Alright, so around February 2nd of 2005....me and this boy starting dating!! He was 16 and so was 15!! Our parents hated for us to be together and they tryed everthing in their power to keep us apart. My dad hated him but his parents didn't care because we we deeply in love!! My dad threatened to get a restraining order but we kept seeing each other and then my dad warned me that he would take my clothes, jewelry, and shoes. He made me wear baggy jeans, a big white shirt and some old shoes...but I still didn't give up on my boyfriend!! We were madly in love and we would have done anything for each other....even though he wasn't getting in trouble by his parents, I was because my parents were the ones trying to keep us apart. We never had sex, but we were so much in love!! One day, during the summer of 2005, my dad made me move to a new school and a whole new enviornment about 30 mintues away!!! I was devastated and so was my boyfriend!! I cryed for months and I hated everyone in my
2007-02-26 22:27:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
new school!!! I did ever thing to keep in contact with my boyfriend...I called him every single day from school because I couldn't use the house phone!!! So, this went on until Feb. 2nd...(our 1year anniversery)....when I finally went to visit him....his friends told me he had been having sex with two other girls since I left!!! I was devastated!! My life, soul, mind, heart, body, emotions, and everything was crushed!! After all that bullshit I put my family through for him...he did this bullshlt to me!!! So, we broke up and then he started dating a gurl at my new school who became my best friend!! She knew he was my ex and so me and her started hating one another!! Then he got her pregnant in december of 2006!! Just a few days ago I ran into him...and I realized that I never stopped loving him...he hugged me, and we talked for a long time!! I know he still loves me but I'm scared to tell him I stiil do...should I tell him I still love him...and try again if him and her break up?
2007-02-26 22:33:18 · update #1
Ok let me see if I can explain this to you from your parents point of view without the emotional attachments. Your parents see their daughter falling for a guy at her very young ( your parent's opinion) age and that scares them. They are afraid that you will do somethings that you will learn to regret later in life. Perhaps they had the same experiences or knew someone who did and watched them go through a tough time and are just trying to help you avoid those same problems. At any rate, look at this time apart as a test; patience is truly one of Love's toughest tests. If your love can withstand the test of time, perhaps it is meant to be. If not, you will find another.
2007-02-26 22:35:57 · answer #1 · answered by utopian citizen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear, at 16yrs u r still young to know if u truly love him or not. I think u should be careful with this guy, he has already gotten one girl pregant and ur family don't like him.
I would suggest to keep him as a good friend and try to move on with your life. I know u r probably thinking am I nuts or what... but in 4yrs time ur will look back and look at this situation with a much clearer view.
2007-02-27 06:39:09 · answer #2 · answered by loves_nature 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i just will tell you that the parent's always right and and we always realize this later,,but you are lucky coz it's not too late for you coz you didn't give him what you can't get it back, coz he doesn't deserve, from the beginning you are the one who is doing all you can to save his love and he's doing nothing,,and I'm sure that he wants to get back to you just to make you another copy of you best friend and then he'll leave you to search about the new one..if you want to do this with your self back to him but in this time you'll not just gonna hate him no you'll hate your self.. so stay away from this person and you still young you'll find your true love with someone deserve you...good luck
2007-02-27 07:05:09 · answer #3 · answered by shima 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your question is incomplete. It ends with " I hated everyone in my" meaning that there are things you wanted to say about the Winter of 2006 to date. you were 15 then and now you are 18 or so. Can you finish your question?
2007-02-27 06:34:10 · answer #4 · answered by Dr Yahoo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to do right by your parents, they are your family and always will be your family. Relationships will come and go, but your parents will always be there for the Hi Highs and the low lows.
2007-02-27 06:36:06 · answer #5 · answered by cornbread3604 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ohhhhh God, drama queen, you just asked this question, refer back to that one, stop asking people in here for their ideas to change your life, step and take charge or sit back and whine, either way it makes no difference to me.
hurdle the wounded and trample the weak.
2007-02-27 06:34:57 · answer #6 · answered by countryboy1959 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i just wanna say your are great or you are mad for the boy who most probably dont love you.
2007-02-27 06:47:19 · answer #7 · answered by singleman 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋