a person I am and am I being takn 4 granted by my frnds.

2007-02-26 22:00:05 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-26 21:59:38 · 14 answers · asked by poornima l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife feels bored at home. Some ideas which i can suggest her so that she becomes busy / engaged staying at home and can avoid being bored. Not necessary that she earns, just interesting activitiy will help.

2007-02-26 21:59:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have this love/hate work relationship with a girl I work with. We flirt regularly also and colleagues say we behave like a married couple!(she has a Boyfriend,but he won't commit).At times it seems we want each other, but other times we want to kill each other!!!(not literaly!)

Would this mean she fancies me or not?What is a love/hate relationship?

Will it ever lead to something more if the right circumstances arose? i.e. on a night out with work colleagues....

Anyone be in a similar situation

2007-02-26 21:58:23 · 13 answers · asked by roadtripman90 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, So my boyfriend is plannin on movin out here, So that we can be together. But there are so many problems preventing it. Like he cant stay with me because i live with my dad, And he wont allow it. Go figure?...anyways, Hes workin on gettin a job where hes at, to get enough money to get him here. But he dont know anyone out here, and hes got until April to be outta the place hes at. And i have a place he can stay. But he cant till the end of april. and thats not soon enough, and not to mention he cant stay with anyone unless helps with bills, and he cant get a job here without a car. and hell im still working on gettin a car so that i can get a job myself. I mean i dunno im so confused, im tryin to figure all this out. But to have a month to do it all? A month never felt so short. and its not like he can do it, hes stuck to. and im just out of ideas, I need some advice.. Someone please gimme some ideas if you can!!! Thanks.

2007-02-26 21:57:42 · 7 answers · asked by So Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

How do you feel living wit ur in laws? My parents in law and younger sister in law are nice to me and I love them too. However, I still wish that my little family could be on our own, my husband, 5 months daughter and I. My sister in law come to my bedroom very often without knocking even at 12 am, whenever the light is on. Am I too selfish? it's hard for my wish to come true bcause my husband wants to live with his family forever. Ask him to move out? I did million times but he rejected. :( I'm out of word.
thanks for reading

2007-02-26 21:56:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family