My bf and I broke up in august with cliche circumstances...after 8 months he dumped me for an upgrade to my best friend who dated him and ditched him after a couple of months. I went through a period of hate but I was best friends with him for 2 and a half years before I dated him and I worried then, and find myself worrying now, about his weight. He is REALLY skinny. Anorexia is uncommon in guys but it does occur. I heard him say a couple of times he thought he was fat and he never ate much at lunch or anything. Is it normal after this time to still have some feelings for him, or atleast his well being?
2007-02-26 23:26:56 · 9 answers · asked by Bambi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You will always have him on your mind, just because you arent together you wont forget about him, you say he was your best friend.
Well sounds like he needs your friendship now, forgive his mistakes and be his friend, doesnt mean you have to have a relationship and you will never forget what he has done to you but at this time it sounds like you could be saving his life just by showing you care.
2007-02-26 23:39:46 · answer #1 · answered by bradosmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's normal to be worried about your ex's health especially if you loved him very much during your relationship and you're saying also that you were best friend for 2 and a half years.
It's normal. All you have to do to stop worrying, you will have to take him out of your mind and heart which is a bit impossible to do even if he hurted you.
2007-02-26 23:36:13 · answer #2 · answered by Falcon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex-husband is an alcoholic which is why he's an ex. he's also my best friend to this day and him and my husband get along really well,too. A year ago my ex had health issues. His girlfriend and I put on a benefit for him to help offset medical costs. If you're still thinking about him, call. Ask him what's up with him.....don't give up a friend because of stupidity...his, not yours, but keep it simple. You aren't starting another relationship, you're just worried about him. And, yes, in my opinion, that's okay.
2007-02-26 23:35:23 · answer #3 · answered by Deb K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you feel is normal and very natural you have a good relationship with him and he hurt your feeling there is still closeness on you if is not love it is the friendship
talk to him if as not a lover just a friend maybe you can give him
some advice and he might listen to you and you will found out whats bothering you why he is so skinny
go for it a true friend is a friend in need
goodluck
2007-02-26 23:49:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's definitely normal to worry, but you probably knew that anyway... it sounds like you're more concerned about his sickness than your issues with him, especially if u guys were so close before you got together... you might want to think about a mutual friend and seeing if you can help him along to treatment through a third party... dont confuse your concern for him as feelings for him... really be honest with yourself and whether or not u even want to deal... and if u want to help with getting him treatment, brace yourself cause it's gonna be hard. if that's something you dont want to do then u need to walk away, completely. whatever you decide, be brave and well wishes.
2007-02-26 23:41:16 · answer #5 · answered by tata 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
regrettably enuff whether you have been the main suitable buddies previous to relationship one yet another, regularly friendship are over after the main suitable harm up... reason your nevertheless harm by utilising the wear and tear up and which will constantly be someplace interior the decrease back of your ideas.. so attempt shifting on.. goodluck
2016-09-29 23:34:19 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEAH... BECAUSE THERE ARE GOOD TIMES THAT THE TWO OF YOU SPEND... SO YOU CARE A LITTLE EVEN THERE'S A BAD BEAK UP...
2007-02-26 23:36:38 · answer #7 · answered by hypnosis_31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, its only human to feel bad.
2007-02-26 23:31:31 · answer #8 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's so sweet!
if he had dumped me, i would just ignore him.
yes, that is natural/normal/ok.
it's quite touching..
2007-02-26 23:31:32 · answer #9 · answered by wordsofapoet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋