in ur opinion would ue ver leave ur best friend for a guy u really like..is it ever okay to leave ur best friend for a guy..i guess i have a lot of questions..but i'm sure i can answer them on my own..but i wanna know..would u ever leave ur best friend for a guy? do u think it's ok? sometimes ppl say they never will but they do...i'm so sick of the ppl who u think are ur best friends..but...treat u like crap i'm so sick of being betrayed by teh same person..but it's hard to just be like i don't wanna talk anymore..u treat me like nothing but it was never like this before..until him
2007-02-26 23:01:22 · 7 answers · asked by boom56 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No I would never give up my friends for a guy, especially my best friends, my friends where there before him and if it all goes wrong who would I have to turn to no-one.....
The man in my life would ahve to accept my friends and them him, you dont have to spend every waking minute with your guy, we all need me time, thats time to see friends , family etc and do your own thing with them, and also have time as a couple with your friends and his friends........
I have friends that when they get together with a guy very rarely call you anymore or visit, my friend jackie did this and now he has left her for some-one else who was there to pick up the pieces ME so I am a true friend you dont dis your friends no matter what, I can understand how you feel but some women are just like that they think they need to give their man all their time,even though he goes out with his friends she will stay home being dutiful, this is because they dont know how to have a proper relationship..........
Any decent guy that you met would not expect you to give your friends up for him, most guys that do expect you to do this are either controls freaks or insecure, so you wouldnt want to be in a relationship with them any way well I certainly wouldnt....
Tell your friend exactly how you feel about this treatment and ask how they would like it if you done the same to them you will find they wouldnt put up with it so why should you if they are a true friends they wont be hurt or angry by your honesty, dont let anyone use you, you deserve the same as you give not to be treated as crap.....
If your friend keeps doing this then tell them your friendship is over as it never really meant anything to them anyway, they where just using you till the next guy came along then you where dumped, and you wont be there to pick up the pieces for them when it goes wrong, so get on with it see you bye, they will soon realise how wrong they have treated you.....
Good luck
2007-02-26 23:30:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I said that to my best friend when i met a guy that things will still be the same. She didn't believe me and she stopped talking to me. 4 years later we are just on speaking terms now things will never be the same. I broke up with him and i wish i still had her as a friend. So the answer to your question is NO don't leave your best friend because if anything does happen in the future you will need your friend there for support.
Good luck
2007-02-27 07:19:35 · answer #2 · answered by j25d11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope i will not leave my best friend for a guy... at the end of the day it is my friend who is the voice of reason when i am confused , or the compass when i need direction in life, my friend has become a necessity in my life and to throw away that friendship for a relationship of uncertainity is ridiculous as well a traitorus....
friends for life.
2007-02-27 07:09:31 · answer #3 · answered by UFO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no because that guy will cause you pain and you will get fat and have his children and you will have to wash his clothes and meet his family....NO please don't do it....you friend will always make you laugh and just show you a good time.
2007-02-27 07:51:25 · answer #4 · answered by XOXOXO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way! my best friend will always be there for me. She would not do that to me. And you never knwo if that guy even likes you! so why risk it?
2007-02-27 08:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by Allie_<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
true friends wouldn't even think about it. guys come and go but your girls stay forever
2007-02-27 07:47:27 · answer #6 · answered by Deb K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. nothing is fair in love and war.
2007-02-27 07:18:07 · answer #7 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋