Family & Relationships - 26 February 2007

ok i started going out with this great guy and we dint tel lour friends.... we dint want to tell them so soon.. now they are really mad bcuz they think i lied to them but was just trying to hide it for awhile. i dont no wat to do bcuz i love my freinds and my bf and iam not going to break up with him. i think my friends are being jerks now. so any advice to get them unmad??? help!?!?

2007-02-26 07:37:56 · 11 answers · asked by acelover12forever 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 07:37:40 · 21 answers · asked by Skeezix 5 in Singles & Dating

We have a very overweight friend...because of this we are always kidding around with him and giving him a hard time. He usually laughs and plays along...nothing harmless.

Well a couple weeks ago, my buddy was sitting on a friends couch...another friend had brought his pet python over to show everyone, and apparently my buddy is scared of snakes... When he offered to let him hold the snake, he started shaking, waving his hands in a manner to hold him back. Because of his weight, he couldn't get off the couch, so he decided to throw the snake on him. He was frozen in fear and actually passed out from shock (we thought he had a heart attack, but it was shock).

Anyways, the next week, He had the snake in his green travel bag...put on the floor in the corner. He thought he would be funny and stand over the snake threatening to sit on it...well, he stood over the snake, lost his balance and accidently squashed the snake...killing it.

My buddy wants to press charges...can he?

2007-02-26 07:37:22 · 4 answers · asked by Ted Arcidi 2 in Friends

even realize she had done it, when I questioned her, she said when she tells people she's married, or has a boyfriend they don't care, but when she says i'm gay, people leave her alone. It was just a casual conversation. I don't believe I was hitting on her in any way. Do other women out there use this as a reflex to get men they wish no association with to leave them alone?

2007-02-26 07:36:49 · 1 answers · asked by shadycaliber 5 in Singles & Dating

I want to know what you think of these centerpieces. I'm on a budget and trying to cut corners. I was thinking of getting these instead of fresh flowers. Can you let me know if you like them. I know they're simple but they're about 1/3 of the cost of real flowers.

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2007-02-26 07:36:32 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

When i first met my current bf, he told me he was dating around, and was currently dating this one girl. He didnt see her that much, but she was fun to hang out with. We became friends and started dating, nothing serious. I asked him if she knew he dated around and he said yes. months go by, and slowly he stops spending time with her and Eventually we became official Due to convience we moved into together about 2 months later. I had posted pictures of our house on my myspace blog-one day she hits the fan and starts commenting on my blogs about all the bad things about my bf saying she had no idea he was seeing me. But after her mailing me a few times throwing a fit, and telling lies about him to try and break us up (saying they slept together on a night that i was with him) i finally blocked her from my myspace, he says she said she was sorry so i unblocked her. months go by and shes back at it talking about how she loves him and its driving me nuts what can i do or say to her???

2007-02-26 07:35:30 · 7 answers · asked by ~Browneyes~ 2 in Singles & Dating

My half sister told me a week ago that before I was born, my dad had an affair with two women. He's gone out west to work and I'm afraid he may be doing it again. I cant tell my mom because I'm waiting for my sister to approach my dad with it-I was sworn to secrecy until she does. What can I do to cope with this?

2007-02-26 07:35:01 · 6 answers · asked by Gotha 1 in Family

my ex gf will text or message me to let me know how sad my myspace profile song makes her. And to say how sorry she is about hurting me. She has a new bf that she started seeing less than 2 weeks after our split. Why would she contact me if she has him? Is she trying to keep her foot in the door? is it out of guilt? How often do women mean what they say in a breakup? i.e. is there a chance she'll come back, and her leaving is a way to try to get me to fix what she sees as issues (which were minor by the way) she says there is still love there. She had a gut feeling that this isn't where she was suppose to be. I think her gut feeling was the issues that need to be addressed. (living too near to the ex, money issues.which will be cleared up shortly, as soon as my house sells, i had some depression issues that have since been dealt with. all short term fixable stuff) other than that, we got along GREAT, and her leaving was a huge suprise to me.any thoughts, advice is welcome!

2007-02-26 07:34:50 · 13 answers · asked by Willie D 1 in Singles & Dating

I have never had a boyfriend, and when guys find out that i like them, the completely lose interest in me! I don't know how good looking i am but quite a few people i don't know have said hat i am pretty, and my friends say i have a great sense of humor. I am not desparate - but i just don't understand why any guys don't like !!!Please help me!!!

2007-02-26 07:34:42 · 11 answers · asked by xevanescencerockx 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my husband for 9 years.I love him very much.I also know he loves me.The problem is SEX!?We do not have sex as regually as I think we should and it is driving me crazy.We made love a couple of nights ago for the first time in almost 3 months.I know he is not cheating.He says that he just doesn't think about it like he did when "he was younger"He is only 36 and I am 33.He will cook for me,clean & fix my car and anything else I ask.But when night time comes-nothing.He's "too tired" even though he will sit up and watch a movie till midnight or work on a car till midnight.He acts like sex is a job.I have done everything I can think of.I bought a pill that is supposed to help men get in the mood.1 pill cost me $10.It didn't work.We did make love but I had to suduce him into it ,after he finially came to bed 3 hrs after me.This isn't working for me. As much as I love him, I need him to touch me and make love to me. How do I make him realize that our marriage is in trouble??

2007-02-26 07:34:29 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm just curious since you men are visual type of creatures. I noticed this also with my ex's and my husband that you get all psyched up and excited about basically a naked body, does it really turn you on? Also the accessories that comes with it, stockings, lingerie, and other stuff? or something that your gir or wife does that drives you crazy...

2007-02-26 07:33:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well we aint together anymore [if youve read my other question ull no more] but we are friends but he bunns[smokes] weed i no people say its not that bad but its damagin him i can tell and people have told me he has done crack aswell [dont no if this is true] i really love him so i dont want him to become a druggy how can i get him to stop without sounding to pushy and without me and him having a argument last time i talked to him when he was on weed he threatend to stab me and i no it might have sounded like a threat but he is the type of person that will do it and the people he hangs around with how cani get him to stop i dont want him to waste his life

2007-02-26 07:31:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER SINCE JULY, AND IM REALLY LIKING HIM!HES A FEW MONTHS YOUNGE THEN ME AND IM ALMOST 18! HE'S THE ONLY GUY WHO HASNT HURT ME.HES REALLY A $GREAT GUY! I HAVE NEVER FELT SO COMFORTABLE WITH MY SELF and im always happy AND HES EVERYTHING MY DAD WANTS FOR ME.. BUT MY PARENTS DONT WANT ME TO HAVE A BF RIGHT NOW..THEY WANT ME TO FOCUS ON SCHOOL .SO I AM DATING HIM W/OUT THEM KNOWING..BUT IM TIRED OF HIDING IT..HOW CAN I MAKE THEM UNDERSTAND THAT I LOVE THEM BUT HE MEANS ALOT TO ME? CUZ NOTHING I TELL THEM SEEMS TO WORK!!..HELP ME!!!!!!!!

2007-02-26 07:31:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I loved one guy first but he acted like he didnt care bout me so i said **** it and i met someone who acted like they did care and me and the good guy are together and i want it to stay that way 4ever but the other guy and i are just friends now so why does it hurt to see him with his girlfriend?

2007-02-26 07:31:07 · 3 answers · asked by get_high_and_hope_it_gets_u_by 2 in Singles & Dating

well i have this ex-friend
and like she was supposed to be my best friend til the end and i treated her like a sister
i stood up for her everytime someone said some **** bout her .
but then i turn my back and this ***** is talkin **** bout me .
yea she told me but she never told me who the girl was tellin this **** to,
and that made me mad
and another thing that made me mad
was that i had her back but she didn't have mine
what should i do?

2007-02-26 07:30:20 · 7 answers · asked by Lil mizz lonee 1 in Friends

i have a best friend, we had stopped for a while because hes has lady that told him to stay away from me but now we talk again and its not the same but. i have constely HAVE weird dreams about him either where together or doin couples things, or he comes out being mad jelouse but i have a lot of dreams wit him in it.what does that mean???

2007-02-26 07:29:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I mess around with one of my guy friends almost every weekend when we are drunk. we RARELY hook up when we are sober but its been known to happen a few times...

He says he wants NOTHING but friendship... but the way he looks at me and kisses me def. doesnt seem like "nothing" we have all the same friends but he is latin and i am american... we have different religious views (could this be an issue??) help me please... i am going crazy wondering what the hell he wants from me!!!

2007-02-26 07:28:56 · 17 answers · asked by Saritah Bonita 2 in Singles & Dating

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2007-02-26 07:28:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My dad tells me at least once a day that I should cut my (just-below-shoulder length) hair, saying that women will find me more attractive with short (ie, inch long or less) hair.

How much truth is in that statement? Or do women prefer a guy with long hair?

2007-02-26 07:27:50 · 23 answers · asked by protectordude 1 in Singles & Dating

Sorry if i was hard on you .You did a good job fixing my email,god bless

2007-02-26 07:27:50 · 1 answers · asked by al c 1 in Weddings

my older half sister told me a week ago that my dad has fathered two or more children-theres no way of knowing, but we know of two-ones around the age 35 and another 25-28. If my dad doesnt tell us the truth when we ask him, we may never know. Any advice?

2007-02-26 07:27:26 · 1 answers · asked by Gotha 1 in Family

I'm married and set up a site on myspace. I have deep feelings for this guy and knew it was wrong so I deleted my account hoping this feeling would stop. It's only gotten worse now that we don't have the connection going. I tried to do what was right by deleting it but now I feel like I'm mourning him.

2007-02-26 07:27:14 · 6 answers · asked by sweet 5 in Singles & Dating

everytime she walks by him in the hall, she nudges him,he hugs her everyday just about, and seems like she flirts with him, and looks at him. but this is comming from a guy who gets pretty jealus easy, and she is just really nice girl. I mean she acts towrds her brother like how she acts towrads him, but there is no way she likes him liek that, well she dont hug her bro, or talk about him as much, or nudge him, when I asked her she said o she wouldn date him..but idk what do you think?

2007-02-26 07:26:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just wondering. i asked my fiance, and his answer wasn't much help ("I don't know!!! why does it matter? you're wearing it!") i've been thinking more and more of making my dress myself, but if i do that, it won't as elaborate or fancy as the ones we've found and really liked. would a simple dress take your breath away when you first see her walk down the aisle, or would a fancy one? (yes i know , you'll be looking at her, not the dress, but she'd be wearing the dress, so you'd see that too!)

2007-02-26 07:25:49 · 8 answers · asked by Duelen 4 in Weddings

Everyone is doing my head in,
I couldn't even park my car in my private bay as someone had put a skip in it,
My kids are driving me nuts
I think I might get drunk
How was your day ??

2007-02-26 07:25:41 · 7 answers · asked by Elle J Morgan 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend whats to get a laptop and i totally support that... he is going to make payments on it witch is also kewl. but i am not trying to sound selfish but i want an engagement ring or something.... he can also make payments on that... i really love him and i want to get married i want to spend the rest of my life with him... i know that a ring costs more then a laptop but i dont know.... maybe i need to just let him get the laptop and not say anything about the ring that i want. i dont know but all i know is that i love him....
what do i do i am so confused and i dont want to ask or say anything about it but at the same time i do.
any suggestions?

2007-02-26 07:25:34 · 6 answers · asked by el Diablo 2 in Singles & Dating

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2007-02-26 07:25:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I promise that this is my only question and/or answer for the day. I will only return to this site tomorrow to check how many of you have promised, hopefully.

2007-02-26 07:25:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I found my husband cheating on me with my sister.I am a contiental lawyer and was away on business.I was to be back home on Monday but came back a week earlier to surprise him.And I caught them having sex in my Bedroom.I am frustrated and didn't know what to do so I told them to left.We are married last year July.I don't have any kids but he has two with another woman he has been with b4 we met.They live with their mother and visit often.I only found out yesterday from my mother(my sister lives with her now.Yes my sister lives b4 this happened and is younger than me,she is only 18)that my sister is pregnant with my husband's child.And also my husband has been calling repeatly to say sorry but i disconnect the phone.Right now I'm frustrated and lost and don't know what to do.

2007-02-26 07:24:29 · 13 answers · asked by Baby Girl R 2 in Marriage & Divorce

WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 1 YEAR AND I KNOW HE LOVES ME HE SHOW IT TO ME BUT IM ALWAYS THE ONE WHO KISS HIM.. WHY?

2007-02-26 07:24:07 · 5 answers · asked by BRENDA A 1 in Singles & Dating