hi..ummm my friend jesse does all the wrong things..but i can't help that it is true..b/c brandon my b/f..has had a histroy of those kinds of problems..well i rember brandon telling me that he went to the mall..with his friend..and this girl was all over him and how..he deffently didn't find any intrest in her at all..but then jesse said he was all over a girl..so i don't know who to beleive...ya know..me and jesse have had our problems..but were still ok friends..but whatever..i asked brandon about it but he said it never happened and if i should beleive him or jesse...i've known jesse since august..and brandon since october..i really don't know who to beleive b/c they have both hurt me in the past..what should i do?
2007-02-26 23:01:43 · 12 answers · asked by *Chelsea* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Jessee could have a motive if he was a past boyfriend, he may want u back, so he could be lying on Brandon to get u to think Brandon is cheating on u. what is in it for Jessee? does he have something to gain by lying to u? if he does than i might want to check it out before i acted on anything. u may be attracting these types of boys who hurt u, the reason is a low self esteem, and thinking u don't deserve any better than this in life. u need to distance yourself from those who hurt u, and find a person who doesn't hurt u. ask yourself, what is there about me that keeps attracting these types? u may not think enough of yourself and may not think that being hurt is wrong.
2007-02-26 23:19:12 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does she have to gain by lying? I mean if you break up is she going to end up with him? And now what does he have to lose? You, so why would she lie? Ask yourself. DUMP HIM, you can replace him in a heart beat. But just think about this too. You have known him since October? This is a total of 4 months. And he has hurt you already in a four month time span. Doesn't sound like much of a boyfriend to me. You decide. He can hurt you more or you can dump him now. Good Luck.
2007-02-26 23:08:16 · answer #2 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While girls your age are much more likely to get into the idea of one man, one woman....boys don't. Boys get a regular gf because she is there, all the time, when he wants her to be. But for guys, moreso, if a new girl throws herself at him, hes likely to try her on. If you kwim. Boys don't get all "Oh, one girl, forever. Get away."
Now, you say he has a history of this behavior? You are probably with the wrong guy. Lots of older women steal a man from his wife, then are so shocked to find he's cheating on them too. Guys like that love the ATTENTION. If your guy loves attention, and has already shown he doesn't think highly of monogomy (he may SAY he does, but not ACT that way) then you should move on or get used to it.
He will SAY all the right things, that's what people DO. They talk their way out of things. Its up to you if you buy it.
2007-02-26 23:08:29 · answer #3 · answered by WriterMom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its suited to enable concerns be. there's a asserting ' extensive-unfold is for the thief yet sooner or later is for the owner of the abode'. I guess sooner or later the husband might discover out for himself. Dont be the single to break up a marriage. The spouse ought to comprehend herself and the two harm up the dating or worse yet end her marriage. in line with danger you additionally can tactfully tell the husband to hunt for a activity close by cos relatives is lots greater substantial than what money brings in. enable him comprehend that his starting to be babies want him and likewise his spouse. Dont say this to make him suspicious. here tact is mandatory so be very careful with what you assert and the type you act.
2016-11-26 01:43:57 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not have any doubt about your boy friend.
Your relation should be such open that one always admits every thing to other. That's all - no hide and seek games.
And also you should be able to believe your boy friend than any other friends.
2007-02-26 23:07:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To get the right answers, you must ask the right questions. Don't ask any questions where he can twist the truth. Ask him directly if he was "up" on that girl, along with other questions.
2007-02-26 23:04:50 · answer #6 · answered by Joshu@ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trick a third friend to find out for u whether ur friend is infatuated by ur bf or not, second face ur bf , hit him hard: "I was at the mall that , its was damn crowded , aint it?" u will realize from the way he answers
2007-02-26 23:06:11 · answer #7 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get out of friendships and relationships with people that hurt you and you can't trust.
2007-02-26 23:04:39 · answer #8 · answered by I_am_me___ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sit back and wait. If he's really a jerk then you will find out on your own soon enough.
2007-02-26 23:07:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. do u belive ur boyfriend, i u trust him teally true dont give ears to what others r saying, she may be envy on you too.
2007-02-26 23:16:40 · answer #10 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋