I have been speaking with this person, who I met virtually online for about 6 mos. We have not met in person, but – had a relationship over the phone and webcam for months. We spoke about anything and everything. We would speak for hours at a time and everyday. We both are adults with children from past marriages, and we would share about the lives of our children. We had many plans on meeting, but, situations would arise. Things have not been good at all for the past weeks – its gonna be about 2 wks that we stopped speaking with each other. I don’t understand what led us to this point of not speaking with one another any longer. There was a time that I couldn’t speak with him for a couple of days, and it felt as the world ended to him. And since the incidence, he has backed off from me, and says “we both know, something is missing”. I feel as if I have hurt his feelings. I have sort of backed off and gave him room to himself, but, before then – I would call him and he would call back ASAP and now – I only get his voicemail 95% of the time. But, if I text him – responds back automatically. He just gives smart remarks such as, I found time for him, or he is surprised that I wait for his call. I know when a person wants to gradually forget a person, they would stop responding back to the person in everyway, but, I do get some sort of response from him. What should I do?? Backoff for a bit, or just totally move on. I feel hurt, and he is being mean to me. I know, everyone is gonna be saying “YOU HAVE NOT MET”, why you have these feelings developed??, why are you so depressed?? Why are you hurt??, but, I cant get him out of my mind, Is it easy for a man or women, who have been speaking with one another for 6 mos – to forget eachother in a split second??...why am I soo pressed over this.
2007-02-26
07:50:59
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