Please tell me what kind of a person u think I am?? I am witty, humorous, I can make people laugh.?

Question

I can talk any thing funny in a serious situation in a such way that it can make the people get cool.
I am always ready to help the people around me mostly I help my frnds. New people always find me sweet. They enjoy my company they like to become my frnd but some way they treat me like a kid. My friend always tries to get hold me no body really wants to break up with me, its only me who breaks up usually when I dnt get the expected response from others. At the first call of my friends I rush to help them ( only the frnds I like) no matter how difficult it is for me to help them I try to help my best. but later I feel may be I am being taken for granted. May be they just use me for their needs. My frnds talk to me when they have time, when they r bored, I talk to them even when I am most busy. I dont like to break my frnds hearts but usually I am the one whose heart gets hurt and broken by friends. so tell me what kind of a person I am and am I being takn 4 granted by my frnds.

Answer 1

You come across as a sweet person. Don't let people use you as a confession box that is one way they get rid of their frustrations and hardly do they listen to you. I used to be like that, i was everyone's doormat but now i have become stronger and separate myself from selfish people. You carry on being nice and sweet and don't let others take you for granted ok:)))

Answer 2

Truthfully, I can relate to your experience being taken for granted by your friends -- but the difference is, I've dry sense of humour...


By any means, try to befriend with someone else who're more sincere towards friendship and learn how not to look too good, nor talk too wise with your friends. People will see these as the advantage to get what they want easily ~


Speaking of your qualities, you're such a great joker, helpful and kind-hearted -- but don't be very naive when it comes to the friendship. Be assertive, and more bold in expressing your feelings. True mates will stay, while the others will remain dishonest and even backstab you.

Answer 3

You sound like a good freind to me. Funny, witty, committed, sincere, and yes you do have confidence, but you have been honest that you do ''expect the response the way you want it'' from your frends, which often breaks hearts, and pains. Do what you do, keep on doing, and I would be stupid to tell you not to expect. Everyone expect. When you give all your love and attention and go to lengths for your loved ones, it need not be money or any extra affection you need, but you certainly do deserve to be acknowledged, is little ways. It would be a lie if anyone said that they dont expect anything out of anyone or anything. That may hold true to some instance, but generally its just a lie we love to say. But then, perhaps, your expectations probably goes beyond what others ''character'' is. I mean, for you to be selfless and doing out of your way, is just the way you are. You are a wonderful person and thats just you. But do you think everyone would really go out of their way ? Everyone has their own expression of gratitude and love. It may be different from yours. And it should be that way, cos' you are a genuine person who has a an individual way of expressing love, freindship..anything. But if you expect the same expressions back, then you really need to understand that, you will only be more hurt, and feel dejected all the time.

Think, and control your thoughts. Be yourself, and just be the way you are. You know all your freinds, how they are, their character, how they deal with things, so when you do something out of your way (which I feel you should be doing less of) think how far they would really express that they appreciate you. And always know that you are appreciated. Some people are not too expressive, and some people are silent. It is difficult to believe from your question that your freinds do not find you adorable...but then, dont get hurt, and the only general way coudl be to avoid going out of your way....feel good about urself..

good luck..

P.S. just out of interest, are you an Arien ?

Answer 4

You sound just like me. It is difficult because we are what we are. Just today at work I was told I was too sensitive and I must harden myself and learn to say no to those who take advantage of my good nature, but it is hard to change just like that. I love to help people but I also crave appreciation which is not forthcoming. We are our own worst enemies. I don't know the answer. I am glad I am like I am but I do feel I am taken for granted. Remember you are a good person, it's everyone else who has the problem. Keep your chin up.

Answer 5

You're trying too hard sweetheart. The fact that you're asking for reassurance tells me that you are constantly seeking approval...

Just relax, try not to wear your heart on your sleeve so much - people will take advantage of your nice nature. It doesn't mean you have to be nasty, just don't be so 'available' - go off and do some things on your own, put your talents to good use by helping those worse off than you are.

Answer 6

You sound like a breath of fresh air, a pleasure to have around, you are definitely a person that makes people laugh! Life is far too short to take it too serious. Maybe they are taking you for granted not realising that they are doing it, you need to talk to your friends and tell them how you feel.

Feel free to chat to me if you like ok, i can be contacted via my email or instant messenger.

Take care of yourself.

Answer 7

i had a friend like you.
his name is Ayo
i would think you are just a social person who loves to be out there
i read some of ur questions on how to forget the girl and i have the same problem with my friend. i really don't know what do to so i just decided if he says hi to me, i say hi back but if her doesn't i just go on.
but i really miss him
i think you should not act like me
go on and talk to her

Answer 8

It sounds to me like you are trying too hard to be liked! Try backing off and shoot for higher goals other than trying to be the social butterfly who's always in the limelight.

You are probably a pretty intellegent person that feels he/she has to "court jest" to be popular. YOU DON'T! Just be yourself and set your sights higher and let people RESPECT you for what you are.

Answer 9

you dont have to think that way.the deal is they enjoy your company al l the time and they see you as a good friend.But you can also soften on your homour,mix business like with it atimes.but make sure u dont lose them cos good friends are hard to come by

Answer 10

nice person who is always there 4 ur friends. mabye ur friends are taking u 4 granted. u should look for people with ur same interst/personality