would it make you feel weird/ruin the friendship if you knew you only liked her as a friend, or could you continue to have fun with her as you always did, knowing she had feelings for you?
2007-02-26 21:23:08 · 11 answers · asked by spdy 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
errr erock....im the girl, relax
2007-02-26 21:40:35 · update #1
Its a hard spot to be in. I would tell her, I like her too like best buddy...and make sure she understands...tell her if you developed feelings that she wants for her then your fun relationship will change and will not be fun anymore...she is very attractive and you could only be so lucky that she likes you....
This way she knows you are not interested but get NO offense as non intended...
I will continue to be her friend if I like her that way, otherwise, I will RUN......
2007-02-26 21:29:20 · answer #1 · answered by Ariana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure what the problem is here.... everyone has their own different idea about things. Just come straight out & put all the cards on the table & see what happens. If the guy has only expected you to be a "friend" and nothing more, nothing is lost for HIM. Question for you is.... how long can you go on with it like that ? as friends only, knowing you felt something more ?
You would be the one missing out on something, not he. That doesn't seem very fair from way back here in the nosebleed section, where I'm sitting.
2007-02-27 05:34:25 · answer #2 · answered by ccchevydude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She must be fat if you're not gay therefore I conclude that it doesn't matter since fat people's feeling don't matter. If I'm wrong and she's isn't fat then clearly you are gay in which case you can tell her you're gay and she'll drop the crush. If neither or the 2 preceding statements are true then I would most certainly conclude that you are some kind of vaginized wussy with a non functioning sex drive who's mommy won't give his balls back.
There happy?
Oops ha ha ha ha my bad. Well honey I'm sure it's not you lol.
2007-02-27 05:28:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't ruin the friendship. If you were honest with her, she'll get over the crush, and move on. Just don't lead her on, that would be kinda cruel.
2007-02-27 05:28:18 · answer #4 · answered by grouch2111 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course you should continue to have fun with her...Why? Because you would hurt her if you begin to ignore her...just tell her directly that you just want her as a friend...
2007-02-27 05:34:21 · answer #5 · answered by cloudy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl who's told her best (male) friend that she "Likes" him. He told me that he dosen't like me like that, he simply cares as a very good friend. Nothing's changed between us, we're still v close. But it might depend on her attitude, whether you & she feel you can carry on as before.
2007-02-27 05:36:13 · answer #6 · answered by Bubbly Blonde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on whether she was a hottie... If she is, I'd be tempted to make it "friends with benefits"... :D If she isn't that attactive to me, then just continue to have fun... She hasn't changed as a friend...
2007-02-27 05:28:31 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope - returned 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I told this exact same thing to my man as we were best friends and we are in love
2007-02-27 05:27:37 · answer #8 · answered by getomorrowforme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
REMEMBER FRIENDSHIP IS THE MOST PUREST RELATION ONE CAN EVER SHARE WITH SOMEONE !!
BUT LOVE COMES NEXT , SO SEE THAT IS SHE THE ONE WHO IS THE GIRL OF UR DREAMS IS SHE THE ONE WITH WHOM U CAN SHARE UR JOYS AND SORROWS THINK ABOUT THE TIMES U SHARED TOGETHER ..
CLOSE UR EYES AND ASK URSELF THIS QUESTION THAT IS SHE UR LOVE ,THE ONE WITH WHOM U R READY TO BE WITH ?AND U ATOMATICALLY GET THE ANSWER.................
2007-02-27 05:38:03 · answer #9 · answered by nomad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure i contact as soon as possible
2007-02-27 05:27:59 · answer #10 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋