WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER SINCE JULY, AND IM REALLY LIKING HIM!HES A FEW MONTHS YOUNGE THEN ME AND IM ALMOST 18! HE'S THE ONLY GUY WHO HASNT HURT ME.HES REALLY A $GREAT GUY! I HAVE NEVER FELT SO COMFORTABLE WITH MY SELF and im always happy AND HES EVERYTHING MY DAD WANTS FOR ME.. BUT MY PARENTS DONT WANT ME TO HAVE A BF RIGHT NOW..THEY WANT ME TO FOCUS ON SCHOOL .SO I AM DATING HIM W/OUT THEM KNOWING..BUT IM TIRED OF HIDING IT..HOW CAN I MAKE THEM UNDERSTAND THAT I LOVE THEM BUT HE MEANS ALOT TO ME? CUZ NOTHING I TELL THEM SEEMS TO WORK!!..HELP ME!!!!!!!!
2007-02-26 07:31:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hi,
I feel your pain, my girlfriend has been through this too...in fact EXACTLY the same thing EXCEPT everyone knows about the relationship.
If you're not even serious enough to tell anyone about this then your relationship is already doomed.
If you're gonna tell everyone, carry on reading.
Look you're 18, you're legally an adult. The ONLY way my girlfriend got her mum to stop interfering with this (cause her mum wants her to do studying and not be with me), was when she said she's had enough and that if she's going to make her life hell, she knows where she is more loved and that's with me. She packed her bags and was about to move in with me (and my family, I'm also 18). Her mum realized that she was serious about our relationship and well last week she apologized to her.
Now that way is a bit extreme, but if you're only happy with your boyfriend, thats where you have to be.
Being 18 you're old enough to make these big decisions for yourself. And if this relationship is serious, he'll understand too.
Good luck
(P.S I've been with this girl for two years though, and we're very serious. I'm not sure the same situation applies to you. If you're not certain about your future, don't bother, your parents are probably right)
2007-02-26 07:40:44 · answer #1 · answered by matty_boy1989 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't get them to see it because they are stuck on wanting you to finish school, which isn't such a bad thing is it? They want your focus, on your work and not on some guy. It's probably not even THIS guy, it's just that it's A guy.
You can't do anything but live your life. While living your life however, don't be disrespectful, don't do things that are out of your character or they will think the guy is changing you and will really give you a hard time. The only way to do it is to show them by your actions, that you are happy.
2007-02-26 15:37:56 · answer #2 · answered by Caramella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would make a little video for them.
Maybe get a little cheerleader outfit...some oils and what not. Have him really go to town...and show your parents the result....probably best to throw in some props...maybe a midget or two
2007-02-26 15:36:17 · answer #3 · answered by Dr Phil 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well then tell your parent that you knpw he is right for you and if they have a problem with it then they are going to have to deal with it
2007-02-26 15:36:41 · answer #4 · answered by bubble_gum4488 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
parents are looking out for their interests . you are looking out for yours . you need a conference with your parents . tell them .if they want another dog ,then so be it .and they will always have a dog to please them . love conquers all
2007-02-26 15:39:16 · answer #5 · answered by josh s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know , make him a little card
2007-02-26 15:44:07 · answer #6 · answered by amanda 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont tell em .................till maybe everything is looking REAL good in school.
2007-02-26 15:37:11 · answer #7 · answered by princess cc 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋