every time i talk in fornt of the class i get red.. or when i talk to a girl why and how can i fix it?
2007-02-26 23:08:12 · 9 answers · asked by Dakota 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its just because you dont believe in your self and you always think what might other people think about you if you do something wrong, that's why but the technic is :
when you wake up and when you want to go to bed and during day when ever you have time repeat it by yourself this sentence: I feel secure, whatever I am and whatever I do I am wonderful.
that's it I assure you you would be surprised how fast your problem would solve.
2007-02-26 23:17:02 · answer #1 · answered by bahareh n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, so easy! Here is what you do. Sit and imagine yourself talking to girls. Imagine yourself saying the right things, and super important: imagine yourself being really comfortable talking to them.
Now, go somewhere you don't know anyone. Practice talking to strangers. REMEMBER: you don't know these people. It's practice, like a CLASS. Talk. Get out there, try talking to lots of folks. start talking to cashiers when they ring you up. Talk to people on the bus or in lines. Get used to talking to everyone, at any time.
It's always a bit uncomfortable talking to someone you want to date, but this practice will help. I promise. Imagine yourself doing well, and practice whenever you can.
2007-02-27 07:15:34 · answer #2 · answered by WriterMom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax dear
this comes naturally , its in ur built-in characterristics , u cant fix it over night , need to work on it.
u have to face ur fear , i was just like u and i suffered first year of high , till some1 gave me the exact same suggestion , i did it once and felt embarassed but didnt give up m do the same thing , start by askin g\irlz out
2007-02-27 07:15:27 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is normally feel it like that.bcoz u not always talk in front of ur class n not alwys talk with girl .or u can try urself ,u brave a bit lah then got many people chat with u one then u feeling not scary with others.good luck!
2007-02-27 07:43:05 · answer #4 · answered by gigi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An outgoing personality can help breakdown the walls of shyness
2007-02-27 07:13:10 · answer #5 · answered by Love or hate? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hitler was the same way he spent sountless hours perfecting speeches in front of mirrors, try that till your comfortable speak what you wanna say andpretend your looking into a mirror when you talk so it eases your nerves
2007-02-27 07:12:19 · answer #6 · answered by Metalup87 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Think of your self better than others , confidence is habit
2007-02-27 07:12:36 · answer #7 · answered by al.bdour 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. bcoz u feel that everybody is superior to u, thats why u r feeling like that.
2007-02-27 07:20:26 · answer #8 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to block out all that extra thoughts running through your mind works for me.
2007-02-27 07:16:56 · answer #9 · answered by sancez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋