Family & Relationships - 26 February 2007

Okay I wrote about my guy friend on this site before, stating how he is insecure/unconfident, shy, and cannot seem to get a girl to save his life(he's 26). Recently I was hanging out with a group of friends and my guy friend was not there. I mentioned my guy friend in a story I was telling, and they started saying that he was "gay" and/or a "nerd"! I KNOW that my friend is anything BUT gay! Yet the guys I was hanging with claimed that he seems gay. The girls I was hanging with said they didn't get any gay vibes from him at all, just that he's a nerd. Point is, being thought of as "gay" or "nerdy" are the LAST things that my TOTALLY STRAIGHT guy friend would want to be thought of! What should he do?? I keep telling him to talk more, and he's always like "If I say anything, people will find fault with it and get angry at me"...super paranoia. But now because he's all quiet/stiff around people, they think he's a nerd!! How can I help? And what things will make him look like less of a nerd

2007-02-26 06:59:33 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

CAN SUM1 GIV ME AN HEAD START.........wen it wz ur wedding wt did u do 1st, 2nd, 3rd...n so on? n thank u so much for ur help!!

2007-02-26 06:57:59 · 25 answers · asked by ujjie 1 in Weddings

Do you still send flowers? He's having a viewing Wednesday night and a memorial service Thursday morning. What gesture would be appropriate since he's not being buried?

2007-02-26 06:57:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

There is a girl at my school that is 15 and i am 18 and i really like her and she always flirting with me and she told me too and she said for me to go out with her is to go ask her mom and dad.What should i do I really want her and i like her alot bad

2007-02-26 06:56:42 · 6 answers · asked by Jools 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 06:56:34 · 83 answers · asked by cheesy_sausage@btinternet.com 1 in Friends

It's been a week since I broke up with her, and can't stop thinking about her....should I go on craigslist and find a cheap fling to stop thinking about her?

2007-02-26 06:56:05 · 16 answers · asked by Chris J 2 in Singles & Dating

I totally understand about her son Daniel.I lost my son last year and he was as dear to me as Daniel was to her. Most people do not understand the depth of such love, where it leads when you're all alone in the world and your child is the only beautiful thing you have to bond with. My son was this to me. I have also created a web site in loving memory and if you wish to view it , check it out at www.chadchlebowskimemorialsanctuary.com and give me any feedback you can. I only hope some one does this for AnnaNicole. Her mother is disgusting, the judge was disgusting, it was a total fiasco in lieu of the fact that someone very beautiful and dear was murdered. I believe AnnaNicole was murdered. Whoever did this is trying to blame her depressed drug addition and has utilized this excuse to the fullest. I hope justice is done. I hope she is at peace with Daniel, just as I hope my son Chad is finally at peace. What is your believe on her death?

2007-02-26 06:55:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

MY EX BOYFRIEND JUST GOT BACK HOME FROM THE COAST GUARD, WE'VE BEEN HANGING OUT EVER SINCE THEN. HE TOLD ME THAT OLD EMOTIONS ARE ARISING ALL OVER AGAIN, I TRIED TO IGNORE IT BUT I CAN'T BECAUSE I FEEL THE SAME WAY TOO, BUT HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND.I'M SO CONFUSSED I DON'T WHAT TO DO
ANY THOUGHT OR ADVICE??????

2007-02-26 06:55:25 · 12 answers · asked by Georgiana 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance is adamant in his belief that registering for gifts is tacky. He says it's like demanding someone buy something for you. My mom wants me to register for a shower that her good friend is throwing for me. Can I just not register for gifts and let people know of things we need?

2007-02-26 06:54:51 · 15 answers · asked by orangeflameninja 4 in Weddings

my husband car insurance went up ever since i got my license.... i'm a stay at home mom and he's telling me i should start paying him for car insurance, but i have my license but i don't drive.... why is he telling me to pay up if i don't even have a car to drive?and i recently found out he's been starting a computer business behind my back.... why is he trying to hide that?

2007-02-26 06:54:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my best friend don't have yet the date for the wedding, but she has the colors choosen (aqua blue, brown with lilac and green and gold as accents for details) she is hoping for a fall wedding but i am clueless for flowers that will work under those colors, specially blue and i am trying to help her with this detail...
her wedding gown will be on the ivory golden color, and so far will be an outdoor ceremony with an indoors reception...as a note she lives in Puerto Rico, so living in the Caribbean is also important when choosing flowers...

Thank you ya'll for any suggestions...

2007-02-26 06:54:48 · 6 answers · asked by D' 2 in Weddings

2007-02-26 06:54:46 · 14 answers · asked by stormie p 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my boyfriend for 5 yrs. The first two years we were together I thought I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him. However, by the 3rd year things started to change for the worst. He has a drug problem that he refuses to get help with. I realize that I'm powerless to help him if he doesn't even want to help himself. After five years I'm tired of my needs and wants going unmet. I wish him well but can no longer tolerate his inability to change. What would you do if you were in this situation. I don't know what to do to make this relationship work when I'm the one doing all the work so I want to move on.

2007-02-26 06:54:45 · 6 answers · asked by strawberriesilove 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

What do you think of getting married for reasons other than love? I've been a single mom for over 3 years now (my daughter's 3 1/2)and after going out ONE time in over 2 years and using the patch and morning after pill, I had a son. His father and I do not know each other well, but he has been staying with us and helping out a lot. He wants to get married (hes 20 years older than me) and do the 'right' thing. I am not in love with him, but having the support and help is prooving to be much more important to me now than love. I don't know if it's because I have had no help or support for so long that this idea appeals to me or what... I'd like to know if anyone else has been in a similar situation and what the outcome was.

2007-02-26 06:52:57 · 20 answers · asked by feather 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-26 06:52:46 · 6 answers · asked by Melanie Y 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i have a boyfriend but............ i like somebody else which ya'll should all know roman by now. any ways i want to talk to him but i dont want my bf to see either what do i do? i also want to kiss him but he said im to young!!!!!!!

2007-02-26 06:52:00 · 14 answers · asked by Arien S 1 in Singles & Dating

PLEASE HELP

2007-02-26 06:50:50 · 17 answers · asked by popc 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-26 06:50:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

his roommate told me....she said that he was so upset from losing me cuz my mom didnt want us to be together and neither did my best friend Brad...Brad sent him very mean messages and told him to leave me alone....but he got so upset him committed suicide!!!! i did love him so much and nows hes gone and we will never be together.....i dont know what to do any more..now Brad wont have ne thing to do with me cuz i was mean to him when he told me what he said on the messages...and right before that he told me he loves me more than a friend and i do too but i didnt know he felt that way towards me....im losing everyone i have ever loved....

2007-02-26 06:49:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive been with my boyfriend for at least 2yrs now on and off and i was wondering whats it like to be in love, Because i may be!

2007-02-26 06:48:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what does "tug job" mean to you?

2007-02-26 06:47:52 · 7 answers · asked by truesoldier4ever 2 in Singles & Dating

I have liked him for a while now and he kinda knows. (dont ask another story). Anyway we talk some and have a lot in common. I really enjoy talking to him. In the hallway I see him looking at me and when I look he smiles a little. He says I look like my sister.
He has a younger and mean girlfreind who is mean to everyone but not around him. He knows though. At the dance he didnt hang out with her and hung out with me a little bit. Do you think he likes me? what should I do? And I definitely dont want to be the reason for them to break up, if they do.

2007-02-26 06:47:07 · 7 answers · asked by Chat Noir 3 in Singles & Dating

i have been with my bf for 4 months, i have fallen for him. we were planning everything together, i was going to move up there in time. he was the one basically planning our lifes together.

he has been off with me the past 2 days and now he has text to say hes not ready for a relationship as he was hurt so badly by his ex and he cant cope with going through it again.
he said he wants us to stay friends and that he still wants to come and visit me once a month and stay for the wkend
(we live 100 miles apart)

he said he wants to go travelling and he needs some space and time on his own.
he said he dont know if he will ever be ready for a relationship.
we are both 25

he has hurt me so much and i cant stop crying, my heart is completly broken as i thought we were gonna be together forever.
please help me? i dont understand all this.

2007-02-26 06:46:22 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to him in the emai ? I hadnt seen him since april of last year.. im nt sure if he remembers me or not..He knows where im from and all..ps please read the first question i asked..than you know what im talking about..thanks..

2007-02-26 06:46:16 · 3 answers · asked by Sun shinning its a a good thing 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay so I am about to turn 30 and am a bit of a late bloomer. I am still a virgin and I was wondering if there were any other 30 year old virgins out there both male and female. I made a choice to stay a virgin and was wondering if anybody else out there has made this choice and if they find it hard to stick to at times. Serious replies only.

2007-02-26 06:46:08 · 1 answers · asked by broadwaydiva27 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a boyfriend whos ready for sex what to do

2007-02-26 06:46:08 · 39 answers · asked by SHAMEQUA R 1 in Singles & Dating

For around a long time,my boyfriend and i had been really happy together.However,during that time we ended up going on a break,and he started this girl.The break ended and we were back together because we missed eachother and he stopped seeing her.We were really happy again for a long time,but then he hurt me by taking something out on me one night,shouting and swearing and broke something.I ended up splitting up with him.He promised he was going to get help to sort himself out for him and for me.So that night after out talk,i sat and cried while he went to a party.The girl he was seeing on our break was there,they got steaming drunk together,then they slept in the same bed.He said nothing happened,but she was scared to be left on her own and didnt want him to go.He said he was really sorry,and that he was phoning the anger management place that day and that he loved me.He does bad things then begs for forgiveness.Do you think what he did was wrong?

2007-02-26 06:45:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My beau is mad at me over a car we bought together. He ended up throwing the keys on the table and storming out of the house telling me to "keep the car, I don't want anything to do with you anymore". He caught a greyhound bus (hrs) back to his home state, and refuses to talk to me. Should I continue trying to call him and text him or should I let it go? And how can I stay busy and quit thinking about the incident. I'm so depressed.

2007-02-26 06:45:46 · 19 answers · asked by bubblyboo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with this person for 8yrs and our relationship isn't improving. He cares for me but he doesn't love me. He says he loves me but he's not 'in love' with me. He doesn't spend any quality time with me and he blames me for everything. He's always outside doing a crossword puzzle. He doesn't help me with anything. Just when I think it is over, he suprises me and we are back loving each other again. Until the next time. So I really don't know if he wants to be with me or he's just playing games.
In other wqords where he is 'In control' the relationship
he says things to make me feel like I'm the person at fualt when I know that I'm not.
what should I do

2007-02-26 06:43:40 · 6 answers · asked by stylishclaudia 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 06:43:28 · 10 answers · asked by littlereddragon 1 in Marriage & Divorce