I mess around with one of my guy friends almost every weekend when we are drunk. we RARELY hook up when we are sober but its been known to happen a few times...
He says he wants NOTHING but friendship... but the way he looks at me and kisses me def. doesnt seem like "nothing" we have all the same friends but he is latin and i am american... we have different religious views (could this be an issue??) help me please... i am going crazy wondering what the hell he wants from me!!!
2007-02-26 07:28:56 · 17 answers · asked by Saritah Bonita 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok can i add... i am his first everything and he WANTED to stay a virgin until he was married... he is 21 years old and we had sex... but only cause i have feelings for him... he was saving it all but then gave it all to me...? this still means NOTHING... and (i am NOT a whore!) i really really do like him!
2007-02-26 07:36:00 · update #1
He wants exactly what he is getting, and that is sex. Sex is what he wants, and sex is all he wants. He doesn't want a relationship and he doesn't want commitment. Just sex. Period.
This is something that women need to understand about men. We are able to completely separate love and sex. To us, sex is sex and love is love. We are capable of connecting the two, but we have no need for it.
Stop letting him take advantage of you. Remeber, you are the one in posession of what he wants. You hold all the cards, and you call all the shots. Stop giving in to this a-hole.
2007-02-26 07:37:35 · answer #1 · answered by OMGWTFBBQ!!1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, he is not into you at all.
He just wants sex and you seem to be available.
I really do believe that the reason he gave it up with you was just to make sure that when the right one comes around he is not going to make a fool of himself.
I have a younger brother he is 20 and well since I can remember my parents house has been full of friend of his. Listening to their conversations and how they talk about the girls they sleep with or mess around with. Is sad, none of them seem to be interested in the girls they sleep with, they are waiting for the right one, the one that will not be available to them everything they call. When you see them with the girls you won't never believe that just minutes ago they were talking crap about them.
I know one of them found her and I can tell you that this guy has change. The way he talks about her.
The fact that you both from different backgrounds has nothing to do with his lack of commitment.
If you are really into him, stop being available to him. /Better yet find someone that is going to respect you.
2007-02-26 07:56:55 · answer #2 · answered by hayde_kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are mixed signals, so it's hard for anyone to say what he really wants from you. Maybe it's just occasional sexual fulfillment. Maybe there's a chance for more. Who knows?
The important thing is that you remind yourself what YOU want from HIM, and whether the way things are going right now suffices for you. If it doesn't, stop giving him the physical intimacy unless he makes more of a commitment to your relationship. If it does suffice, keep having fun and don't worry so much about what his thoughts are.
2007-02-26 07:32:34 · answer #3 · answered by Buying is Voting 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just messin around and maybe he really is just scared and wants to know how u feel about it!! Talk to him and tell him that it doesnt feel like just friends. The worst thing that could happen is that he could tell u the same thing that he has been telling u but girl i think that if he just wants u for that u need to leave his *** alone!
2007-02-26 07:33:53 · answer #4 · answered by get_high_and_hope_it_gets_u_by 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants sex.
If you want more, stop fooling around with him and find other guys. Also, getting drunk is not the best route to long term happiness. It's fun for a while, but good guys that make good long term mates don't get drunk all the time.
2007-02-26 07:32:17 · answer #5 · answered by jplrvflyer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he doesnt want a relashionship right now and he is just looking to have some fun and he enjoys having fun with you
2007-02-26 07:32:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
duh??
all he wants is friendship, if your willing to still "hook" up with him after getting no committment thats your decision.
2007-02-26 07:32:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anthony C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to what he says....nothing but a friendship.....otherwise you're setting yourself up for a fall!! blessed be
2007-02-26 07:32:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said it yourself, you guys always mess around, and if he wants nothing, he's pretty much sayin, you're a whore but i still wanna mess around until i find a respectable young lady...he's just using, duh!!
2007-02-26 07:32:45 · answer #9 · answered by truesoldier4ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably just wants some ***. us latinos are pretty passionate. hope it helps hot pants!
2007-02-26 07:32:58 · answer #10 · answered by murf6464 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋