ok,remember the girl i told u guys about.now on our way home yesterday,she said somethings that i thought was?

Question

a joke at first until she told me she meant it.she said when the opportunity came for us to travel together and use the same hotelroom,she had it all planned in such a way that we will have no choice but to make love.she said she wanted to know how making love with me will feel,she said she felt bad about it initially but now its one of those cazy shits and that whenever she needs sex she can always call me.I asked her more than twice if she took advantage of me and she affirmed it.Now i feel i have been used,i think all this while she has been untrue and unreal although she said she has not done anything to make me distrust her.the thing is i still like this girl so much,her mum and her siblings the love me and they always want me to come around.no matter what i wont like to lose her friendship?pls if you are in my shoes what would you do considering the previous questions i have asked.pls reply as soon as possible.regards oluwaseun

Answer 1

Girls are normally the ones to get hurt, so she has probably built up a barrier so she cant get hurt. She is probably testing you. But unfortunately for women we have be designed to get attached to people we sleep with. So no matter how much she denies it, she does feel for you. She probably needs time to feel safe with you. Just be patient and keep giving her the attention and kindness she desrevs

Answer 2

This girl sounds really mixed up and like she doesn't really know how to be. I would stick to being her friend and let her know that you are not just sitting around waiting for her to use you. You are worth more than that.